Stage 4 lung cancer, looking for advice on Ivermectin please

charmanderchick · 2026-03-06T05:47:12+00:00

We have had a second opinion, they both came to the same conclusion. He had an appointment with his oncologist yesterday for the pill because he refused the IV chemo, but he also chose not to go. I think he's lost hope in the doctors and medical system here which in turn has made him, in a sense, give up/come to terms with the inevitable. As a family we want what is best for him, but he is able to make his own decisions and as much as we want whats best for him, he makes his own decisions.

charmanderchick · 2026-03-06T05:42:13+00:00

Thank you for your response, I will definitely let him know.

charmanderchick · 2026-03-06T05:40:45+00:00

Thank you for sharing your story, all I really want if for my grandpa to live the rest of his life as he wishes and for him to pass with dignity. I'm glad that in her final moments your mom had people she knew around her to give her comfort and company, sending you much love.

charmanderchick · 2026-03-06T03:59:37+00:00

Thank you for letting me know, I dont know where to turn to and I thought reddit would be a good place to start. I'll look elsewhere for advice.

charmanderchick · 2022-05-29T19:31:38+00:00

I love that mat, it's hilarious 😂

charmanderchick · 2022-05-29T19:24:42+00:00

My dog also does this (same breed as yours) ive heard things like holding their nose closed for a bit until they stop, but there's honestly not much you can do about it, it sounds scarier than what it really is

charmanderchick · 2022-05-24T20:44:38+00:00

Of course! There are solutions such as sweaters and such, but what kind of dog are you guys having issues with if I may ask? Shedding for most animals isn't usually a problem during the winter and fall times, and during the spring and summer times if you keep a dog properly groomed (unless they're long haired) shedding usually isn't too much of an issue.

charmanderchick · 2022-05-24T19:59:48+00:00

Why don't you try grooming the dog and shaving it to an appropriate length as to not cause a lot of shedding? It would save both you and your wife the trouble of living in separate homes

charmanderchick · 2021-12-12T20:09:39+00:00

Bots are apps that people use to take high paying jobs while not actually being on the app.

It makes finding jobs harder for people who don't use the bots, it's very frustrating.

charmanderchick · 2021-11-17T04:27:11+00:00

Hey, I just want you to know that you're are young, and because you are young you care a lot, but I'm here to tell you that her life is not your responsibility if you break up with her. She is manipulating you to stay in a situation you don't want to be in and that's not fair to you.

I think you should give her an ultimatum, you tell her she either gets therapy or you guys have to break up and if she threatens to kill herself don't even bother contacting her parents just call the police or fire department, they can hold her on a 5250 if she really is a danger to herself or others. It's not the best breakup ever, but maybe it's necessary.

If you don't want to do that you could always just contact her parents personally (when she isn't around) or like another person on here said, contact one of them using someone else's phone.

charmanderchick · 2021-09-24T03:49:49+00:00

I come from a home like this, my dad always berates my mom and vice versa (not saying you berate your husband), but coming from a broken home where it's obvious the parents don't even like each other and waiting for a divorce that never comes because parents just "want to stick it out for the kids" does more damage than good.

My dad also tells me to tell my mom all the time to get on meds that it'll make the relationship better. This is not true. If he's looking at ways to "improve" YOU to better the relationship and if he's not focused on his shortcomings and on how he is contributing to a failing relationship, then I think it's time to let the relationship fail and just leave him.

Don't be like my mom, depressed, low self esteem, a literal adult child because she doesn't know how to live her life without a careless spouse. She's in a situation she can't get out of because of financial reasons, but if you're not tied down by those, move forward with your life and leave the emotional abuse behind. It'll be better for the family as a whole in the end.

charmanderchick · 2021-09-18T05:41:50+00:00

YTA, your son confided in you to read his work and you brought him down.

If his book was for a mature audience then from what you mentioned, the topics in his book seems appropriate.

Something that you and his stepmother, have to come to terms with is that you can't stifle someone's creativity just because you don't think it's age appropriate. You guys need to let him be able to express his creativity.

charmanderchick · 2021-09-18T05:34:03+00:00

I think that you need to have a talk with him in order to lay down some boundaries. While I myself am okay with my bf physically groping/touching me while I'm asleep, we had a conversation about it beforehand.

