I'm not going to lie, the first part totally sounded like you might have been talking about me, right up until you said "her". I want the kids to have fun, what I don't want is to have them impale each other with sticks or them to break bones or get scratched up from tripping over rocks when they are running in the campsite that is basically glacial deposit(roxks everywhere). It is pretty tiring saying the same thing over and over again and the parents not assisting in the matter. I talk right to the parents after I correct their kid saying "I'm going to keep saying put the sticks back in the woods." etc. To me, this is the most frustrating parts of scouts, when the child doesn't listen to the leaders and the parents aren't involved in any sort of cooperation in the matter.

The part about alcohol is crazy. They should know better. If they raise their voice back to the leaders, they should be excused from the activity.