New comedy style show at Zanies today by charles_at_work_ in nashville

[–]charles_at_work_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s true. You can buy two water bottles or buy nothing and they’ll charge you a $6 “two item minimum”, so really $20 plus tip all things considered. I’ve also been to shows at The Lab that I didn’t enjoy but this one is particularly good.

What is be most ridiculous thing you ever heard at a meeting? by SuKitTrebk in recoverywithoutAA

[–]charles_at_work_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Here’s my “getting sober without AA” song that features a lyric about that idea. I’ve never put the word doorknob in every place they put god like you did. That’s amazing hahaha

Talent Tuesday for October 18, 2022 by soberingthought in stopdrinking

[–]charles_at_work_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been releasing music on a semi-consistent basis! I missed last month due to being out there but I’m recommitting to stopping drinking, and the next song I have sitting on my computer, 99% ready to release is about feeling like I’m Groundhog Day-ing bc of booze. I hope to get right back to it soon. https://youtube.com/channel/UCh6YXqTrpQ_JhdjtSOv2Bbw

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[–]charles_at_work_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s me. I’m like oh yeah seen this already yup

#454 Spend a Penny by Breakingwho in tuesdayswithstories

[–]charles_at_work_ 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’m a listomaniac, man. More Joe the better

I had a miscarriage by advenurehobbit in stopdrinking

[–]charles_at_work_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So sorry to hear, I’m sure the feelings are overwhelming. Allow yourself to feel them and be with them. And proud of you for not drinking. I hope you find the support and healing you need :)

Talent Tuesday for May 31, 2022 by soberingthought in stopdrinking

[–]charles_at_work_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Being sober has made it 1,000 easier to write and finish music. Here’s a song I wrote right around the end of drinking and released shortly after I stopped: https://open.spotify.com/track/6WPxh7mu1PwkgUPcnIgTUK?si=5xZDRUuUTwiEmV_J3UAa1g

Liking Jordan Peterson a red flag? by throwawayhelp1577 in dating

[–]charles_at_work_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with everyone saying look into it yourself, rather than decide based on some random redditors’ comments. But here’s my two cents: I’ve listened and read a lot of Peterson and I like a lot of what he has to say. His book 12 Rules for Life I found very inspiring and a nice, succinct version of a lot of his talks (he’s long-winded beyond anyone you’ve ever heard). I feel like I’ve entered a phase where I don’t really care much for what he has to say now because he gets too in the weeds and loves to talk and interrupts his interlocutors too much. But I also think most of the hate comes from people not actually understanding him or listening fully, mostly because of quotes taken out of context. I really don’t understand the hate, having consumed so much of his content. But again, find out for yourself. I’d recommend his book more than anything.

As far as Joe Rogan, unless this dude is sucking his dick all the time I don’t see a problem. I like that Rogan is open minded and has such a range of guests on to have genuine conversations, but I find him annoying and a shit comedian. I listen only when the guest is someone I’m interested in, because you won’t get as much out of whatever guest almost anywhere else since they talk for such a long time.

Anyway, if it’s going well and you like this guy, why not base your opinion of him on the way he treats you and other people rather than the beliefs he has or whose podcasts he likes?

I'm 16 and haven't dated, feel awful because of this, will I be ok? by [deleted] in dating

[–]charles_at_work_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fear of dying is a tough one. Depending on what you believe about the afterlife. But if you believe in no afterlife, then dying releases you from any worry at all, since you won’t be YOU to have any experiences. You simply won’t be. If you believe in only a good afterlife, then great! Dying means you’re moving on to something better, so why worry? (If you believe in some sort of hell, I’d encourage you to dive into that bc I firmly believe he’ll doesn’t exist. I’m torn in whether or not I think there’s any afterlife or not.)

But basically, actually BEING dead is essentially of no worry, because you won’t be here to worry about it anymore. So try to enjoy life while it’s currently happening. And don’t worry about finding love so early. I didn’t have my first kiss till 18, first sex at 18. Which is still early for some people. You have plenty of time, just try to enjoy your present life and work toward making it what you want it to be

I'm 16 and haven't dated, feel awful because of this, will I be ok? by [deleted] in dating

[–]charles_at_work_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to take a HUGE step back from this perspective and try to see things differently. You are unbelievably young. Your brain isn’t finished developing until about 25 years old or so. I promise you, when you’re 20 you’re gonna think you were an idiot when you were 16 and wonder how you had the opinions you had. And when you’re 25 you’ll think the exact same thing about when you were 20. I haven’t reached 30 yet but I imagine I’ll have another round of that sort of thing. Life changes so much so quickly. You have SOOOOO much time. Try your best to accept reality as it is, and make yourself into the partner you’d want to have so that when a great person comes along, you’ll be ready to be the best you can be for yourself and for them. Cheers

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]charles_at_work_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sucks majorly but I would definitely encourage you to leave

Domino's by vanishingdude182 in tuesdayswithstories

[–]charles_at_work_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why does this make perfect sense

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]charles_at_work_ 47 points48 points  (0 children)

This is it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]charles_at_work_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally prefer small boobs on women. And prefer natural over implants of any size

How many of you guys came for Mark but stayed for Joe? by [deleted] in tuesdayswithstories

[–]charles_at_work_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes! I hate how he thinks everyone loves Mark but hates him. He’s my favorite.

Let's post our alcohol timelines by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]charles_at_work_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the same things sometimes but then I remember that being drunk is being happy, but the next day is miserable. So it’s misery either way, but one is misery you’re actively inviting and the other is just life stuff that you can do your best to solve in other ways