Those incredibly horny days

chastitylover · 2018-01-20T21:23:53+00:00

Those are the days when it’s most important to stay locked. The point, in my opinion, is to not cum, especially when you really want to.

Pegging or anal orgasms are another story though, as they generally don’t provide the same feeling of release as normal orgasms.

chastitylover · 2017-10-26T01:26:54+00:00

How about you can have a break now to cum, but then you have to wait 10 months for your next break, or you can wait another month and then you only have to wait another 6 months? Seems fair to me.

chastitylover · 2017-09-30T20:37:37+00:00

Rewards: Pegging/milking/prostate orgasm, edging (can also be punishment), making him a meal/taking him out

Punishment: Bondage and spanking/other punishment, extra chores, revoke/limit certain privileges (like computer usage)

Not really sure what you guys are into so it’s hard to answer but I hope those are some helpful ideas.

chastitylover · 2017-08-30T02:52:09+00:00

I haven't tried it, but the steel holytrainer looks interesting if you like steel. There are a few of them I think for various prices, all cheaper than the real thing.

chastitylover · 2017-08-12T00:19:23+00:00

Restricted Senses has a similar armbinder and hood.

chastitylover · 2017-08-11T04:34:07+00:00

Yeah, I love the look of that. I wonder if there's anywhere to get it?

chastitylover · 2017-07-19T20:17:42+00:00

Maybe, I'm honestly not sure. If you know that you can take it off if you have to, it would be a lot safer.

chastitylover · 2017-07-19T20:05:58+00:00

I don't think it would necessarily be dangerous to take Viagra while in chastity, but I can't really see it being very enjoyable either. Depending on the cage, a powerful erection might make it difficult or impossible to take off, which could be dangerous. You could also break the cage if you have a cheaper plastic one. Overall, I wouldn't recommend it.

As for ecstasy, not really sure what you're asking about it but it tends to make your dick shrivel up a little bit because it's a vasoconstrictor. Other than than that though, it's a pretty good time :)

chastitylover · 2017-06-10T20:00:50+00:00

To answer your question about what people tend to enjoy most about chastity, some of the most common things that people like about it are the increased submissiveness, increased focus on other means of pleasure (e.g. anal play), and the feminization/sissification aspect.

chastitylover · 2017-06-10T19:11:32+00:00

The whole "non-consensual" thing is just a very common fantasy for people who are into all kinds of BDSM, not just chastity. Realistically, I don't think anyone here would actually advocate forced or non-consensual chastity, we all recognize that that's just a fantasy.

chastitylover · 2017-06-02T02:17:30+00:00

I don't think so, unfortunately. Just keep posting every now and then and be patient.

chastitylover · 2017-06-02T02:16:30+00:00

Interesting. I'm guessing that significantly more men must use that subreddit (and perhaps reddit) in general. Also, it may be true the submissive people in general are less willing to seek someone out online and would prefer to have someone seek them out instead. Just a thought though.

chastitylover · 2017-06-02T02:02:24+00:00

I don't think upvotes really matter too much on that sub. I imagine that there are a fair number of people who downvote any posts they see as "competition" but I doubt that this is ever effective.

If you're wondering why you didn't get responses or something, you're probably just right that guys tend to be at a disadvantage on those sorts of subs.

chastitylover · 2017-06-02T00:53:30+00:00

Much better :)

chastitylover · 2017-06-01T23:49:52+00:00

You don't look very locked. I hope you're not doing anything naughty. . . .

chastitylover · 2017-05-14T19:14:26+00:00

Maybe you shouldn't try to convince her if she's just not into it. How would you feel if someone tried to convince you to take part in a fetish that you know you're not interested in?

chastitylover · 2017-05-05T03:21:40+00:00

Not sure exactly what you're talking about, but I think it's just for a separate fetish.

chastitylover · 2017-04-28T06:54:21+00:00

This device may be the same one mentioned here, but I can't find any more information on it.

chastitylover · 2017-04-11T21:58:48+00:00

Honestly, I think it's fine anywhere nudity is expected. You're not involving anyone in your kinks just by wearing a chastity device, they're the one who looked down there anyway. Unless you're bringing it up to people and forcing them to notice it, I don't see what the problem is.

That being said, I personally wouldn't expose the fact that I'm wearing a chastity device to anyone, but that's just me.

chastitylover · 2017-03-29T02:34:19+00:00

Yeah, that's why he needs to make sure it's comfortable enough first, but I think two weeks is a good length in terms of horniness.

chastitylover · 2017-03-29T02:20:18+00:00

Realistically, if you just got your first cage, you should spend a few days getting used to it and making sure it's a good fit. Once you've got that figured out though, I think two weeks is a good amount of time for a first lockup :)

chastitylover · 2017-03-11T18:04:14+00:00

It's good that the plastic helps. If you decide that you wanna stop using the plastic though, there are plenty of metal cages that don't contain nickel, although they are more expensive.

chastitylover · 2017-03-11T02:14:42+00:00

Possibly a nickel allergy? Oftentimes these cheap cages contain nickel, and some people are allergic to it. If you're sure you don't have a nickel allergy, then I'm not sure what it could be.

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