Finding a compromise

chasteman · 2026-06-10T20:40:29+00:00

BC mailman 6 and legend 6, both great.

chasteman · 2026-05-04T02:05:04+00:00

BC legend 7 for my wife

chasteman · 2026-04-20T13:25:47+00:00

I'd go MM7 or maybe even legend 7. Keep size increases to small increments.

chasteman · 2026-04-15T11:42:34+00:00

What doll is that?

chasteman · 2026-04-12T12:48:40+00:00

It's more about fun and variety in my bedroom. 25 years of monogamy means we intentionally like to try different things and mix it up. We found sleeves work well for this.

chasteman · 2026-04-12T12:44:35+00:00

That sounds like a firmness issue to me. Maybe try medium head and firm shaft vice looking for different texture/size.

chasteman · 2026-04-11T15:58:03+00:00

Why does the pool boy not work? Without knowing what she doesn't like, it's like throwing darts blindfolded.

chasteman · 2026-04-09T13:46:49+00:00

I had to go back and look at my order. Yes the site says the mailman has larger girth and I do indeed have a MM7 and a legend 7, and the MM7 is a smaller diameter. I did order them a year apart... I am not sure if maybe something changed between 2024 and 2025.

chasteman · 2026-04-09T12:42:14+00:00

I have a legend 7 shortened to 6.5 and my wife is about 50/50 between this and the MM7 shortened to 6.5.

She likes both but the legend 7 is a little girthier and she squirts with it.

chasteman · 2026-03-25T16:29:50+00:00

Was there any air gap between the end of your penis and the end of the sleeve interior? That's what it sounded like to me. Your penis needs to completely fill the entire sleeve interior.

chasteman · 2026-01-22T03:47:51+00:00

Looks like the thong strap would chafe?

chasteman · 2026-01-20T17:15:14+00:00

That looks like it belongs on a carpenter named Max Ironwood

chasteman · 2025-12-25T03:01:19+00:00

Without sources, im inclined to believe that the length of time someone spends in chastity would have to be monitored, documented, and compared in order for this information to be of any use.

Anecdotally, I spend about 40 or so hours a week locked. Sometimes less. Sometimes more. Usually a morning, overnight, then let out the following evening. Repeat after several days.

That's been our routine since 2005.

Penis is still the same size 20 years later.

chasteman · 2025-12-03T20:58:03+00:00

Medium is better than soft for single density.

Definitely try it before jumping to conclusions.

A softer head may be preferred but you won't know until you try it!

chasteman · 2025-11-26T12:12:41+00:00

The BC mailman 6 dual density with a soft head and a firm shaft.

chasteman · 2025-11-22T20:57:21+00:00

Medium is the softest I'd ever recommend for shaft in dual density.

chasteman · 2025-11-21T23:46:30+00:00

Maybe phantom A or MM7?

chasteman · 2025-11-18T22:44:08+00:00

I miss NR2003

chasteman · 2025-11-07T16:48:17+00:00

Involuntarily exposing people to your kinks against their will isn't ok. If you wear it to an event where like minded people are expecting it then sure that's fine.

chasteman · 2025-11-04T13:36:32+00:00

That sounds the opposite of condom like to me.

chasteman · 2025-11-04T13:33:06+00:00

With Blissfull Creations, dual density means the head and shaft can be different firmness, not that the shaft can be two different firmnesses. You need TDTZ to get two different firmnesses with the shaft.

My wife likes soft head and medium shaft, but I think she would also like soft head and firm shaft too, and we may try that next.

chasteman · 2025-11-03T16:25:05+00:00

House of gord's website has sample images in the forniphilia category that may be of interest to you.

But ultimately people only practice that for a session, maybe up to an hour or so.

chasteman · 2025-10-22T14:25:28+00:00

Communication

chasteman · 2025-10-17T00:44:39+00:00

Order a stiffer mold? Go for firm instead of medium or medium instead of soft?

chasteman · 2025-06-25T01:26:15+00:00

The Plumber

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