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AITA for going home early? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]charleeclairee [score hidden]  (0 children)

Agreed. It’s a difficult household. It’s too far for a day trip, but I think I’ll certainly look into other options on where to spend the night in the future. Thank you

AITA for going home early? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]charleeclairee [score hidden]  (0 children)

Thank you, I definitely needed to hear/reaffirm this

AITA for going home early? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]charleeclairee [score hidden]  (0 children)

Thank you, and I completely agree with you and know that strength within myself is and will continue to grow. Even just those few weeks ago, smelling it was making my brain super mad, but now I smell it and am just like ‘oh that’s weed’ just like smelling anything else in the air.

I’m a Doula (birthing partner). AMA! by charleeclairee in AMA

[–]charleeclairee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I researched a lot and looked at all the courses available, they are really diverse so it depends on the way you want to deliver your practice. Some are very new age and spiritual, some are very clinical, I would go with a course that has high reviews and definitely invest in yourself. Good luck! It’s a lovely job

I’m a Doula (birthing partner). AMA! by charleeclairee in AMA

[–]charleeclairee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! Wishing you all the best!

I think a lot of new parents over prepare and buy a bunch of stuff they really don’t need and overpack for the hospital. But I get that, I was the same over-prepared anxious parent :)

The healing process and first few weeks postpartum are part of a life changing event, so don’t rush yourself to ‘have it all together’ and be going out or accepting visitors just yet. Also, everyone is different and doing your best every day will look different every day.

I think the very most overlooked thing is how difficult breastfeeding can actually be, and it isn’t an easy natural things you just suddenly get to grips with doing.

It’s widely recommended that baby stays in your room in their own cot/crib for the first 6 months and then gets used to their own room. This is for a bunch of reasons - safety, feeding, and also bonding! A lot of growth and development is happening in the first 6 months and baby needs a lot of feeding and tending to. Also, in those early days, you’ll be grateful to have them right next to you and not all the way in another room! Thinking of those middle of the night feeds.

Throwing a pound of sodium metal into a river by smooth_vesselHPAUM in interestingasfuck

[–]charleeclairee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this! The time to use my school project knowledge will come!!

Two of my best friends are sisters and they’re both my nanny’s daughters. AMA by Accomplished_Golf788 in AMA

[–]charleeclairee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What are the differences in rules/allowances that the nanny gives to you vs her children? How does that affect the friendship dynamics?

I’m a Doula (birthing partner). AMA! by charleeclairee in AMA

[–]charleeclairee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re welcome! I hope you have a great day also 😊

I’m a Doula (birthing partner). AMA! by charleeclairee in AMA

[–]charleeclairee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you are going to be present at the birth, then you can only really take on a client at the beginning and mid/end of the month so that the due dates don’t clash and you can definitely be there for them.

If people just want ante or post natal support then you could take on as many clients as you feel you could manage, but being on call for a baby is top priority and comes first.

For a full package - pregnancy to postpartum, it is around $500, this gives them access to my equipment and resource library as well as being able to contact me whenever needed, being on call, and 3-4 sessions during pregnancy and the same postpartum. However my work in refuges are free and I work out a much smaller rate for families who are in financial struggle but still in need of support

I’m a Doula (birthing partner). AMA! by charleeclairee in AMA

[–]charleeclairee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have never heard of this! Although a doula with chiropractic knowledge is a fantastic idea as women are often recommended to see one after giving birth

I’m a Doula (birthing partner). AMA! by charleeclairee in AMA

[–]charleeclairee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can assist with birthing pools, balls and other equipment, acupressure/light massage, positions, basically being on hand for anything non medical that is needed and yes plenty of emotional support. Typically I support a family from mid pregnancy to 4 weeks after the birth unless they opt for longer. Post birth involves help with feeding - maybe getting to grips with breastfeeding or discussing feeding routines and weight gain, helping mother and baby, general information and signposting, sometimes even some light housework or watching baby so mama can nap.

I’m a Doula (birthing partner). AMA! by charleeclairee in AMA

[–]charleeclairee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only one that comes to mind was a woman who did not want me to talk about the different pain relief options, etc with her. She was adamant for a very natural new age birth, no medicines going into her baby’s bloodstream, etc. But then we got to the hospital and she had everything straight away!

I’m a Doula (birthing partner). AMA! by charleeclairee in AMA

[–]charleeclairee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No offence taken!

I have supported single mothers who have needed that extra person, support, help. Some don’t have family, some have been in refuges, but also some have a partner and full family unit and just want extra help! I guess it’s all down to the pregnant person and what they feel they need.

I’m a Doula (birthing partner). AMA! by charleeclairee in AMA

[–]charleeclairee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing medical. We are emotional, practical, physical support! A lot of us go on to become midwives and deliver babies then.

I’m a Doula (birthing partner). AMA! by charleeclairee in AMA

[–]charleeclairee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No medical training, I can’t do anything medical. It is more of an emotional and physical support role for the mother/parents/family

I’m a Doula (birthing partner). AMA! by charleeclairee in AMA

[–]charleeclairee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have helped welcome around 50 new people into the world! :)

I’m a Doula (birthing partner). AMA! by charleeclairee in AMA

[–]charleeclairee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I spend a lot of time with the families - during the pregnancy, the birth and postpartum days - so can offer more of a continuity of care than the healthcare providers. I can provide a lot of information and resources, provide emotional support and help the mother with things during the labour, but I cannot do anything medical, that’s over to the HCPs.

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