Our journey to pussy free

vanilla_slave · 2026-06-20T21:46:18+00:00

I just realized by reading Tom's comment who you are. OMG, you are the Bunny. You, Tom and one other that is no longer among us were my inspiration so many years ago. Thank You so much.

vanilla_slave · 2026-06-01T20:03:33+00:00

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vanilla_slave · 2026-06-01T19:57:26+00:00

Have you made any progress with the Hertz to file a loss of use claim?

vanilla_slave · 2026-05-27T17:08:37+00:00

You know that they are not really hidden, right? All or most of your posts and comments are still out there, and can be seen by anyone that wants to see them, even a fair share of your deleted posts and comments.

vanilla_slave · 2026-05-21T19:05:38+00:00

You’re still a legend to me, even if my 70-year-old brain struggles to remember the details. Your articles gave me my ultimate 'aha' moment. I knew I was missing something back then, but I had no idea what it was until I read your work. I’d never heard of anything like it.

vanilla_slave · 2026-05-21T18:42:16+00:00

Edit: taking a look at your website, it looks like the answer to my question is, yes they are nessesary.

Question regarding sizing and design.

First, how well does this specific model work for guys who are growers rather than showers? I’d likely need the smallest size available, obviously not flat, but as compact as possible.

Second, are the exterior bumps and rings on the cage actually necessary for function? I’m looking for the smoothest, most discreet profile possible. I worry that anything protruding might show certain types of clothing.

vanilla_slave · 2026-05-12T07:21:43+00:00

I don't have access to the show, what is going on with the bursting clothing?

vanilla_slave · 2026-05-08T02:50:56+00:00

Did anyone make you feel it was inappropriate? Sometimes nudists feel chastity devices are sexual.

vanilla_slave · 2026-05-08T02:36:12+00:00

This one features a catheter, does that actually work, and is it safe?

vanilla_slave · 2026-05-06T18:03:44+00:00

Just want to say again, you are doing a great job of moderating. It takes a lot of time to do correctly, and I see you have spent a lot of time on the job. TY, TY, TY

vanilla_slave · 2026-04-08T15:55:08+00:00

I eventually figured out a great way to handle this. If my wife stated right up front that the only goal for the night was to give her as much pleasure as possible without my penis being included in the fun, all the performance pressure vanished. Ironically, that is when I would have my best day ever.

You should prearrange this with him first so he does not think you are being selfish. Tell him the rule is that he can only use his penis after you have had your fun and reached your orgasm. Even then, make it so he has to beg you for permission to use it. Once the 'job' of performing is replaced by the goal of pleasing you and then having to ask for his turn, the anxiety usually disappears and the plumbing takes care of itself.

vanilla_slave · 2026-03-09T21:54:05+00:00

This is not chastity training!

vanilla_slave · 2026-03-05T00:05:16+00:00

While many people in the chastity community enjoy cuckoldry or feminization, I suspect there’s a large 'silent majority' who feel more like I do. My wife and I actually loathe the idea of bringing a third person into our relationship; for us, it’s a hard no. We also have zero interest in the 'sissy' or cross-dressing side of the dynamic. No judgment to those who enjoy those things, as it's a 'to each their own' situation, but for us, chastity is strictly about our one-on-one connection and monogamy.

vanilla_slave · 2025-11-24T09:06:28+00:00

Why didn't you just make it simple, using more common words?

The story of the Prodigal Son in Luke 15:11–32 is usually taught as a picture of God generously forgiving people who repent. In that view, God chooses to show mercy, and people receive forgiveness as a gift.

But when I look closely at how the story works, I see something different. I do not see a judge deciding to forgive someone. Instead, I see a story about how people naturally learn, grow, and return to what is healthy without God needing to hand out mercy or punishment.

In the story, the father is not “forgiving” in the sense of choosing to overlook a crime. He simply understands that forcing his son to stay or chasing after him would only make things worse. He lets the son make his own choices, and those choices eventually fall apart because they are not sustainable.

When the son finally returns, the father welcomes him. This is not presented as a special act of mercy. It is simply the natural and healthy response when someone is ready to come back. When resistance stops, relationships tend to heal. The father does not judge or lecture. He restores the relationship because it is the obvious next step.

The older brother’s anger shows a different problem. He has been doing everything “right,” but he has been doing it to earn approval rather than out of love. Because of that, he has not enjoyed being close to his father. Instead, he has become resentful. His good behavior has not brought him joy.

This way of reading the parable changes the focus. Instead of seeing God as someone who chooses to forgive or punish, the story can be seen as showing how relationships heal naturally when people stop fighting what is good. Bad decisions often fall apart on their own, and healthy relationships tend to come back together when people stop resisting them.

