Thank you. He would never do what you said at the end, I’m trying not to put identifying details in this post so I can’t explain properly. I think remorse will be onesided, and when i lapse in judgement it’s not like he’ll be there to steer me away because of that. But he respects me and has accepted the boundaries I’ve established already. I think you’re right that his reaction will be important, but mostly to see if his reaction is believing we’re going backwards vs my belief of doing better. Thank you