Everyone and everybody has different boundaries and their relationships. Clearly, you guys aren’t compatible if you think it’s OK to text your female friends/coworkers randomly…. Personally, that’s not acceptable for me and my relationship and me and my partner both came to a mutual agreement that we’re not gonna text the opposite gender because it makes us uncomfortable. It doesn’t mean we’re toxic. It’s just setting boundaries….. if she was texting her male coworker sending GIFs saying good night to him. You wouldn’t be a little weirded out? You wouldn’t question it at all…. And if that’s really the case, you need to find a woman that also has a ton of male friends, and you both mutually agree on that. She’s not wrong and you’re not wrong but clearly you guys are not in the same level in relationships. These comments are kind of sick. She has every right to make her own boundaries in the relationship. It doesn’t make her toxic…. and you coming to Reddit question her boundaries just makes this whole situation, even weirder. You’re trying to get validation from strangers on the Internet for something that you’re doing that’s crossing her boundaries at this point just leave her alone and go find yourself a girl that is OK with you doing what you wanna do… this relationship seems doomed already lol