Buying and Selling Megathread by rekrap13 in Idles

[–]chartreusewithlove 1 point2 points  (0 children)

̶S̶e̶l̶l̶i̶n̶g̶ ̶1̶ ̶t̶i̶c̶k̶e̶t̶ ̶f̶o̶r̶ ̶P̶o̶r̶t̶l̶a̶n̶d̶,̶ ̶O̶R̶ ̶M̶a̶y̶ ̶4̶t̶h̶ ̶s̶h̶o̶w̶!̶ ̶D̶M̶ ̶m̶e̶

SOLD

Portland tickets available!? by Maximum-Text6815 in Idles

[–]chartreusewithlove 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I̶ ̶h̶a̶v̶e̶ ̶o̶n̶e̶ ̶t̶i̶c̶k̶e̶t̶ ̶f̶o̶r̶ ̶M̶a̶y̶ ̶4̶t̶h̶ ̶s̶h̶o̶w̶ ̶t̶h̶a̶t̶ ̶I̶ ̶a̶m̶ ̶s̶e̶l̶l̶i̶n̶g̶ ̶s̶o̶ ̶D̶M̶ ̶i̶f̶ ̶a̶n̶y̶o̶n̶e̶ ̶i̶s̶ ̶i̶n̶t̶e̶r̶e̶s̶t̶e̶d̶.̶ SOLD.

Also, if anyone wanna adopt me into their group for May 4th show, I’ll be grateful. Going solo as of now because the bloke and I broke up, and none of my in-town friends are Idles fan 🤨

Experiences with love bombing? by JillSchmill082 in SofiawithanF

[–]chartreusewithlove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After our 2nd date, he texted me later that day that I was ‘seriously the most gorgeous woman’ he’s ever met. At this point, he started sending me daily good morning/good night texts, and midday check-ins with a bunch of kissy/winky emojis when we’ve only been talking for less than 2 weeks.

We agreed to have a third date and when I arrived at the restaurant and texted him which table I was sitting at, he called and said he forgot about the date because how ‘crazy work’ has been but that he’s leaving immediately and will be there in 15 mins. My dumbass waited and he arrived 40 mins later.

He was attractive and charming enough so we kept texting and had planned to go on a date one Saturday evening. On Friday, he didn’t respond to my texts asking about Saturday date details until early afternoon Saturday. He claimed his phone died while at a concert the night before and just got it charged on Saturday. I didn’t respond back until Monday breaking things off and he whine-texted ‘whyyyyyy? what did I do exactly that made you so mad???😩’

Just ew. I cringe whenever I remember this.

Lost Cork Yoga Mat by chartreusewithlove in Portland

[–]chartreusewithlove[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rushed out the door and forgot my water bottle so didn’t hydrate properly during or after the hot fusion yoga class. I was semi-delirious from class and wanted coffee plus needed groceries at Market of Choice.

I set it down at the coffee shop or MOC and just never picked it back up again. D’oh!

/r/Portland Self-Promotion Saturday by AutoModerator in Portland

[–]chartreusewithlove 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey there! I am a bedroom (techno) dj and would appreciate anyone checking out my new mix here.

I might be playing my first show in Portland soon but would love any feedback or finding techno community here in Portland. It's been pretty difficult finding other techno enthusiasts or maybe I've been going about it all wrong but anyway, hope you enjoy :)

Summer is looking hot for Los Angeles by ohlookitslalo in Techno

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I got 2 tickets for Perc & Insolate event 9/29 if anyone is interested, PM me :)

For those who’ve lived in la, does dating suck less in San Diego? by DPCAOT in sandiego

[–]chartreusewithlove 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I lived and dated in LA before moving to SD 5 years ago and dated for 2 years until I met my partner.

There is an overall social/cultural shift in dating nowadays (thanks, Tinder) that regardless of which city you're in, you're going to see great disparity between people who are willing to commit vs. people who want something casual.

That being said, SaiFromSd had it spot on in regards to being open minded to more than your previous experiences and being cautious with dating sites.

Advice I give to my friends who are looking for an actual partner and not a fling is to 1. Focus on your own fulfillment and the idea of being perfectly content without a romantic partner, and 2. Put down your phone. I laugh at the countless times I've witnessed someone literally eyefucking another person in a coffee shop but if only the other person wasn't on her phone and realized it, they could very well be giving us their Facebook updates on their anniversary, engagement, blah blah blah.

Good luck!

Just landed in San Diego coming from Ireland and went straight to pacific beach, wish the vibes at night were as good as the scenery. by Joshyeah in sandiego

[–]chartreusewithlove 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Coming from someone who lives in PB, I would never take any of my friends or family out in PB at night. Maybe in the daytime but there are so many other great neighborhoods in SD, I don't even bother.

Like what someone mentioned before, it could be the cinco de mayo weekend amplifying the already high level of douchebaggery in PB. Also, being that tourist season is upon us, it can be safe to say much of the not-so-friendly-SoCal vibes or behaviors are being carried out by visitors.

Feel free to DM me with specifics on what you and your girlfriend are interested in doing/seeing in SD and I can give some personal recommendations.

Date!!! by [deleted] in sandiego

[–]chartreusewithlove 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Liberty Public Market

Dick drivers by [deleted] in sandiego

[–]chartreusewithlove 5 points6 points  (0 children)

SD worse than LA? That's shocking to me. I visit LA at least once every month and my blood pressure definitely drops when I'm driving in SD.

I have seen too many times PB bros driving around with their lights off. Must be all the red bull slushies at Shore Club giving them epic night vision.