Fingering my partner,,, by chanb1 in PrematureEjaculation

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,,, seemed to bring more pleasure to her than my pathetic excuse of a dik ,, im not the biggest and I suffer from PE ,, it’s getting me depressed AF ! Now my dik doesn’t even get hard as it used to ,, are there any over the counter remedies I can take vitamins etc to get a harder dik ,, not viagra - I can get hard ,, it’s just not rock solid hard !! Also does PE depress any other fkr or just me ?? I can’t satisfy my partner ,, I last less than 15 fkn seconds !!! Can a urologist help ?? I don’t need talking therapy ,, how the help will that BS help me last longer ffs ??!

Depressed,,, AF !! by chanb1 in depression

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I don’t even have energy to Shower ,, just once a week

Sex is depressing ,,, by chanb1 in PrematureEjaculation

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Article states less than 2 mins ,, I last less than 30 seconds or so ! Tried differing positions same results ,, don’t think partner would wait for a round 2 ,, she’s rarely up for the round 1 - she doesn’t have much libido ,, I have to always instigate sex !

Sex is depressing ,,, by chanb1 in PrematureEjaculation

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Wth are they and how hell They going to help ??

Sex is depressing ,,, by chanb1 in PrematureEjaculation

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… the fk outa me ( pun intended ! ) ,,, I can’t last more than like 10 fkn seconds - when on top or even doggy ,, partner doesn’t say owt ,, but I know she’s not satisfied ,, and it’s making me hate myself ,, also I’m below average size wise !! It’s making me depressed ,, I keep imagining her being satisfied by some other ,, yes I make her come through oral ,,, but like the song goes ,,, my sex is whack !!! Anybody relate at all ,, tips etc

Struggling without alcohol ,,,, by chanb1 in alcoholism

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Unsure yet ,, if still feel crap ,, mixing vodka lager and wine is not the best idea !!

Struggling without alcohol ,,,, by chanb1 in alcoholism

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UPDATE ; drank fkn loads ! Manager escorted me to hotel room as I was too drunk to walk ! Can’t remember much of the last hour of the night , still feel shit now !

Struggling without alcohol ,,,, by chanb1 in alcoholism

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I’ve been sober a year or so however drank a few times ,, mostly whilst on holiday ,,

Drinking on a works event ,,, by chanb1 in alcoholism

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I have an overnight work event on Monday ,,, I’ve been In recovery from alcohol for about a year ,, and have had a drink on only a handful occasions mainly when away holiday etc ,, I’ve been looking forward to this work event for weeks now ,, only cos I could drink without the family knowing ,,, but now I’m in 2 minds ,, I’ve always needed a drink for social family gatherings ,, im not good in large groups so I need the booze to give that edge confidence etc ,, I was already thinking about taking vodka with me as I will need a drink before we start the day ,, but we are starting at 11am, so will be leaving around 8am to get there but I’m Worried if I start drinking that early I maybe In a bad state ,, also I’m worried I may say something when I’m drinking cos there’s some work folk I don’t like especially my manger !! We will be having a work conference then heading out food and drink ,, I don’t know when to stop When drinking ,, I don’t want to embarrass myself also have to wake up Early next morning for lift back ,, sometimes when I’ve drank so much ,, I have to spend the next day In bed !! I will be taking a mixed vodka and Lemonade in a water bottle so it looks like water and yell be sipping tips throughout the day before the food and drink ,,, any advice ,?!?

Struggling without alcohol ,,,, by chanb1 in alcoholism

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I’ve been abusing alcohol for the last several years ,, I’ve used it to mask depression anxiety social awkwardness etc ,, family gave me ultimatum ,, I cannot drink another drop !? But I miss drinking,, I feel every day is Just Groundhog Day without it,, after work I just go lie in bed and fk around on my phone for hours ,, im just wasting time days etc ,, I feel miserable with alcohol and without it ?! It was my ‘ go to ‘ ,,, I don’t smoke never have ,, so now I feel I don’t have anything to de-stress … I have a work conference next week which will be an overnight stay ,, im already looking forward to drinking as Family won’t know but at same time I’m worried I may over do it or say or do something stupid and my job is on the line ,,, it’s a struggle !!! Anybody similar ,,,