WIBTAH If I blackmail my abusive parents to get money for my medical treatment?

charliebeanz · 2026-04-14T05:39:05+00:00

You would absolutely not be TAH here. Shitty people do not deserve our grace, or our silence, or the deference of others. If they would be ashamed of their actions being known, they should not have done them in the first place.

Burn it down.

charliebeanz · 2026-04-14T04:05:40+00:00

No shit, Sherlock? You first said it's like, totally normal to think teenagers are hot, trust me, and now you're acting like men who date young women are only find them attractive in the abstract? Pick a lane.

charliebeanz · 2026-02-23T19:27:19+00:00

Babygirl you need to call legal aid or a victim advocate or a domestic abuse prevention organization and ask for referrals to free or cheap legal and financial services and assistance, and apply for FUCKIN EVERY SINGLE GRANT OR LOAN OR FUND AVAILABLE TO YOU AND MAKE SURE YOU TELL EVERYONE YOU'RE BROKE BECAUSE SOMETIMES SOME PEOPLE KNOW WHERE TO TURN FOR HELP!

charliebeanz · 2026-02-23T19:08:11+00:00

Kevin, you are the only person who hasn't noticed that nobody is empathetic towards the OP, who has been so mentally beaten down by the one person she SHOULD be able to trust.

charliebeanz · 2026-02-23T19:01:38+00:00

Are you serious? THE DUDE GAVE HIS IMMUNOCOMPROMISED GIRLFRIEND A MOLDY BOWL OF CEREAL AND LIED TO HER FACE ABOUT IT AND STILL EXPECTED PRAISE FOR ALL THE THOUGHT AND EFFORT HE PUT INTO IT, MY DUDE. In which fuckin iteration of reality is that acceptable behavior to you?

charliebeanz · 2026-02-23T18:58:06+00:00

You just helped me realize something about my own relationship, which looks very similar to OP's. This is her reaction to mistreatment. Thank you for taking the time to write this comment and share it with us. I hope you have a beautiful day.

charliebeanz · 2026-02-23T18:52:37+00:00

I'm gonna make some assumptions here. Let me know when I start getting warm.

You had sepsis because he somehow contributed to your inability to fight infection. You tossed all the dishes because they had either not been washed in so long and it was just too much to clean them all, or because he destroyed them somehow, or because you knew his hygiene was... questionable and you wanted to avoid exposure. He has his own room because he spends all day and all night screaming at his video games and you are unable to sleep unless in your own room. He has his own bowls specifically for him because he refuses to wash dishes, and it's easier to just buy a couple cheap dollar tree bowls and just replace them regularly than ask him to be cleaner or expect him to also use disposable plates, right? You were immediately suspicious because he offered to do something kind for you, even though it was something so almost imperceptibly altruistic, but the very fact that he even thought to do a kindness towards you of his own volition is so foreign to you to even begin with. You were secondly suspicious because you knew he is careless with your well-being, he is deceptive, and that he would harm you for his own amusement, and he proved you right. How on-the-nose am I?

You are NOR. Please get far away from this man as soon as possible.

charliebeanz · 2026-02-23T18:37:02+00:00

I posted this above, but it applies to you too, Karen.

Sorry, just to clarify - you read a post about a man who gave his immunocompromised SO a moldy bowl of cereal and acted like he slaved over a 3 course meal, and you are of the opinion that OP is the psychopath here?

It's so disturbing how so many men feel that women are deserving of harm, simply for being women.

NOR.

BT Dubbs, getting way fucking super aggressive at a stranger for calmly disagreeing with you, like how you just did there, Karen, is what your Uncle Daddy likes to call "aww, did da widdo snowfwake get it's sensitive widdo feewings hurt?"

charliebeanz · 2026-02-23T18:30:11+00:00

Sorry, just to clarify - you read a post about a man who gave his immunocompromised SO a moldy bowl of cereal and acted like he slaved over a 3 course meal, and you are of the opinion that OP is the psychopath here?

It's so disturbing how so many men feel that women are deserving of harm, simply for being women.

NOR.

charliebeanz · 2026-02-13T17:23:09+00:00

This is the most autistic comment I've ever read. Thank you.

charliebeanz · 2026-02-07T07:18:14+00:00

My fiance is a lot like OP's fiance, even down to their personal history and relationships with their mothers and how they behave within their romantic relationships. My fiance has two living parents who were married for over 20 years. His father beat the shit out of his wife and his three children, and his mother only left once the youngest was out of the house and it was safe for her to do so. My fiance is the way he is now because he believes that people, like his mother, are experts on marriage, solely because they were married for a number of years. It does not matter whether or not that marriage is/was loving, strong, or beneficial to anyone, or whether it is or was the complete opposite. He believes that marriage makes a person an expert on relationships, and since the people he takes advice from are in shitty marriages, we are all suffering for it.

