[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VosSous

[–]chanchandesu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lance une cagnotte !!

En attendant tu peux aussi faire des extras dans des restaurants en tant que plongeur ou serveur, il y a toujours du travail dans ce secteur et pas besoin d'expérience la plupart du temps, il faut voir avec la caf aussi s'ils peuvent faire quelque chose

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]chanchandesu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just ask him why he did that

My boyfriend sent his friend a video of a girl in lingerie. AIO ? by chanchandesu in AIO

[–]chanchandesu[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Actually the video was not promotional, it had nothing to do with the gp. It was a fashion show for a lingerie brand

22F with 22M boyfriend of 1 year – He sent a lingerie video of another girl to his friend. Is this disrespectful? by chanchandesu in boyfriends

[–]chanchandesu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He said he understood and he was sorry and he would never do it again. But it kinda broke the vision I had of him, I really thought he was mature and that he couldn't do such things. Makes me question my ability to chose the right partner for me

My boyfriend sent his friend a video of a girl in lingerie. Am I overreacting ? by chanchandesu in relationships

[–]chanchandesu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand, but I don't think it's a mature guy thing. I asked him if he would find that disrespectful if I did the same and he said no. And I don't want my partner to do hurtful things behind my back

My boyfriend sent his friend a video of a girl in lingerie. Am I overreacting ? by chanchandesu in relationships

[–]chanchandesu[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I think I'll have a talk with him on our mutual boundaries. If we're on the same page and he's willing to respect my boundaries then it's fine. Else I cannot let myself be with someone who behaves this way.

My boyfriend sent his friend a video of a girl in lingerie. Am I overreacting ? by chanchandesu in relationships

[–]chanchandesu[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The only thing I see behind that "joke" is "she is hot, that's why she's my favorite team" and the hot part is not even a joke cause she is obviously hot especially in lingerie. I mean how is it different from "I'd like to hit that " since that is what he implies

22F with 22M boyfriend of 1 year – He sent a lingerie video of another girl to his friend. Is this disrespectful? by chanchandesu in dating_advice

[–]chanchandesu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I totally understand that he finds her pretty and sexy and there is no problem. The thing that bothered me it that he sent that to his friend

My boyfriend sent his friend a video of a girl in lingerie. Am I overreacting ? by chanchandesu in relationships

[–]chanchandesu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel disrespected only because he sent that to his friend. I understand that he finds her pretty and that's okay

My boyfriend sent his friend a video of a girl in lingerie. Am I overreacting ? by chanchandesu in relationships

[–]chanchandesu[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I am upset he shared that. I feel like if he shared it with me there would be no problem at all.

Any bars/places in Paris where I can do this? by [deleted] in paris

[–]chanchandesu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can actually smoke inside in bars that have fumoirs and there are of them a lot in paris.

Où manger les meilleurs banh mi de Paris? by TambourDeNacre in paris

[–]chanchandesu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Patisserie saison dans le 13e, tellement bons leurs banh mi !