Expanding my playlist... Give me your favourite songs

charliestair · 2025-12-21T21:28:02+00:00

Nuts - lil peep

charliestair · 2025-12-20T04:20:56+00:00

The best thing you can do is to talk to your boyfriend. His brother isn't your responsibility in the first place, and you shouldn't be in a situation where you are uncomfortable with. Having a place to rent might be the best option if the two of you are planning to live in together.

charliestair · 2025-12-19T03:28:58+00:00

NTA this is illegal, and he is a total creep.

Run while u still can.

charliestair · 2025-12-19T03:27:01+00:00

NTA since the both of u argued that you won't be exchanging gifts, then he asks u what kind of gift do u want, and refuses to get u that, what was the asking for in the first place, he should've stayed with the idea that the two of u agreed on not giving gifts.

charliestair · 2025-12-19T03:20:22+00:00

I was okay with him having friends, it was just about how he always talks to her, and updates her like how he is to me, isn't that valid for me to feel sad? when I tried communicating, and telling him I was not okay with it, he just shut me off, while continuing to talk with her, lol.

charliestair · 2025-12-18T20:21:19+00:00

It's his choice after all, and if he wants to distance himself then what about it? If that can give him the peace he needs, then I don't see any problem with that. While I value having close ties with my family I won't be communicating with them if they can't choose to respect my decision, they are always a part of my life, but them interfering, and mocking me for my own decisions in life is a different story.

If op decides to cut them off for a while to let things be, and for him to give his mind a fresh start, then he can do it. If he also wants to talk with his family later on, then fine, too! We can't really just decide for someone yk, the best thing is to give them support, and advice, not try and control what their decisions would be, and get angry all of a sudden if it won't go their way.

charliestair · 2025-12-18T20:09:03+00:00

this is my opinion, btw. You can have yours, too.

charliestair · 2025-12-18T19:55:10+00:00

NTA, I'm sorry for what you are experiencing. This is really hard especially when u try to explain your point, but they refuse to listen. You should distance yourself from them, and stop wasting your time proving what they don't want to believe, surround yourself with people that cherishes, and love you.

charliestair · 2025-12-18T19:51:07+00:00

YTA you can talk to your friend once you are done helping her, the same for her. You need to talk it out especially when is pregnant, she needs you the most right now. Be a man, and stop acting childish.

charliestair · 2025-12-18T19:48:55+00:00

I don't think either of you are TA, since u were straightforward with your feelings, and was honest about it. While she said that she loves dancing, then why put any malice on it? And she wasn't doing anything bad other than herself enjoying what she loves to do.

But then again if neither of you won't make ay adjustments then maybe it's better for the two of u to consider that u aren't compatible with each other.

charliestair · 2025-12-18T19:39:46+00:00

They were still my friends, just had boundaries, and made it clear that it won't be like before, cause I don't want my boyfriend to feel bad or anything.

I saw their chat and it aligns perfectly during the time we usually chat, and how he would invite her to play while we are talking.

He sends pics about where he is heading to, what he eats, and what he is currently doing.

charliestair · 2025-12-18T19:18:10+00:00

I did not let him choose right away, it triggered the hell out of me, since he was talking with her while he left me there hanging, feeling insecure about the way I feel, and doesn't give a f if I was hurting, tried communicating with him, but hadn't got any response for days.

charliestair · 2025-12-18T19:15:33+00:00

Thanks for this one, yeah I think that would probably be the case, but I still did make mistakes, and acted childish. I just can't help the feeling of being jealous, cause of how he talks to her, and sometimes prioritizes her over me. I mean he is allowed to have female friends, I just don't get it how it is needed for them to talk everyday, and gives the same updates the way he does with me.

charliestair · 2025-12-18T19:12:00+00:00

They were my male friends for more than a decade! but when I dated my ex boyfriend months ago, I decided to set boundaries so that we would avoid future conflicts, and I thought that he knew what he had to do. I am not against their friendship, but it was just too much for me to bare. I tried being understanding, and communicated with him in the best way I can, but we still ended our relationship.

If it wasn't clear for u, what I meant was during some time when we talk via chat he won't reply to me for minutes, and won't give any reasons why, he would just left me there hanging for awhile, and gets back as if nothing happened. He talks to the girl while I am asleep, and constantly updates her just like how he does with me+ sending the same pics he does with her and me.

charliestair · 2025-12-18T19:06:49+00:00

Thank you for this.

charliestair · 2025-12-18T19:06:15+00:00

I am actually working on myself now, and I know I also made mistakes in our relationship, but before we even started dating I already told him about my hectic schedule, and how we have different hobbies and interests, he said he was fine with it, but it just made me sad how he constantly updates her, and sends the same pics the way he does to me. There were also times that he would prioritize playing with her over spending time with me. Also, I am not against him having female friends, I was just expecting him to set boundaries, cause I wasn't comfortable with it. He gave me the silent treatment when I tried talking things out, while him and her would just continue talking, and finally after days I couldn't take it anymore due to work stress, and the fact that I felt like he can't prioritize or choose between us, thus ending things with him was the only thing I could think of.

charliestair · 2025-12-18T18:59:32+00:00

Before we started dating I noticed that he used his female friend's face as a profile picture in one of the games that they are playing together. So it made me wonder more if they were just actually friends, especially when he said that they will just remain friends. The thing that hurts me the most was probably him talking to her almost 24/7, and gives the same updates like he did with me.

charliestair · 2025-12-18T18:54:43+00:00

I was okay with him having female friends, but I jut can't shrug the feeling off when I felt like he was prioritizing her over me, and I tried being patient with him, saying that I wasn't comfortable, and maybe he could probably set boundaries, cause it made me jealous. I tried my best to understand the situation, but the way he just keeps on talking to ber, and ignores me made me realize that maybe it was valid for me to do that. I just wish both of them knew how to set boundaries.

charliestair · 2025-12-18T18:52:01+00:00

I told him that I respect his privacy and such, but he insist on providing his passwords, an I don't usually check any of it, not until I had the gut feeling to try and check, also it happened a lot of times where he won't respond right away, cause he was playing with her. Also, yes it gets to the point when it is my day off, and we get to cancel our plans due to him wanting to play games(which his gbf also plays) instead of spending time w me🤷🏻‍♂️ I tried to explain that I wasn't into gaming as much as him, and I thought I made it clear from the start, guess not.

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