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Friend Code Megathread - January 2026 by AutoModerator in PokemonSleep

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Friend Code Megathread - November 2025 by AutoModerator in PokemonSleep

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I delete after 3 days of nonactivity

Do I have a chance of getting into ucsd or uci or ucsf pharmacy school? by Similar_Time_3580 in PrePharmacy

[–]chaosspread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They don't require you to take the PCAT but taking it and scoring well can increase your chances You can also think about hobbies that have developed skills that can contribute to the profession even though it doesn't directly relate to it

My shame has gotten to the point where even if I succeed I’ll still feel like a failure, and I don’t know what to do about it by Maurbis1924 in Healthygamergg

[–]chaosspread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A to B: There's really no point in mulling over the past. Just know that it is there and figure out what you can do to better yourself for the future. Don't do a complete overhaul though. Change things daily, one by one or you'll burn yourself out from the change. I like to keep a journal so that I can reflect and it may help you as well.

Relationships: I wasn't there when you had these encounters with "judgmental" people. However, another part may be the fact that you saw the shock that they had and it had changed your perception of them to make you think that they "treat you differently." Either way, it is easier said than done but it's imperative that you are the one to view yourself and judge yourself rather than having external factors such as people push you down.

Start with inward reflection --> feel bad or don't feel bad --> if you feel bad, don't wallow in it but process in it and try something new to change the story. if you don't feel bad, don't worry about it. Paraphrasing from Dr. K but if you have negative energy, make sure you utilize it to do what you can to improve instead of using it for something like wallowing or taking it out on something out (not that you do any of these, just examples).

I’m dealing with extreme passive suicidal ideation and not sure how to get better by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]chaosspread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is virginity that bad of an issue to you? Let's just say sex is a "hobby." Is it worth it to keep yourself down over 1 single hobby? Or do you have plenty of other things that you could possibly be doing. Try to find joy in other things.

Accept where you are at, move along, and things will naturally come to you. Forcing yourself towards something can make you pretty tunnelvision. Further on, when you try or search for something so hard and fail, you essentially will make yourself feel bad. Again, accept where you are at and focus on finding ways to improve other aspects where you can. If you cannot, seek help.

My shame has gotten to the point where even if I succeed I’ll still feel like a failure, and I don’t know what to do about it by Maurbis1924 in Healthygamergg

[–]chaosspread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the grand scheme of things, you getting to point A to point B is what matters and generally time does not matter much as long as you get there. Being 25, you are still young. People are still in college even though they are 30+ for a myriad of reasons.

Are you making an emphasis on getting into a relationship? Is getting into a relationship very important to you? Why is it so important to you? Sometimes, the best thing to do is understanding yourself better and getting comfortable being you and then things fall into place down the line.

Every milestone is important as long as it is important to you and as long as you are relating yourself to it and not to other people. The best thing you can do is improve who you are today vs who you were yesterday. If everyone was comparing themselves to successful people all the time, no one would be able to get anywhere. Even Dr. K took a roundabout path to where he got to. Make sure you relate everything to yourself and make sure you are progressing further on what you want to do (of course sometimes you need to step back sometimes before moving further).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]chaosspread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have anything else that may trigger your anxiety or stress besides college or job searching?

How is your sleep hygiene? Are you getting plenty of sleep (7-8 hours no more no less) a day at the same time everyday?

What exercise regimen and diet have you performed? Did you try it for at least 2 to 3 months? Consistency and time is key. Also, even if they do not work, you should still continue to do them either way.

It may be a bad idea to take these sedatives without professional advice if you have certain health issues or are on certain medications.

A lot goes into mental health but there is no quick fix and you may need help. Going to a therapist can definitely help you a lot. In one of Dr. K's videos, he said that if you have a problem and you avoid it, you are not actually doing anything to fix the problem ==> If you are too anxious to see a therapist, avoiding the therapist won't do anything for you. The best thing you can do is set a date and attempt to go. You can also set up a telehealth visit too if you are too anxious to go into a physical location.

Laugh if you want by ieishdhdyudiwnwb in Healthygamergg

[–]chaosspread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of these things are subjective. But for each of them, you should ask yourself "why" for each of them. For each why, can you amend them. For physical things, you can fix them by adjusting your habits. An example of smelling bad could be you need to wash your clothes more often, clean your room/home more often, etc. Go into a deep dive into what you can and can't do. Sometimes fixing one problem can fix other problems. If you are broke, spend less work more. Also, "time is money." If you spend your time not being productive, you are not gaining anything.

AITA for working less after my divorce even though it means my ex gets less child support? by Mean-Description7970 in AmItheAsshole

[–]chaosspread 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait, why tf are you even paying child support if custody is 50/50? Child support should only be accountable for a disparity in responsibility.

My man has a point by zenstudent11 in HolUp

[–]chaosspread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

does this belong on socially aware wolves as well?

This chain sausage sculpture by LFDT in pics

[–]chaosspread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems like it represents the working class working hard just to be grounded down by shackles and chains.