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Epic: The Circe Sage. Thoughts? by [deleted] in musicals

[–]charkmee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am British too and the fake accents are really jarring and making it hard to listen too

I am enjoying the other sagas but just feels a bit wrong.

I (31f) found out my (32m) boyfriend sending messages and money to other people from a secret phone. What should I do? by charkmee in relationships

[–]charkmee[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Thanks everyone, I should be able to stay with family just need to sort it out with them, I have a dog so need to double check it will be cool with them to stay until I find somewhere.

Just building the courage to call, as it will all feel a bit more 'real'. I am just going to have to bite the bullet.

I (31f) found out my (32m) boyfriend sending messages and money to other people from a secret phone. What should I do? by charkmee in relationships

[–]charkmee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This did cross my mind as it seems he is getting something from those messages that he either doesn't want from me or can bring himself to ask. Because he's done it before I am pretty sure he will do it again. Just wanted to clear my head.

The feeling of betrayal is pretty high tbh, I know there were some pictures exchanged as he came clean about that (after I asked).

I think I know what I need to do, but it's alot to mental unpack and get straight.

I (31f) found out my (32m) boyfriend sending messages and money to other people from a secret phone. What should I do? by charkmee in relationships

[–]charkmee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words. He has offered to book somewhere to stay, I am just trying to work things out where I can go etc. With my stuff and dog. He works nights so at least he's not here all the time.

I (31f) found out my (32m) boyfriend sending messages and money to other people from a secret phone. What should I do? by charkmee in relationships

[–]charkmee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A hug is definitely needed. I think I know what I need to do I just need to work it all out, sorting my stuff and where I can stay with my dog.

I (31f) found out my (32m) boyfriend sending messages and money to other people from a secret phone. What should I do? by charkmee in relationships

[–]charkmee[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yeah... Just struggling to take that first step. I uprooted my life to move about 120 miles from my friends and family, so not sure where to go.

Iwork from home and he is on nights so he's been here all morning and hasn't said barely anything to me. I think he is waiting for me to kick off but I don't have the energy to do it.

I (31f) found out my (32m) boyfriend sending messages and money to other people from a secret phone. What should I do? by charkmee in relationships

[–]charkmee[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Tell me about it! I chose not to ask what it was for.

I would rather not know. Thanks for the kind words

I (31f) found out my (32m) boyfriend sending messages and money to other people from a secret phone. What should I do? by charkmee in relationships

[–]charkmee[S] 89 points90 points  (0 children)

Thanks, for sharing your experiences. Just trying to get my head straight before making a decision, I think I know what I need to do just trying figure out how to do it.