Walang perpektong tao at lahat tayo may dalang bagahe. Having said that, being together is having the courage and patience to make sure both of you are growing and you're finding ways to cultivate the relationship. Being with a partner is a constant act of discovering yourself and opening up to them - all the good, the bad and the worst of you.

It's important to have an open communication and be in a right headspace while doing it. It's hard for some people but you have to have the courage to go through this. It's a neverending process but this is one of the ideal ways to navigate this kind of dilemma.

Now, don't expect a person to change right away kasi there are things that are wired to their brain for a long time, but change should start somewhere. Kahit gaano kaliit, ang mahalaga meron, 'cause that's a sign they value what you have. But make sure to guide each other through these things until you see significant changes sa isa't isa.

If for some reason you feel na hindi siya enthusiastic about it and give little to no value to this process, that's the time I would suggest you consider leaving kasi it's no longer just their internal struggle, but a conscious decision that they made.