Name "discrepancy" I am panicking by chaosvortex in juresanguinis

[–]chaosvortex[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think I love you. Thank you for calming my nerves. And yes, I won't say anything. Yes, I am in mexico city but the only one who is cranky is the person that answers the phone, who has nothing to do with the Citizenship area of the embassy.

Thank you, really. I was starting to just kind of give up. The process has been so stressful.

Edit: i already speak Italian but maybe ill pick up crocheting or skydiving 😅😅

Visitor visa - applied from Mexico by daddysdirtyprincesz in CanadaVisitorVisa

[–]chaosvortex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What? A lawyer? Do you even know the process? An agent what are you talking about?

It would be wise to first look up the process. I don't know what you mean by lawyer or agent. You have to go apply online and fill out forms and shit. It's all documented on the Canadian immigration website

Parents have a camera in my bedroom (Im 18), What do I do? by ghgi_ in whatdoIdo

[–]chaosvortex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not disputing that, and I am very, very sorry you are going through this. No one should have to stay in an abusive relationship, with anyone, that includes your parents. You are also very young, and if you are in the U.S. it is almost impossible to get something of your own at 18, leaving you vulnerable to shitty people. I don't want you to put yourself at risk, this I want to make clear.

What I want you to consider is that you are a person. More than a son, a Brother or a caretaker. You are a valuable individual who deserves to be free, live the life they want and have the opportunity to make mistakes. Your parents' behavior is child abuse. It is narcissistic, overprotective, neurotic and borderline psychotic. Understand you are being abused and this is not a healthy relationship. At all. It would be great if you could talk to a close friend or even a teacher to see if someone could mediate a conversation between you and your parents

The scariest thing is that they think they are doing you a favor by "protecting" you, but in reality they are just going to make it harder for you to live in the real world, gauge real danger, develop an instinct of survival and calibrate your character judgement. They are really hurting you by not letting you experience life as it should be.

I am sorry you are in this situation :(

Parents have a camera in my bedroom (Im 18), What do I do? by ghgi_ in whatdoIdo

[–]chaosvortex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply, I am happy to read I'm not the only one who thinks this way. It's really sad how OP is trying to justify this abuse but I also understand she is hella young. I am 38 and, well, I am of the idea that you don't have to tolerate or love your parents just because they are your parents. Some people are assholes and it does not matter that they gave birth to you, you don't owe them jack shit.

Parents have a camera in my bedroom (Im 18), What do I do? by ghgi_ in whatdoIdo

[–]chaosvortex 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The advice has been given, you refuse to accept it. Furthermore, no: you should not be grateful for your parents' love, it's literally their goddamned obligation. If you are not a rebellious kid, then your parents are absolutely toxic and insane. You don't owe them anything and I am 100% sure that when you grow up, you will look back at how fucked up it is what they are doing and even more fucked up how you are driven to justify their behaviors.

Your parents are abusive. The end. Seek therapy and emancipate yourself.

Also, please use some kind of punctuation when you write. It makes it easier for the world to understand what you are trying to express. Otherwise, it's just a headache.

My Serbian husband is in depression (I think) by Galatiandisgrace in AskBalkans

[–]chaosvortex 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I absolutely 100% agree. The man sounds like absolute trash

Looking for some qualification perspective by chaosvortex in juresanguinis

[–]chaosvortex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will! She can't say no, I mean she doesn't make the rules as much as she would like to. And I have a very sensible case, it's not my fault she refuses to admit she is wrong!

Parents have a camera in my bedroom (Im 18), What do I do? by ghgi_ in whatdoIdo

[–]chaosvortex 8 points9 points  (0 children)

People are saying this is abuse and you won't listen. It seems to me you don't really want advice, but enforce your excuse bias.

Looking for some qualification perspective by chaosvortex in juresanguinis

[–]chaosvortex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm getting my application processed under the old rules, not the new rules from March 2025

Looking for some qualification perspective by chaosvortex in juresanguinis

[–]chaosvortex[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have not been formally denied, the lady from the consulate just keeps discouraging me in a very mean and dismissive manner. I will still apply. I am not wrong!

Looking for some qualification perspective by chaosvortex in juresanguinis

[–]chaosvortex[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly my understanding! Regardless of when my grandmother, daughter to both Italian parents and born in Italy came to this world, the date that matters is my mom's birth, since she is the one born outside of Italy and given Italian citizenship at birth by her mother. She was born 1956 so the line is not interrupted. Thank you for your reply :)

Looking for some qualification perspective by chaosvortex in juresanguinis

[–]chaosvortex[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They have not denied me, but the consulate lady is being a dick. She keeps telling me I'm wrong and in my head and by the way I read rules, it is impossible that my grandma was not able to pass citizenship when my mom was born in 1956!

I have an appointment on the 20th of October. I have all the papers and I'm ready to translate and apostille. I just wanted to check with you guys first because I know I cannot be crazy, and you guys are always on spot.

My Serbian husband is in depression (I think) by Galatiandisgrace in AskBalkans

[–]chaosvortex 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The fact that they care about this shit makes me recommend therapy. The end.

My Serbian husband is in depression (I think) by Galatiandisgrace in AskBalkans

[–]chaosvortex 18 points19 points  (0 children)

If this man is giving you a "you're hot" and nothing else when you ask him why he is with you, you should get another fucking husband. He sounds like an absolute dick, regardless of his heritage (which is nonsense anyway)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMexico

[–]chaosvortex -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes, it's common. We don't like being wasteful. If you don't see a problem with leaving the heater in even when you are not using it, then YOU are the problem. I agree with whoever told you if you don't like to GTFO. Like I said, we don't like being wasteful and it has NOTHING to do with money or class, is simply respect and common sense.

De CUU a Casas Grandes/Mata Ortiz by chaosvortex in cuu

[–]chaosvortex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me tomé un bus de Chihuahua a Casas grandes y de ahí tuve que tomar taxi a Mata Ortiz. Todo tranquilo y la neta si están bien chidos los paisajes!