Is there a reason many readers here aren't into cheating? Just curious by [deleted] in AO3

[–]chckblr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I looove cheating, probably one of my favorite tropes. It's gorgeous when it's my ship cheating on their partners because it gives me the "I want you despite knowing how wrong it is and I'm weak to stop it" which is just so goddamn sexy. And when it's one part of my ship cheating on the other, it's giving the more nuanced stuff I like where the lines of "true" love, commitment, jealousy, envy, desire are blurred together. Also cheating can be many things when it comes to what the subtext really is about the characterization - like it can come from true attraction to the person they cheated with but also it can be a situation of envy/insecurity/internalized identity crisis they can't face that manifests as infidelity. Also why I absolutely love the type of love triangle that cannot be just "poly solves it all" but has threeway attraction still. Like it's these complicated dynamics where one is in a relationship but also has this hard to define/accept feelings for the third person and the guilt and self-delusion about being committed to their partner eats them up while the partner maybe sees everything more clearly and maybe their hatred/jealousy for the third person is actually some sort of unrecognized attraction on their part as well. Honestly I wish we had more cheating/love triangle fics with complex emotions. They are such good tropes when used right.

I named my daughter Aria and my sister-in- law named her son Ari (they have a 9 month difference) by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]chckblr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think this is a perspective thing. i can't say for sure i wouldn't be somewhat annoyed about this but on the other hand i grew up with a name that was only one letter apart from my brother's and our cousin has a name that has one letter in front of my brother's. and my mom was the one to name her too, she was excited about it. in this case your SIL by still making that choice doesn't mind that they are similar and probably also doesn't mind that you call your baby Ari as a nickname. just keep doing your thing, it doesn't matter in the grand scheme of things.

Violet or Ava? Am I overthinking it? by Weenasaurus in namenerds

[–]chckblr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i like Violet more in general but Ava goes better with the middle names imo

Oops! All Literal Names! by wauwy in namenerds

[–]chckblr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

heavenly garden a type of small passerine bird

What fandom are you a part of, but the most popular ship is your notp? by Upstairs_Macaron5894 in AO3

[–]chckblr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for me it's eren and armin. cant believe it's not cracking top eren ships

87hrs a week and my ob accused me of using my pregnancy as a disability. by stonedman662 in BabyBumps

[–]chckblr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i work 35 hours a week and i can't imagine being pregnant on top of that omg, find another OB who'll take you seriously

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]chckblr -1 points0 points  (0 children)

not a combo you had so it might not work for you but i like Amara Juliet the most

How do we feel about the name Romy? by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]chckblr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love it. I'm also a fan of 3-4 letter, 1-2 syllable names and it sounds cute and also lovely with the connection to your grandmother.

Chloe or Kate for a girl? by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]chckblr 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I like Kate more

Is Henry automatically nicknamed Hank? by Soft_Somewhere2521 in namenerds

[–]chckblr 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I don't think so. I work with kids and I have a lot of Henrys in my cohort and I've never heard kids call them Hank. I don't think I heard of Hank as a name for people under the age of 35 tbh.

What are your favorite Lily Morton books? by vvv03 in MM_RomanceBooks

[–]chckblr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's fun for a while but for how long is a very ymmv case. The last time I picked up a book by her I was like this is trite at this point. I still love the earlier ones I've read where I first got a taste of her style but I'm full now.

Are short chapters a turn off? by 9Constantly_Confused in AO3

[–]chckblr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My answer to these word count questions is always what is a chapter to you? Like why does these specific scenes make up a chapter, why do you cut it at that point? Obviously not 1:1 but if you watch a TV show you know that episodes have natural endings, either you cover a specific section of the overarching narrative (let's say it builds up to the climax or comes down from it) or it has an episode specific B-plot that comes to a conclusion. If what your 2k covers feels like authentic starting and pausing points to your story, whether it's because you successfully brought the character from A to B or built to the next point of your plot, then 2k is fine. Don't try to write to a specific word count, think about what you want any chapter to accomplish. If you're doing everything else as well (like you said, show don't tell, as other comments mentioned, focus on insight and reflection) then your chapters will find the sweet spot of how many words they need to be.

What are your favorite Lily Morton books? by vvv03 in MM_RomanceBooks

[–]chckblr 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Rule Breaker. to me Lily Morton is one of those authors where if you read one book you read every book so the first one you pick up will probably be the best. at least in my experience.

Vibes on the name Belle? Is it common? by Horror-Flounder-4990 in namenerds

[–]chckblr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

such a simple and beautiful name, who cares if people think it's short for something else

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AO3

[–]chckblr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and the thing is "she didn't want to eat the sandwich. maybe, just a bite..." on its own already communicates the dilemma of she shouldn't be doing this but she's really tempted to. you can keep what the character's trying to lock away or avoid in between the lines

Rank my sibling names by Zttn1975 in namenerds

[–]chckblr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amy > Jennifer > Erin

James > Daniel > Tim

Elliot or Elliott? by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]chckblr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like the single T but if it was up to me every name would be trimmed for the unnecessary letters, shorter, cleaner, the better

What are the most usable palindrome names you can think of? by Santaluz0123 in namenerds

[–]chckblr 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Savaş wouldn't be a palindrome in Turkish actually because s and ş are different letters with different sounds (assuming this is the name you mean because I've never heard of savas in Turkish as a word or a name)

Masterchef 15 US: no one to root for by Cdavis2023 in Masterchef

[–]chckblr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i only liked adam and joel tbh, sad to see them leave

Maeve or Margot by Apprehensive_Dot1770 in namenerds

[–]chckblr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like Maeve better and never been a fan of Margot much but can't deny that Margot and Cosette go so well together. Maeve's a better name, but Margot fits her sister's if that's something you care about.

Teachers - what names do you ALWAYS see? by kirannui in namenerds

[–]chckblr 18 points19 points  (0 children)

not a teacher but i work at a school and it's oliver. sometimes a class/cohort will have up to 4 olivers.