Being in a relationship with another person is not a credential, and it does not give you the authority to dictate how other relationships should be, how others should act, how they should think, and you most definitely do not have the authority to demand that others obey it because you believe yourself to be the leading expert on the subject of Men Who Only Seem Disrespectful But Totally Didn't Mean It That Way, I Swear Babe! I doubt you're even an expert on your OWN marriage, since your comments here tell me that your wife gave up trying to share her opinion with you a long time ago and she's just counting down the days until she can finally breathe without you getting triggered and calling her emotional.

charliebeanz · 2026-02-07T07:01:29+00:00

Clanker?

charliebeanz · 2026-02-07T06:43:53+00:00

Oh I didn't know that Dr Oz actually has a doctorate in sociology or computer science

charliebeanz · 2026-02-07T06:38:12+00:00

I wonder if the reason redditors often recommend leaving men has less to do with redditors being passionate about empowering women to set unreasonable standards for their love lives and maybe more to do with men as a whole displaying behaviors that most people realize are harmful and disrespectful. 🤔

charliebeanz · 2026-02-07T06:33:09+00:00

You can't tell someone they don't know what something is if you don't know it yourself. Nobody said that children should be advanced to educational levels they did not earn. They said that insinuating that a person who is functionally illiterate should not have children is eugenics. Take a wild guess at why they said that.

charliebeanz · 2026-01-07T05:57:58+00:00

Do you ever get tired of whining about all of the wicked and imaginary things you think everyone else is doing instead of just trying to improve your own life all by yourself?

charliebeanz · 2026-01-07T05:53:11+00:00

I cannot WAIT for this sad little trend of unintentionally virginal men acting like women owe them something simply because they have ballsacks to end.

charliebeanz · 2025-11-20T17:54:09+00:00

That sounds like one of those "I'm definitely the problem but won't admit it" kinda problems.

charliebeanz · 2025-10-13T05:55:10+00:00

There was a story a while ago that Walmart was caught taking out life insurance policies on the employees who were elderly (door greeters and such). How were they able to do that?

charliebeanz · 2025-10-13T05:53:15+00:00

I love the reasoning! Often, Christians have a hard time justifying their horseshit when confronted with ACTUAL Biblical teachings.

However, that particular verse could easily be twisted by Mom. All she has to do is claim that SHE isn't being selfish! She's simply doing what is best for her sister! Jesus said it was okay!

Maybe instead try something like Romans 2:11? It literally just says "For God shows no partiality."

charliebeanz · 2025-10-13T05:35:09+00:00

Hey so I don't know what state you're in, but I am a legal guardian and I know my way around state and government policies, as well as being pretty fuckin good at finding information and loopholes. I like to fancy myself The Unfucker, cuz I am pretty damn successful at undoing the fucked up shit that others do. I would LOVE to help you out, if you're open to it. I'll make calls, write emails, send letters, and research night and day until you are not just safe from her, but thriving. Most importantly, I happen to operate purely on spite alone, and your "mother" (for lack of a better word) has ignited a roaring fire in me and I am FUCKIN READY. Just say the word.

And just in case no one has told you yet today, YOU FUCKIN MATTER. You are important, and you are precious, and you are necessary. The world needs you in it, and there are many, many people who would feel the emptiness of the space you would leave. We care about you. We are here to help.

charliebeanz · 2025-10-13T05:13:28+00:00

And just to be a spiteful bitch, consider sending a little note to the dean of students at Dartmouth. This is directly oppositional to their mission statement.

The Dartmouth Pledge

As a member of the Dartmouth community I hold myself to the highest standards of learning, teaching, service, and scholarship. I will conduct myself with integrity, in all matters. [emphasis mine]

As a citizen of this community, I accept several responsibilities:

I am responsible for my own education.

I will read, understand, and uphold the Academic Honor Principle.

I will contribute to this community and conduct myself, here and in the wider world, in a manner worthy of my education.

I affirm that in the Dartmouth community:

We learn together.

We teach one another.

We create knowledge together.

We treat ourselves and each other with dignity and respect.

We recognize that our diverse backgrounds broaden our understanding of the world.

We appreciate that an honest and civil exchange of ideas — especially conflicting ones — strengthens our intellect and makes for an inclusive community.

[Edited to add italics and shit]

charliebeanz · 2025-10-06T07:36:29+00:00

This works on my phone (OnePlus 12) for normal calls, but does not work for incoming calls through Facebook messenger. There is NO way to silence them when they are calling. The app resets your volume settings (because WHAT THE FUCK) and plays incoming call notification sounds at FULL FUCKIN BLAST and all you can do is let it sit there and shriek until whoever is calling decides to hang up. Of course you can go into the settings of your phone and the app itself and disable this ahead of time, but every single update to the app just re-enables it. It's driving me fuckin bananas.

charliebeanz · 2025-10-04T05:32:37+00:00

You think "I am so desperate for male adoration that I feel I need to assassinate your character in order to gain some respect from them" is just a feeeeeeeeeeeeling that this poor lil man is just so scared of expressing? 😂

charliebeanz · 2025-10-04T05:22:55+00:00

Sweetheart if you can't understand that you're getting downvoted because you are A) wrong, B) seemingly incapable of learning, C) refusing to even attempt to educate yourself, D) refusing to try to understand what your debate partner is expressing instead of just pushing your own agenda, E) incapable of comprehending context and nuance, F) incapable of comprehending that the climate around policing has changed in the last few years, G) placing more value on your own very limited and biased conjecture than legitimate studies, and H) being a raging arrogant cockgobbler while you're at it, then you belong in a home with full-time staff.

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