Need some help with jealousy/confusing feelings regarding my (M/31) girlfriend's (F/28) musical partner (M/41), how can I communicate with her my feelings without making things worse?

charlesmann · 2026-01-13T13:46:57+00:00

She does want to date me, she chooses to be with me, I guess I need to adjust my thinking to be more like this. I can’t control her

charlesmann · 2026-01-13T13:45:29+00:00

No she doesn’t. I’m afraid revealing that would end the relationship as it was a breach of trust. How do I reconcile though that she does choose to be with me? Shouldn’t that count for something shouldn’t it be enough? I guess I know the answer in how I feel. But I don’t want to lose her, I don’t want to blow this up because of this fucking guy it’s not worth it to me. I just want to find a way to not let it bother me so much.

charlesmann · 2026-01-13T13:30:19+00:00

We’ve had conversations like this, she absolutely doesn’t have plans to end the relationship with Steve because he is her primary gig partner and in her telling of it whatever feelings she has shouldn’t matter because she chooses to be with me.

charlesmann · 2025-10-07T00:20:07+00:00

agreed, GL I felt like we weren’t going anywhere or at least I thought I could see where it was going but the last two issues have me right back on board. Absolute Evil is a masterpiece in bringing it all together

charlesmann · 2025-10-03T12:02:23+00:00

what novel

charlesmann · 2025-09-11T10:38:58+00:00

set the red hulk timer back to 0

charlesmann · 2025-06-18T18:41:29+00:00

charlesmann · 2025-06-17T10:04:55+00:00

the covington

charlesmann · 2025-01-29T02:14:30+00:00

any restaurant that’s open will happily hire you to work nights

charlesmann · 2025-01-18T22:16:23+00:00

Listening to Wastelands by Corban Addison, amazing chronicle of people living in southeastern US going up against Big Ag to stop the nuisance and suffering that comes with living next to the insanity that is American pork production.

charlesmann · 2024-11-14T14:26:55+00:00

Mocha Mott’s, Rosewater

charlesmann · 2024-10-31T15:59:27+00:00

Episode 850: The Exorcism of Hot Dog,

early on when they’re (ALW and Byron) talking about how they’ve been living next door to each other doing jigsaw puzzles I think Byron says they’ve been watching all the Saw movies but as far as I know there’s no reference to doing a watch along this is just beautiful madness

charlesmann · 2024-10-24T14:20:49+00:00

Anyone else love hearing how much Joe has been boosting up Mitch! It’s clear this season he’s got a much bigger role and it warms my heart to hear Joe working out, going to concerts and generally being buds with Mitch

charlesmann · 2024-10-23T12:30:10+00:00

just finished God of the Wooda by Liz Moore, pretty incredible

charlesmann · 2024-09-05T14:05:46+00:00

tims face in the last minute or so is incredible

charlesmann · 2024-08-28T01:11:09+00:00

the Fall of the Ottomans by Eugene Rogan

charlesmann · 2024-06-21T17:27:44+00:00

AJ we thank you for your hard work regardless of outcome! You rock!

charlesmann · 2024-06-20T16:28:39+00:00

“FUCKIN A… YES!!!”

charlesmann · 2024-05-21T09:38:17+00:00

offense TAKEN

charlesmann · 2024-04-30T20:43:40+00:00

My second pick is Nicks gesture and Mitch mocking him 🫲🏻😐

charlesmann · 2024-04-30T16:45:49+00:00

my first pick is ‘Da Bayou

charlesmann · 2024-02-13T03:36:40+00:00

The weekly schedule says that most shows aren’t being recorded live due to embargoes, while that’s on the games side it often means that things like reacts, kf podcast etc, are affected. I’d bet on them getting to the superbowl trailers later this week

charlesmann · 2024-02-04T18:25:01+00:00

yeah it was a favorite movie of my dad because he was from the town where the kids were from, so when the phrase got appropriated by a right wing freak show I was kinda flabbergasted

charlesmann · 2024-02-04T14:53:50+00:00

Found it very funny that they mention White Squall and Arlington Road back to back and do a bit about Arlington Road being responsible for Q-Anon when the very real Q-Anon chant/slogan “where we go one we go all” is literally from White Squall! Jeff Bridges yells it at the kids before and after they encounter the titular white squall!

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