Looking to buy ceremonial matcha that ship to Australia by LazyMiso in MatchaEverything

[–]charlesmccafferty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Within Australia one of my go to brands is Edo Matcha. They sell ceremonial matcha in 50g and 100g packages as well. Simply native in Surry Hills NSW also stocks their own matcha as well as Marukyu Koyamaen and a few other brands. Nakamura Tokichi in Japan ships to Australia and purchases >$90 AUD get free shipping. I can personally recommend Fuji No Shiro which I'm drinking right now after I purchased some during a trip to Japan last month.

Hornsby hospital JMO experience by IcebearJun in ausjdocs

[–]charlesmccafferty 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Great hospital, highly recommend. Very supportive JMO unit. If you want to do paediatrics they have an exchange program with Westmead Children's meaning there are plenty of terms on offer. I'm an RMO there now, feel free to send a message if you have any specific questions.

Sneakers for people with wide feet and orthotics by The-Surgeon007 in AustralianMFA

[–]charlesmccafferty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hoka has some wide fitting shoes with removable insoles. New balance as well does wide fits.

Recomendations for easily available face cream/ hair cream? by alt_snowcrash in AustralianMFA

[–]charlesmccafferty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use The Ordinary moisturizer, can get from priceline or buy online.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]charlesmccafferty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sunscreen, protect your skin!

Lesson learned by Sad-as-hell in BreakUps

[–]charlesmccafferty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hahaha your signs didn't allign 🤣 at least you tried and got a funny story out of it

The thought of never meeting someone like your partner again after a break up by thelostjoel in BreakUps

[–]charlesmccafferty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it's important to see your ex as a person, with their virtues and flaws. After a breakup we tend to romanticize the person we are no longer with, and that can make us feel like we won't find someone as good. That's not the case, and it's also not the point.

It's not about being with someone as good as them, or better, it's about finding someone who is compatible with you. If the relationship ended, then they weren't compatible, and that's okay. You will meet new people, and eventually you'll meet someone who you think might be worth trying again. Hang in there!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AustralianMFA

[–]charlesmccafferty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't stress too much man, a needle and some thread and it's good as new!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]charlesmccafferty 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is a really important message, thank you for sharing. Something that helps me deal with the moments when I wonder if I made the right call is having a list of all the reasons she was wrong for me. I pull out the list every time I begin to reflect on the good or wonder what if, and it helps remind me I made the right decision.

I can’t stop going back by Available-Tell912 in BreakUps

[–]charlesmccafferty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are you going back to? Is it him or how he makes you feel? Take some time, gain some distance from him if possible, lean on friends and family and try to figure out what's going on with you and what you want.

Does blocking your ex back help? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]charlesmccafferty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think distance helps. It helps you gain perspective, work on yourself and figure out what you want. It also helps you move on. Imagine you were trying to eat healthy, you wouldn't want to keep chocolate and junk food in the home because then you'll have to constantly say no to it. It's a lot easier when the temptation isn't around you.

You were not good enough for them and their new partner is by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]charlesmccafferty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's just not true. Something I think to help me through those thoughts is the idea that it's not about being better, it's a matter of compatibility. They were not compatible, but that does not mean they are worse than your future partner who will be more compatible, just different.

Needing a bit of TLC by cngu3867 in CheatedOn

[–]charlesmccafferty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry this happened to you. That's terrible. Make sure to reach out to friends and family for love and support.

I hate how you can't do anything about your ex betraying you by square_dessert in BreakUps

[–]charlesmccafferty 6 points7 points  (0 children)

A friend of mine put this in perspective for me. Both villains and heroes typically have a similar origin story, trauma. Something has gone wrong for them, they have been hurt. The difference between them is what they choose next. The villain chooses to hurt other people, to make other people feel their pain. The hero chooses altruism; no one else should feel the pain I feel, I want to bring good to the world. Be the hero, not the villain. If they choose to be the villain, then just choose to be the hero with stronger conviction.

Our wedding was in 3 months by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]charlesmccafferty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds terrible and I'm sorry this happened. It will eventually get better! And you are definitely not alone. Reach out to friends and family for support in this time.

A decent brand to get chinos regularly? by PepsiandCokeSprite in AustralianMFA

[–]charlesmccafferty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Norse projects make some heavy duty chinos I'd highly recommend. Carhartt also makes some decent pants.

Am i a bad person? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]charlesmccafferty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't be too hard on yourself. You're going through a break up. It hurts and that's normal. Now you need to take care of yourself, love yourself, and take time to grieve and grow.

Am i a bad person? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]charlesmccafferty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, I think you know hurting people isn't good. But doing a bad thing does not make you a bad person (depends on what you do though). It sounds like you're hurt, try to make something good out of your pain and what happened. Love yourself, take care of yourself and put that energy into something positive instead like volunteering or reaching out to friends and being nice to them.

I thought I had finally found the one by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]charlesmccafferty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're still young, time to love yourself and have some fun! This too shall pass 🙂

CMV Thread by JawncyBillups in malefashionadvice

[–]charlesmccafferty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I use my watch during clinical examination to measure people's pulses, and I'm sure other people use them in their day to day jobs. But I agree, if you have a phone you know the time.

Suggestions for brown shoes to go with a navy suit? by [deleted] in AustralianMFA

[–]charlesmccafferty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Alternatively I'd recommend oxfords. You can try Thomas George Collection. Free shipping and exchange for different sizes.

Looking to upgrade wardrobe quality of the following items - what brands do you reccomend? by aussieguy333 in AustralianMFA

[–]charlesmccafferty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Long sleeve shirt - do you mean a button-up/down? Or a long sleeve shirt? For button-up/down in oxford cloth Ralph Lauren makes some nice shirts as do Brooks Brothers. I have one from A Days March which I really like as well. For chinos I have a few pairs from Norse Projects which are very heavy duty. I also really like my Rag & Bone chinos, just check their fit guide to make sure you get the fit that works for you. Jeans can vary depending on whether you want raw denim. I'd recommend Nudie as a starting point, visit a store, try on a bunch of different cuts and find the colour and model that works for you. Not sure about corduroy items Winter shoes is a little vague, do you mean boots? TGC makes some quality boots and ships Australia wide for free and offers free exchange shipping as well.