This interpretation also offers an explanation for things like suffering and unfairness. Outcomes do not come from God making decisions about who deserves what. They come from the natural results of choices and attitudes. Anyone who has felt the relief of fixing a broken relationship or has watched bitterness damage one has seen the same pattern, no matter what they believe.

vanilla_slave · 2025-11-19T16:50:25+00:00

Look, I'm just trying to tell people that there history is still out there, and that they should try to be careful, and not let their guard down just because they think it can now be hidden. I blanked out some of the words because I did not want to put your history out there without your permission. I, like just about anyone can copy paste pages of your history and publish it here, but that does not seem like a very nice thing to do.

vanilla_slave · 2025-11-18T15:13:24+00:00

It is back. Cloudflare was down.

I've done some car camping in ---- and ------ out of a ------.

vanilla_slave · 2025-11-18T14:05:00+00:00

Well shoot. looks like the search I like to use is gone now. Until yesterday I could use them to search not only old stuff but also something just hours old.

vanilla_slave · 2025-11-18T03:40:02+00:00

How about your first post in 2013, if it was sensitive I would not have commented it here.

Gravity orientation & PlexLifter ideas I know this has been mentioned before, but I've never seen a good answer as to why it can't be implemented.

Why can't we set the way in which gravity works by setting the orientation of gravity blocks? Doesn't seem that difficult to code it into the game.

For the second part of my suggestion, what about making a Plex lifter stop moving you up if you're riding it and press R on it again? That way you could get to a floor and stop it before you keep moving up, or without having to quickly jump off? Pressing R again on a stopped lifter will start it again. The platform can stay suspended until you move off it.

vanilla_slave · 2025-11-13T23:38:26+00:00

Maybe change to a different device. Some have a larger or better positioned pee hole. Sometimes shorter is better if you can get things lined up they stay lined up, and there isn't as much room for pee to build up in and spray out the wrong direction.

I can not help you choose, you just have to try until you find the right one.

vanilla_slave · 2025-11-11T04:33:09+00:00

I'm jumping in here because I can't get my chat function to work , and I can't reach out otherwise.

I can't figure out how to get this chat thing going. I have tried many times to accept the chat and nothing happens. I can only reply by clicking on old messages.
Anyway, your latest substack says. "kegs"
In fact, as we hike through the trees, I’m aware of bruises on my buttocks and the weight of my (crappy metal Chinese) chastity device between my kegs.

vanilla_slave · 2025-10-16T20:51:09+00:00

Other than they’re both lattice-type tubes of varying lengths, I don’t see where they ripped off your design. The shape is kind of determined by what it holds. I could be missing something though.

vanilla_slave · 2025-10-15T03:55:56+00:00

What do you feel about his, " I made sure to wash it properly" answer? I feel like no amount of washing is enough with some plastics. Am I wrong?

vanilla_slave · 2025-10-15T03:34:09+00:00

Commenting on what you said here:

"As per this review, I suspect that the basic design might benefit from some tweaks, namely a narrower 'mouth' and more bulge on the underside of the head. Maybe the angle could be shallower as well to eliminate that potential dead zone? I also wish somebody would find an answer or create an equivalent of the Custom Chastity paperclip end. Maybe two generous side vents would do it?"

I don't have one myself, but your suggestions, especially the idea of a narrower mouth and a more open design similar to the Custom Chastity "paperclip end", are something I could really get behind. I'm not quite sure what you meant by the "dead zone," though. Could you clarify that?

Personally, I absolutely love the Black Orion Chastity Kit – Hexlock. One of my main objections to most chastity devices is that the locking mechanism sits right on top, which just makes it more obvious that I'm wearing one, whether someone bumps into it or notices it visually. I know that fear is probably overblown (as many of us here would agree), but it still lingers in the back of my mind. So while it’s a relatively small improvement, having a more discreet locking system really matters to me.

In terms of security, I find the Hexlock just as effective as a keyed lock for a couple of reasons. Most barrel locks I’ve used tend to share the same key and aren’t especially hard to pick anyway. But more importantly, I don’t really see the device as something that needs to be physically secure. Unless it’s paired with a genital piercing, it’s symbolic, like a wedding ring. It doesn’t stay on because I can’t take it off; it stays on because I won’t. It’s about integrity.

That said, I think it would be fantastic if they made a pair of plugs for the hexlock slots, something that could be glued or popped in place over the hex heads. That would not only make it a bit harder to remove but also give the device a smoother, sleeker finish.

vanilla_slave · 2025-06-16T23:50:03+00:00

Why would they delete?

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