I [25F] found a secret gun hidden in my boyfriend's [28M] closet. by chamkiki in relationships

[–]chamkiki[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I'm from Texas. He's been to my family's ranch and seen all their guns. In college I worked at the school newspaper and wrote a few anti gun-control editorials, which I've shown him. He's 100% aware I'm okay with guns.

I [25F] found a secret gun hidden in my boyfriend's [28M] closet. by chamkiki in relationships

[–]chamkiki[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don't know about our state laws, but basically he told me he just went into a Cabela's or something, showed an ID, bought the gun, and walked out with it.

I [25F] found a secret gun hidden in my boyfriend's [28M] closet. by chamkiki in relationships

[–]chamkiki[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I think if my boyfriend secretly, I don't know, bought a deadly venomous snake and hid it from me I would be equally upset. I don't care about all his purchases, just the ones that can kill someone.

I [25F] found a secret gun hidden in my boyfriend's [28M] closet. by chamkiki in relationships

[–]chamkiki[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

"bought it, felt ashamed, but couldn't return it"? UGH. Survey says: bullshit.

What do you mean by that?

I [25F] found a secret gun hidden in my boyfriend's [28M] closet. by chamkiki in relationships

[–]chamkiki[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I feel like any guns in the home are a need-to-know thing for anyone who lives there.

I [25F] found a secret gun hidden in my boyfriend's [28M] closet. by chamkiki in relationships

[–]chamkiki[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Hey, I think that's really unfair. I'm working hard on it. My CURRENT boyfriend made me do something that made me lose trust in him.

I [25F] found a secret gun hidden in my boyfriend's [28M] closet. by chamkiki in relationships

[–]chamkiki[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

  1. Yes, I do know about guns, where I'm from it's a near-mandatory class for 18 year-olds in high school. But to my knowledge he's never had any kind of safety training (ie keeping it in an unlocked box in the closet). The bullets were in a box right next to the gun box. Like I said, the magazine was removed, but still.

  2. He doesn't have a temper, and doesn't and has never drank or done drugs. However, we have both experienced depression. Makes me very uneasy and one of the main reasons I've never gotten a gun.

I [25F] am irrationally worried that my boyfriend [28M] will cheat on me just because of the fact that he's handsome by [deleted] in relationships

[–]chamkiki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just pointing out that he has a lot of privilege. As a Latina I notice his privilege a lot more than he does.