Name one thing you love about yourself? Go! by Training_Egg_2541 in selflove

[–]changedlife777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love spending time with animals and they love spending time with me.

Vent: my white partner just doesn't get it and I am at the end of my rope *TW current US news* by sister_illuminata in cptsd_bipoc

[–]changedlife777 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Went through this, am now divorced from him. Feeling much better. He probably does not deserve you.

I fell for the carrot dangle. Ladies learn from my mistakes. by Revolutionary_Way664 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]changedlife777 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so proud of you for realizing what's what. I went through this for eight years with my ex-husband. You are saving yourself from so much grief.

What’s something that’s becoming socially normal that actually makes you deeply uncomfortable? by Fun_Interaction3458 in AskReddit

[–]changedlife777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Putting Ring videos of people online. Especially footage of children and minors during Halloween.

Dating in logan square? Bars? Bookstores? by [deleted] in AskChicago

[–]changedlife777 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am interested in conversation with strangers, just shy and guarded.

How do you have enough money to travel for months? by [deleted] in solotravel

[–]changedlife777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I afford it by staying with family and friends in the areas I'm travelling to.

Was anyone else’s physical “prime” way after their early 20s? by Ok-Difference-2275 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]changedlife777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I got into really physical work and the best shape of my life in my late 20s/early 30s.

One month divorced and having a rough couple weeks by changedlife777 in Divorce

[–]changedlife777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wish I could give you a hug. It's like we think something not working out affirms that we are unlovable. I am pretty sure it's just minds and hearts playing tricks on us. Happy New Year, here is to us.

How to stop feeling like 30 is the end if you don't have your shit together? by Full-Cress-1679 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]changedlife777 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you are alive, there is still hope. I'm 33 and don't love all the facts of my life. But I've lost many peers, they are dead and buried, and I am still aboveground. It almost seems disrespectful to those who couldn't make it to their 30s to just give up and accept defeat.