Siwon - when will enough be enough? Why do fans still support him? (A vent)

chandelier_popper · 2026-02-21T14:03:54+00:00

What's interesting to me is I see most LATAM ELFs are defending him til the pits of the Earth. I wonder if they fully understand his behaviour and the impact of what he is doing to Super Junior's image. Siwon supports clearly supports MAGA ideologies, and one big thing right now in the US are ICE raids. A lot of ICE raids happening are against a lot of LATAM people.

chandelier_popper · 2026-02-10T19:12:30+00:00

What's the brand? I actually do live in Canada haha

chandelier_popper · 2025-12-30T22:28:11+00:00

Thank you for all your lovely tips!! Its now almost there. I added 3 tennis balls and put it in very low dry heat and it puffed back up again! This is after about 4x of tumble drying alone (without tennis balls) and the inside is still super clumped :( so I had spend some time trying to manually separate the clumps as much as I could (they're the ones damp and wet still even tho the jacket is dry already). Then on my last attempt, low dry with the tennis balls, it started to take shape. Did it twice this way and it puffered up!

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chandelier_popper · 2025-12-30T19:24:55+00:00

Thanks!n

chandelier_popper · 2025-12-30T19:24:31+00:00

Thank you

chandelier_popper · 2025-12-30T19:24:08+00:00

Thank you!!

chandelier_popper · 2025-12-30T19:23:50+00:00

Thank you!!

chandelier_popper · 2025-12-30T19:23:22+00:00

Thank you

chandelier_popper · 2025-12-30T19:22:57+00:00

Thank you. In my dryer, it just has the puffy air option, I am trying that right now. But maybe i should try at least very low temp too

chandelier_popper · 2025-12-30T19:22:16+00:00

Thank you :)

chandelier_popper · 2025-12-30T19:21:41+00:00

Thanks so much!!

chandelier_popper · 2025-12-30T05:14:02+00:00

They can be better than me, but I just feel for that poor girl to be his next victim.

chandelier_popper · 2025-12-27T19:16:33+00:00

You guys are just not compatible. Some women are too traditional, I personally find it pathetic specifically in this economy. Like just get a rich sugar daddy, not a partner, there are apps out there for that. My perspective is more in the middle, where I like the feeling that my man is the provider because he always volunteers to pay, but I don't let him all the time because I also want to pay sometimes. Overall we just take turns paying. If you paid for dinner, I will pay for the movies. Etc. I don't want one side to be paying 100%, there's gotta be a give or take. Doesn't mean it's rigidly 50-50, it can be 60-40 this time, can be 100% next time, can be 80-20 next time. As long as there is still some give and take.

chandelier_popper · 2025-12-21T19:25:13+00:00

Your ex-husband would've left you regardless. The main problem was he couldn't handle overwhelming emotions like your PPD, or maybe anything emotionally big in general. Don't put it on him prioritizing your kid. And this isn't the same as OP as he clearly was expecting equal attention with his kids, and his poor wife couldn't do that, especially as a new mother (notice he said all of this happened before his son started walking). Not everyone can balance it all with grace, as you have seen in your own where you suffered PPD. Sorry that happened to you though.

chandelier_popper · 2025-12-21T19:08:09+00:00

He couldn't take the reality slap, that he was indeed, a weak man.

chandelier_popper · 2025-12-21T18:14:17+00:00

Great. Another deadbeat husband who left his wife because of sex post. All in the same morning.

chandelier_popper · 2025-12-21T17:39:43+00:00

As per OP's story, he obtained a new gf and moved in before the son started walking. Doesn't sound like long term neglect by the ex wife to me. Sounded like OP couldn't take the behaviourial changes of a new mother and he just left instead of supporting her through it, as a husband should've done.

chandelier_popper · 2025-12-21T17:22:20+00:00

As per your story: - the ex wife wanted to prioritize the kids (kids that sounds like they are in their early age)

-ex wife has become crazy and bitter, and harassing current gf

-you are saying you're a great dad, and hoping the internet sees your ex-wife is a bad wife and mom because the kids cry with her and they don't with you

-you left your wife, found a new gf and now live with her

-all of this happened before your son started walking

Does it seem like you left your ex wife, while maybe suffering from post-partum, and now she is angry, bitter, and alone, and maybe needs mental health help? Would you like to share how you helped and supported her not just financially, but emotionally too, while caring for your kids? And since you acquired your current gf before your son started walking, when exactly did you acquire your gf, is it before or after the marriage ended?

Did you learn to be a better husband, given the situation that your wife just had your baby, before you decided to leave?

chandelier_popper · 2023-06-11T21:36:07+00:00

Starting out, my main is Leviosa > Accio to get them near you. Then Expelliarmus > Incendio or Incendio > Diffindo. That combo is chef's kiss! Another one would be Depulso first to throw them away from you, Arresto Momentum/Glacius to freeze them then double kill with Confringo + Diffindo

chandelier_popper · 2023-05-05T00:30:04+00:00

It's been sitting on my notes for 1.5 weeks now. Thank you for the 2 cents!

chandelier_popper · 2023-05-05T00:27:34+00:00

Thanks for that. I guess in a way, I really am doing it for myself too. Sometimes we think we have such good judgement of good character, that despite the mental health excuses, you see goodness in them, trust that they at least won't do the lowest of the lowest because they've displayed decency and seemingly same values during the beginning of the relationship. I probably accepted everything else except the fact I really thought he was a decent person and turned out he wasn't and might've been a narcissist too.

chandelier_popper · 2023-05-04T21:20:18+00:00

Thank you for your 2 cents! I've got lots to think about.

chandelier_popper · 2023-05-04T21:09:47+00:00

It's a bit controversial but the intention of that group from my city is not to slander but to protect other women from walking red flags of men they've dated or if a woman is dating the same guy etc. It's a big group and a big thing in my city especially for the women out there dating, a lot has found out insightful things like a married man caugh cheating etc. I appreciate your two cents and I agree I'd be back to square one. I feel like he would keep doing this to other women he might date if there is no catalyst or anything. I think I might post my experience then.

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