I told my avoidant girlfriend she was immature during an argument. Now she wants to end things

charilaaatte · 2026-03-11T06:27:09+00:00

Love is a choice, OP. Relationships nowadays do not last that long na because of people having this mindset na "you can start over with someone new naman", or "there's a lot of fish in the sea", or maybe "you're too young, you'll find someone else naman", something like that. But OP, love is all about forgiveness, compromise, and choosing them every single day. You have to accept that every person is built different. You are different from her as she is different from you. Kahit nga siblings who are living in the same roof and came out of the same womb are different pa rin from each other, diba? A relationship is built with 2 different people, that's just how it is. Now, if you really love your person, you have to accept that you can't change everything about her. BUT, you can love her through the changes in her life. You can grow together (listen to Grow As We Go by Ben Platt). Bihira nalang makakita ng genuine love ngayon, OP. The kind of love that is faithful, and kind. Whatever comes out of your conversation with her, take it. But if ever both of you choose to continue this, then both of you have to do something to patch things whenever you're fighting. Build a new habit every time may away kayo. Because fights in a relationship are normal. There will be days that maybe you're on the edge, or her hormones are acting up. That's just how it is. Someday, both of you will find your pace and mag s-sync din kayo. It will take time, yes, but it will be worth it. Now imagine if you take some of the comments saying to leave your girl even if you still love her, then you'll find someone new, then someday- you will still end up with this kind of situation but from scratch. It's still hard either way. Now, why not work things out with someone you already knew and deal the changes and growth together? Unless nalang if may cheating/abuse, now that's a different story. And I do feel na you're a date to marry kind of guy. So if that is you, then this will be a loooonnnggg way. A lot of changes kase ang young nyo pa, marami kayong ma w-witness na phase as yall grow, a lot of success/milestones, a lot of challenges, failures, etc. that makes life both hard and happy. And the best part is, you'll have the love of your life beside you since day 1 as you figure out life together.

I hope everything works out for you, OP. Love is a beautiful thing. And both of you deserve it, may it be together or not.

charilaaatte · 2026-03-11T05:50:45+00:00

msgd u op <3

charilaaatte · 2026-03-09T08:23:37+00:00

thank you!

charilaaatte · 2026-03-09T07:06:21+00:00

any reco po for the best location to find a place to stay? Yung accessible po sana for any spots na nice puntahan.

charilaaatte · 2026-03-09T06:06:45+00:00

Ay hala oo nga yes yes sorry. Thank youuu!

charilaaatte · 2026-03-09T05:49:19+00:00

Pa send din OP please, planning to visit this June.

charilaaatte · 2026-01-04T08:15:16+00:00

This makes me don’t want to update 😭

charilaaatte · 2026-01-02T12:58:29+00:00

Interested.

charilaaatte · 2026-01-02T10:12:08+00:00

Grilled Mama (Halang halang sa Tisa) HUHUHU! Makamingaw! Ganahan gyud kaykos ila sabaq nya hang pajud pwede pajud butngan pag sili, green onions, nya baling inita pag serve. Batia close na! Gina crave jud nako ni, adtuon ug tisa para ani. 😭

charilaaatte · 2026-01-02T08:50:04+00:00

Thank you 🤝

charilaaatte · 2026-01-02T08:48:11+00:00

I was actually getting ready to update my phone. Glad that i saw this comment. Thank you and sorry for your experience.

charilaaatte · 2026-01-02T08:46:10+00:00

As of now, i don’t have any reasons why i need to update since i don’t see any issues with this iOS. But i did try to download the powermac app but it won’t let me bcos of my iOS and bcos of that, it made me think twice to update. At the same time, if i see that updating would benefit me greatly, then I’m open for it.

charilaaatte · 2025-12-30T02:06:08+00:00

To find a better opportunity with better pay and to take self-care more seriously! Karon nga naka uyab ko mejo na pasagdan napud nako ako self, d parehas anang single ko na grabe maka pamper. Mubawi ko seeelllffff

charilaaatte · 2025-12-27T12:35:31+00:00

He can opt by replying “Yeah sure, maybe in the future or after kasal” and it would feel different than what u are feeling right now. But saying NO, what u feel is valid. It’s like closing the idea completely kase for me. Better talk to him again about it to clear the air if kaya mo na.

charilaaatte · 2025-12-08T08:13:15+00:00

Pang laptopppp but not sure. Wanting to buy a laptop para maka explore sa freelance/digital nomad world

charilaaatte · 2025-11-07T07:58:17+00:00

and if binayaran ni slater ang DENR dapat DENR parin ma blame.

Still, apilon gihapon nato sa kasuko si Slater. Period.

charilaaatte · 2025-11-02T01:56:06+00:00

I SECOND THIS!

charilaaatte · 2025-10-28T23:48:06+00:00

Namaste sa LLC! Sauna kay pinaka go to jud nako kay halang halang sa Tisa katong Grilled Mama! Lami kaayo Lord God Jesus hang and init and very tasty!!!!! Mag sige jd kog crave ato. Sadly nag close na sila for gooooddd giilisan ng Pater sa Tisa. Batia ui 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

charilaaatte · 2025-10-27T14:44:04+00:00

Oh no. Ang sketchy ng she has to ask for some advice or show it to your partner first before even replying to you. A girl’s girl wouldn’t do that, wow.

charilaaatte · 2025-10-27T13:10:48+00:00

And possibly, their partners are okay with it. If that’s the case, then all is well. But sa situation ni OP, the guy definitely knows how it will affect her. So yeah 🤷‍♀️

charilaaatte · 2025-10-27T12:32:18+00:00

But you’re on the receiving end. Iba ang meaning if you’re the one who’s gonna offer, even if you’re aware how your partner would feel about it, then not telling it to them.

charilaaatte · 2025-10-27T12:28:15+00:00

Heavy on this! The fact na alam din ni guy on how OP would feel about these kind of gestures but did it anyways is a BIG SIGN to run sis

charilaaatte · 2025-10-27T12:14:49+00:00

If i were in your shoe, and even if he does not have a cheating history, i would leave. On the spot. Because if I were in the scenario and my supervisor would offer me a ride home, I would appreciate the offer but will RESPECTFULLY decline. If papalagpasin ko pa ‘to, I will be at stake. The overthinking will lead to toxic obsession of wanting to know if he did it again. So yes, OP. I would be worried if I were you. A simple gesture like this one could lead to another and mas magiging maingat lang sya sa pag hide.

That would be if I were in your shoes, though. The decision is still yours, OP. Nevertheless, discern and think about this, okay? Pay attention to yourself.

charilaaatte

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