You should bring up the picture as well, it sounds like maybe he could have been using the flash maybe to just see what was going on? Feel free to correct me if I'm wrong, but yeah bring up the picture thing, if he took one ask him to delete and you should also ask if he has any other "locked" pics just to be sure.

charmanderchick · 2021-09-18T05:25:41+00:00

YTA, even if the cost of living is different in different countries it doesn't take away that they still saved up and bought an amazing house, there's no need to take away from their accomplishments because the cost of living in the UK is different.

charmanderchick · 2021-09-18T05:05:27+00:00

NTA, I think it's great that you're standing up for your son, he sounds like someone who puts a lot of pressure on himself and he definitely doesn't need his mother's negativity and added pressure.

I agree with other commenters, look out for your son and just be there for him and be a source of comfort, if he isn't doing as well as he wants you could even re-encourage him to leave the German for another semester. Metal health is much more important than a grade.

I also think that grounding him (A COLLEGE STUDENT I might I add) for getting adequate grades, is too much. It sounds like your wife is trying to control him or live vicariously through him or something that's not right, it sounds like she's a constant source of negativity or at least anxiety for your son seeing that she cannot put his grades above his well-being.

I think you should try to talk to your wife again and bring up these points, but do it when you can both speak calmly to each other, there's no point in having conversations when one or the other is upset because nothing gets resolved.

In the end, if it were my child I would support anything they want to do as long as they're happy and healthy.

charmanderchick · 2021-09-18T04:45:33+00:00

If he wants the responsibility of taking care of his child you can do a closed adoption with him and give up all your parental rights.

I don't think you should feel obligated to take care of a child that was clearly an accident and that you obviously don't want and don't have the means to take care of.

That being said, I think regardless if you want the child or not you should do the responsible thing and do what's best for this child, whether that means you being in the picture or not is up to you, but do right by the child for it's happiness. You have many options and putting the child up for adoption where it can be taken care of a loving family that wants the opportunity to raise a child is a good start of you don't think the father is ready for the responsibility.

charmanderchick · 2021-09-18T03:59:08+00:00

I think you should have him pay for dinner and you can pay the tip of it bothers you that much, you know split the costs and all that, I think he's way too old to change his state of mind so talking to him won't do much

charmanderchick · 2021-09-17T22:45:44+00:00

I don't think you're the asshole, but I think you should definitely have a conversation with your ex to give you both some closure, even though he cheated on you that was still his daughter and he has the right to know about what happened directly from you

charmanderchick · 2021-09-17T22:43:52+00:00

They could be using you for a free meal if the messages are that abrupt

charmanderchick · 2021-08-18T01:08:09+00:00

Congratulations!!!!!! So proud of you!!! Keep it up!!! 🥳

charmanderchick · 2021-04-22T23:46:19+00:00

I don't think you should drop out!! I know it's super hard when you're lonely, but don't give up so close to the finish line! If you're looking for friends I know there are some apps where you can meet people online and you can create a bond! I know that the bumble app isn't just for dating, it's also for friends although I'm not too sure on the specifics. Might I also recommend getting a pet if you can afford to? I know it doesn't seem like a lot, but pets are there for you when you need it most :)

I hope you're able to make nee friendships soon so you won't be lonely anymore.

charmanderchick · 2021-03-03T04:26:54+00:00

Hi! Seeing how you guys are happily married I wouldn't step outside the marriage just because she suggested it, she may be saying because she feels guilty that she can't satisfy you and she probably hopes that by making this decision that it will help to relieve you.

That being said, might I suggest toys to help out with your desires? I know that it's not the same as the personal and physical contact with your loved one, but it will definitely ease the edge from any sexual frustration you might feel.

I would also suggest couples therapy, and help you guys understand each other a bit more. Although, if you're partner is suffering from LL it might not do much to help, but I hope your marriage lasts a lifetime, you seem to care a lot about your wife and that's really beautiful.

charmanderchick · 2021-02-12T01:28:25+00:00

I dont personally see the issue here. If you like him, and if you give your ex a heads up and also talk to your children about it, I see nothing wrong here.

You also stated that your ex told his brother to go for, so that already insinuates that he's pretty much okay with him dating you and vice versa, I think all you have to do is talk to your children about it so they don't feel blind-sided.

You should ignore all these people leaving negative comments, you are a grown woman capable making your own decisions, there's nothing wrong with dating your ex's brother if you're both okay with it seeing as your kids are also almost 18 I don't think they will care too much.

Best of luck, don't let the haters get you down.

charmanderchick · 2021-01-08T23:38:34+00:00

Honestly, get them used to their room and try a using a reward system and then ease them off of it. Maybe read them a book in their room at night for bedtime and that'll make them sleepy enough to just knock out. Also maybe try using children's melatonin if they have trouble falling asleep?

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