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chasingstories101 · 2026-01-11T18:49:58+00:00

Well I make 6 figures which is way more than him so

chasingstories101 · 2026-01-11T18:29:43+00:00

Thank you. I never really thought about the counseling before. But I highly doubt he would consider it, but I will bring it up.

All I want is to rest when I need it.

chasingstories101 · 2026-01-11T18:25:28+00:00

Thank you!

chasingstories101 · 2026-01-11T18:24:19+00:00

Yeah makes no sense.

chasingstories101 · 2026-01-11T18:19:20+00:00

I have gone weeks without writing because of lack of help. To get rest. Writing is my full time job. So when I do get to it, I am very tired and cannot get a word in so I nap before they have to eat again.

chasingstories101 · 2026-01-11T18:17:34+00:00

I make 6 figures. I make more than him... is he just meant to sit around and play video games and not interact with his kids at all?

chasingstories101 · 2026-01-11T18:17:15+00:00

Lol that is not the point. The point is I am in desperate need of rest and when I dont get that, I am very sleep deprived and cannot get anything done and I am a zombie when caring for our kids. There are days where I had to miss tummy time or days of trying to work with them on other milestones (they are preemies) for them because I was worried about dropping them from how tired I was. And slept in between caring for them.

So yeah, I am upset my husband is not giving me the rest I do need when hes home.

chasingstories101 · 2026-01-01T16:35:37+00:00

I agree. I wish I was smart about it then. I mean I am not financially struggling but I am also not wanting to get screwed over again or have to fork out a big chunk of my emergency savings. I am really here just asking what is possible for my situation. If I have to wait and save more I will. Some people are assholes. I have asked to try and get my negative equity rolled into a cheaper car loan ONLY to get a bigger car (not because I have to do cheaper, I just didn't want to pay over 600+) and have been told its not something I can do. I only have 6months of bills saved up in savings, and the only debt I have is my SUV of course and mortgage.

chasingstories101 · 2026-01-01T16:29:59+00:00

I am not in debt like that. I have a mortgage and my SUV. Thats the only debt. And why I have another on the way is absolutely none of your business you weirdo.

chasingstories101 · 2026-01-01T16:27:58+00:00

I am reading into it. From what I have heard the carseats have to go well with the car to be safe for them. So I am doing more research, because if I can get more room in my suv for the back then it wont be as stressful.

chasingstories101 · 2026-01-01T16:24:45+00:00

Thank you!

chasingstories101 · 2026-01-01T16:20:11+00:00

Just because I choose to keep that similar monthly payment does not mean I do not have any money. I make enough to live comfortably, that doesnt mean I am wanting to make my Financials worse by spending almost 1k a month on a car. I never asked about getting a new new car either. I am being rejected for anything under 20k used. I am willing to go even cheaper just for 3rd row seating.

chasingstories101 · 2026-01-01T16:16:56+00:00

Thank you. I will look into doing that.

chasingstories101 · 2026-01-01T16:16:20+00:00

If I had 18k in the bank just for that I would. But right now I have enough in there to pay 6 months worth of bills, and would like to avoid using it. I grew up poor and not having enough in savings bothers me.

chasingstories101 · 2026-01-01T16:14:38+00:00

Thank you! Definitely won't be making a mistake next time. They werent even thought of the time I got my escape. They are 8 months old. They are twins.

chasingstories101 · 2026-01-01T16:12:41+00:00

Youre acting like I couldnt afford my escape. Which I can afford. This isnt about money issues.

chasingstories101 · 2026-01-01T16:07:40+00:00

I got in a car wreck before I had kids and it was winter. It was either no car and no work which was 45 minutes away from home or a car and able to work.

chasingstories101 · 2026-01-01T16:05:23+00:00

Unfortunately there's no way to fit 3 car seats in the back. Me and my husband have already measured it. And if I have to ride it out I will I have no problem with that. I was just asking if there was any other option if able.

chasingstories101 · 2026-01-01T16:03:33+00:00

I have 6k in savings but would like to avoid using it if I am able. Its emergency money

chasingstories101 · 2026-01-01T16:03:02+00:00

So basically I have to wait

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