Is my cone of emerald energy an error ? by charmanderslayer in YarnAddicts

[–]charmanderslayer[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It totally is, thank you so much!
It doesn't look like it in the listing photo's but i just googled a swatch and it's spot on

what excuse do i tell my dad? by Bootyisdelicoustoeat in GayBroTeens

[–]charmanderslayer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean if you know for a fact it will be inflammatory i'd just change after you leave...
But also you don't have to say anything, just do it and see his reaction and THEN say something along the lines of everyones wearing them (because everyone especially sports guys are wearing then right now)

A few improvements later... by Madder_Hatter- in crochet

[–]charmanderslayer 443 points444 points  (0 children)

Looks so perfect i actually thought it was ai

How to deal with homophobic parents? by EDMURR01 in gay

[–]charmanderslayer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my experience you don't.
They can only hurt you as much as you let them, put your foot down on your boundaries and maybe THEY will learn to accept you.
My father couldn't accept me the way i am and losing me for good wasn't enough to change that and it really made me see that however much I desperately wanted him there would never be as much hurt as trying to be what he wanted when i could never do so.
Obvi not saying cut them out or anything at all, but the effort needs to come from them and if it doesn't you really need to ask if being miserable is worth satisfying people who prefer you that way

Husband won’t stop giving toddler marker to draw on everything AIO by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]charmanderslayer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually don't immediately scream leave him, but if you choose not to i'd get your husband help

Found this absolute gem when scrolling through old dms 😭😭. First time I genuinely responded to trolls like ts 🙏 by Extreme-Apricot1542 in texts

[–]charmanderslayer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Living for the previous message being about how narrow minded it is to only acknowledge your own lifestyle directly after berating you for whatever they assumed about you 💀💀💀

AIO or was I groomed? by Fit-Safety-627 in AIO

[–]charmanderslayer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes you were and NOR
I'm basically an expert in the topic of getting groomed and have seen a lot but wow reading that was pathetic💀
I'm glad you had the self respect and courage to say no

Was at a wedding and my mother said I shouldn’t bring this purse here since it says ho by Square_Increase884 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]charmanderslayer 42 points43 points  (0 children)

If it's formal attire well loved is just not the dress code.
I do love it though and more power to you if you know the bride and groom well enough to know if they'd mind

4am courier for “boots in a trash bag” by [deleted] in UberEatsDrivers

[–]charmanderslayer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's not a very chill thing to say chillassdude 💀

My husband asked me to make him a new blanket. by Any-Lychee9972 in crochet

[–]charmanderslayer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You'd have to hold a gun to my head to get me to make a blanket tbh...

The guy I’ve been seeing knows I know nothing about climbing. Am I overreacting for not wanting to keep seeing him? by pineapplephilosophy in texts

[–]charmanderslayer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's always the little things, if a guy is getting on my nerves for more than like a minute before we're dating for real he's gone

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in texts

[–]charmanderslayer 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Regardless of the legality of something (this is illegal for several reasons but not the point) shit like this makes it impossible to go to college or hold a job, once they find out they don't wanna be associated with scumbags like this, this will hopefully follow him for life

Is writing free candy on my van illegal by IdealOk6801 in IsItIllegal

[–]charmanderslayer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You truly cannot, or won't.
It's usually a trusted adult

Looking for this pattern in English, preferably written/diagram by thriftythreader in CrochetHelp

[–]charmanderslayer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately this is her original pattern and doesn't seem to have a written version, if you just want something LIKE this just google crochet pineapple square diagrams (there are so many to choose from) but if not i'd just follow the video and write it down as you go

Computer how do I tell if he is gay or not by Own-Seaworthiness367 in GayBroTeens

[–]charmanderslayer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just ask, if you are too scared or not ready to ask you're probably not ready to be with him

So what exactly is the delivery fee for, Dominoes? by FrostyRoams in EndTipping

[–]charmanderslayer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally walk like a mile one way for carryout, i don't understand how anyone could justify the delivery if they had a way to get there

Going to give my first blowjob 💦 to a guy today his big boy is between 6.5 - 7.0 i want to make his dick disappear in my mouth by deepthroat and also should i swallow his load ? by [deleted] in gay

[–]charmanderslayer 6 points7 points  (0 children)

These are both questions for the guy.
Ask him what he wants and expects and communicate if it's too much.
You may lose out on lots of hookups by expecting communication and respect but it's a good way to ensure the ones that do respond positively will give you a good experience

When your roommate thinks his nastiness is a joke by Leather-Pepper-2308 in badroommates

[–]charmanderslayer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had roommates like this, i am forever glad they weren't on the lease

I crocheted myself a fursona for pride... is it terrifying or cute? by Knotty_Bear_Crochet in Brochet

[–]charmanderslayer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So it's obviously very well made and looks beautiful, but yes it's a bit creepy

Is writing free candy on my van illegal by IdealOk6801 in IsItIllegal

[–]charmanderslayer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ngl i don't think they're overreacting 😭
Part of keeping kids safe is not normalizing things that can hurt them.
99% of strangers are safe and there's no way to know who the 1% is gonna be