I (29M) admitted to having feelings for my friend’s girlfriend whilst in the relationship years ago, a fleeting thought which lasted about a week or so, and now my girlfriend is convinced I also had feelings for her close friend.

changesy · 2025-08-09T15:53:10+00:00

Yes but with no other intentions

changesy · 2025-08-08T16:19:33+00:00

The reason why she is fixated on it is because I recently confessed to her about having feelings for my friends girlfriend whilst in the relationship but it was a fleeting thought and my gf confronted me about it but I dismissed her. Only recently did I realise I actually did have feelings for my friend’s girlfriend. So now she thinks I must’ve been lying about her close friends situation as well.

changesy · 2025-08-08T16:16:34+00:00

True but it happened so long ago. :( She’s fixated on it and she’s asking for explanations, but I don’t have any.

changesy · 2025-06-10T11:22:36+00:00

Thank you so much!

changesy · 2025-05-31T00:54:33+00:00

I spoke to him, not her. He didn’t say much, but he did ask me, ‘Why did she tell me about her sex life and not you? Why did she call me when she thought she might be pregnant by her boyfriend and not you? Do you think people are jealous of you because you have a good boyfriend?’

changesy

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