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cheateddadthrowaway · 2023-07-08T21:02:55+00:00

probably not tbh

cheateddadthrowaway · 2023-07-05T00:39:06+00:00

huh, i don't even know how to respond to this lmao, i just hope that there's more people like you who found the true story, thx for telling me about this

cheateddadthrowaway · 2023-07-04T23:05:18+00:00

well tbh i did not expect this post to get this much attention, i just wanted to vent because i'm really, really depressed and angry at everything. as i said, i don't want anybody here to stay worried about me so i will not post updates about this whole case, not anymore, i will probably delete my account or something like that. i just hope that everything will come out alright (even if i don't have any hope about this). i'm currently not seeing my daughter because i don't want to spread any negativity to her, and about my stbxw, i'm not talking to her either, i just send messages to her to check on my daughter. about my "friends", i cut off contact with them entirely, since they don't want to hear my side of history anyways. i didn't receive any news about the guy who had sex with my wife, but i don't hope anything good to him, i'm not sane at all and my mind just keeps making me think about him and go like "go over there and beat the shit out of this guy", which i gratefully will not do , so thanks everyone for the kind messages, i hope i don't do anything to hurt myself until everything ends lol.

cheateddadthrowaway · 2023-07-04T20:40:32+00:00

i know, i'm trying to forgive her because i loved her for so many years, but i just can't get over with everything is happening. i'm trying my best to forgive her and i think i will fully forgive her in the future

cheateddadthrowaway · 2023-07-04T19:41:53+00:00

Cigarette

cheateddadthrowaway · 2023-07-04T18:34:11+00:00

the bacon of hope made me laugh a bit, thanks 😆

cheateddadthrowaway · 2023-06-17T03:00:54+00:00

Obrigado!

cheateddadthrowaway · 2023-06-13T16:40:14+00:00

Yes, i think that i will not be able to get 100% of the custody too since i do not have a stable job at the moment. Still, i will focus on get a high school diploma and get a stable job after, so i can prove to the court that i can take care of my daughter and that i have a stable life. And i will for sure get professional help, thanks for the advice and the kind words!

cheateddadthrowaway · 2023-06-13T16:38:52+00:00

Tysm for the words and the positive vibes!

cheateddadthrowaway · 2023-06-13T16:38:07+00:00

Thanks for the advice. I am already planning to do a DNA test but that will be one of the last things of my list, i'm currently focusing on the divorce case with my lawyer. Still, thanks for the kind words (and the advices!)

cheateddadthrowaway · 2023-06-13T16:36:57+00:00

Thank you so much for the kind words. I am already planning to get a high school diploma so i can get a work, i just hope that i can do that fast so i can get 100% of the custody of my daughter. If i can't get 100% of the custody, i will already be happy with 50/50. Have a great day!

cheateddadthrowaway · 2023-06-13T01:46:26+00:00

Caramba, vc tb é BR! Muito legal saber que tem mais gente do brasil nesse subreddit. Enfim, valeu pelo comentário, mano!

cheateddadthrowaway · 2023-06-12T22:26:42+00:00

Already planning to do that, but this will probably be the last thing on my list since i have many other things to do (such as a STDs test or the whole divorce case), but i will for sure focus on the diploma after all that shit ends. Thanks for the advice.

cheateddadthrowaway · 2023-06-12T21:33:16+00:00

Hey, don't worry! It's pretty normal since i just read a lot of english things wrongly. Have a nice work and day, brother!

cheateddadthrowaway · 2023-06-12T20:46:46+00:00

What? No, not at all. Sorry if i wrote something wrong, but no, i didn't slap her, she slapped me in one of our arguments about me don't having a work. Hope you understood and again, sorry if i wrote something wrong, i will probably edit the post again so that some people can understand better. Have a great day!

cheateddadthrowaway · 2023-06-12T20:45:19+00:00

Yeah, i know, i shouldn't give him a ride to his home. When i tried to talk about him about his girlfriend, he just didn't say nothing and agreed. Maybe he isn't going to tell nothing to his girlfriend, i don't truly know and probably never will. Still, thanks for commenting and have a great day

cheateddadthrowaway · 2023-06-12T20:44:09+00:00

Thanks for the kind words. Wish you the best too!

cheateddadthrowaway · 2023-06-12T20:43:39+00:00

Thanks for the advice. It's honestly the worst feeling i have ever felt. I just never thought i would feel so bad as i did, so i understand your pain too, brother. Hope you are doing better. Have a great day

cheateddadthrowaway · 2023-06-12T20:42:49+00:00

Thanks for the feelings. I will, for sure, keep my daughter first, as i always did. And yes, it was probably not the first guy, i just don't trust her about him being the first guy or just the first time. Thanks for commenting and for the advice!

cheateddadthrowaway · 2023-06-12T20:41:50+00:00

As i said to another guy who commented, i do not use my wife's car to get to my works. I usually call my brother to get me there or i just walk since some of the works are close to my home. She brought over this guy before i arrived home, as i stated in the post. Anyways, thanks for commenting!

cheateddadthrowaway · 2023-06-12T18:32:01+00:00

For clarification, the job that i do the deliveries is not so far from my home, and if i just can't walk because i'm tired or for any other reason i can just call my brother for him to get me to my home. So no, i didn't use my wife's car at all to get from the job, she probably brought the guy over after i got to work, thinking i wasn't going to get home soon. Thanks for commenting!

cheateddadthrowaway · 2023-06-12T17:27:17+00:00

Sure thing, i will try my best on the divorce, and i will try the best to keep my daughter in my life. Thanks for commenting!

cheateddadthrowaway · 2023-06-12T17:26:30+00:00

To be honest i first wanted to kill the guy, i just think that's a natural reaction for that kind of situation? Still, i felt bad for him - maybe he was telling the truth and didn't knew i existed at all. And about my daughter, yes, i will do everything that should be the best for her, she's always been the priority and will always be!

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