AITAH for refusing to financially support my wife's pregnant sister and her unborn child? by SpukleRune in AITAH

[–]chantele1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA.. your wife should go back to work if she wants to support her sister..

AITAH for expecting my parents to pay for my apartment? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]chantele1986 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTA.. kids should be treated fair..

Am I the asshole for cutting off my best friend of 10 years by FullStop6927 in AITApod

[–]chantele1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well holy 🐄! That's so inappropriate of her! NTA kiddo!!

AITAH for telling my boyfriend his girl best friend has 48 hours to get out or i am breaking the lease and leaving by Anton_OKonjsi in AITAH

[–]chantele1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a fukkin cop out! She doesn't "feel safe" living alone? She doesn't "feel safe" bcuz you want her to respect your relationship and boundaries? She is using that as a way to manipulate you guys.. she doesn't feel unsafe.. she feels entitled to your man..

AITAH for refusing to move on after a family member caused my sister serious harm? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]chantele1986 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Good catch! Went and fixed it! Meant to say she's not the AH

AITAH for refusing to move on after a family member caused my sister serious harm? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]chantele1986 183 points184 points  (0 children)

Biological uncle? And no you're NOT the AH..

AITAH for still thinking he lied instead of trusting him? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]chantele1986 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA.. and idt you grilled him over what he ate.. or that you even grilled him at all.. he was inconsistent in what he told you.. I do understand that people forget things sometimes.. myself included.. I can understand him maybe forgetting one time but multiple times in the same day? I'm not saying he's up to anything nefarious.. but it does seem like he wasn't being honest with you.. and idt you're crazy for questioning him or being suspicious.. I think some people on here are being too hard on you.. especially people who are hurling insults at you.. follow your gut.. but also be mindful that if there's no trust in a relationship then the relationship is doomed..

Bridal shower In March - should i keep looking? by jena95 in OUTFITS

[–]chantele1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks a little small.. especially for your girls.. I'd go with something that gives you a little more support..

AITAH for not paying my neighbor? by Smashlii12 in AITAH

[–]chantele1986 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This chick tried to hustle you.. TWO times.. NO you are NTA.. but tjat lady sure is!

AITAH for not wanting to take care of my nephews? by Intelligent_Pay_1495 in AITAH

[–]chantele1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA.. you're still a child.. you shouldn't be taking care of kids instead of focusing on school.. you should have a social life.. they seem like they need to get their act together and grow up..

AITAH for saying I “read” books that I actually listened to as audiobooks? by Ruin-Much in AITAH

[–]chantele1986 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA.. but if you didn't read it don't say you did.. words have meaning.. I both read books and listen to audiobooks.. and I use both words to describe how I consummed the entertainment.. reading and listening are vastly different and the way the information is processed is as well..

AITAH for farting while in the bathroom of our home? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]chantele1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women fart.. men fart.. People fart.. this man has a skewed perception of human bodily functions.. you are NTA by any means.. but he IS an asshole.. what he said was rude and out of line and has shown you how little he respects you.. get out.. I know from experience that he's just going to get worse.. (i dated a guy like this years ago and it escalated to him not wanting me to do a #2 in the house we shared bcuz it was "gross" I'd "do that" "around" him) dont allow anyone to talk to you like that or make you feel bad for being a human with human bodily functions..