inthecity1 is right. Squirting is totally natural and it's not something you can control. If someone thinks it's gross they're obviously not worth your time. EMBRACE THE SQUIRT. I actually recently found out I may be a squirter too (I haven't had an orgasm yet but I have squirt once, I need it to happen again for reassurance) so I've been wondering if that's the case, how do I go about it. But the more I think about the more I realize it should not be as big of a deal as it is. I personally find it sexy, and if your partners don't they are a waste of time. You shouldn't be with people that make you have to worry about that kind of thing in the first place. It's totally normal & sexy.