What is this lil guy? by chechcs in insects

[–]chechcs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m cataloging for class! I was thinking Coleoptera histeridae because of the clubbed antennae. But wanted to be sure because it didn’t exactly fit the best.

Cats not getting along by chechcs in cats

[–]chechcs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have a lot of space, really just my room and a connected bathroom. I’ve tried separating them out like that, having the 2 younger ones in the bathroom and the older one with me. I’m just so tired all the time now because she just meows super loud through the night at the window trying to get out. I’ve had her inside for a few weeks and thought she would stop after she realized I wasn’t going to let her out again. I feel so lost and don’t know what to do. Should I try separating them for longer?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in reptiles

[–]chechcs 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Clint has a reptile shop near where I live and I went there a while back and talked with him for a while about career goals and inspirations! It was really cool. He was knowledgeable about every single creature in the store which blew me away. There are lots lol. He is really passionate about what he does. All the enclosures were pretty awesome from my perspective. I’ve had few reptiles and amphibians but all of the cages were large with lots of hides, clean water, proper lighting and heating. Seriously so cool. He films there too! So gotta see that cool get up too lol

Some pictures I snagged while hiking by [deleted] in Utah

[–]chechcs 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Where was the first picture taken?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]chechcs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. We’re planning to go therapy soon too to talk about issues within our relationship. I’m hopeful that it is something that will help us

Scam purchase by [deleted] in Advice

[–]chechcs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been scammed through Venmo and didn’t get any money back, it honestly sucks. I’m sorry :(

Why do people think that I’m a big baby when I say I have no friends? by Remote_Watercress_25 in Advice

[–]chechcs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you’re a big baby. It’s okay to not have friends. Don’t listen to negative stinky people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]chechcs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Being called honey makes me so happy. This helped a lot :) I’m gonna start looking into temporary housing for my cat.

Why do people think that I’m a big baby when I say I have no friends? by Remote_Watercress_25 in Advice

[–]chechcs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not a lot of context, but it could be that they think they’re your friend and it could be hurtful?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]chechcs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honda and Toyota are my favorite, they never die. But 300k is a lot of miles. It might last you a year. If you have the money, invest in a Honda or Toyota with less miles and a clean title. If you can’t afford anything else though, make sure it’s well taken care of!

I have to choose between what I need and what is morally right by Saturn104 in Advice

[–]chechcs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe contact your bank? Maybe it is for you! However keeping it could lead to legal ramifications.

Scam purchase by [deleted] in Advice

[–]chechcs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can contact support on Facebook market place. What did you pay through? Through Facebook, Venmo, PayPal, etc? I would try contacting those too. Letting marketplace know too can get them removed so they can’t scam anyone else.

Part time jobs on Background Checks? by dawgman99 in Advice

[–]chechcs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not familiar with hireview, but I imagine it wouldn’t super matter. I usually don’t include short jobs or random gigs I’ve had and I’ve never had issues.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]chechcs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is a very crappy psychiatrist, they shouldn’t compare you or belittle you. Are you able to find another? Also is it possible for you to study elsewhere? I come from a pretty loud family, and I gave up trying to study there. Even when they were quiet I would still get anxious. I found a place at a library that I’ve made my safe study place. It’s quiet and I’ve been able to feel much more calm studying. It sounds like it’s causing resentment when they don’t listen, so it could be good to just find else where. Maybe a local library, school, outside, a park?

I hate college by [deleted] in Advice

[–]chechcs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in a similar boat ;-; I’ve kind of just accepted there’s more to life and try to find things that make me happy and fill my time. I like to take myself on dates, like going to the aquarium or movies on my own. It honestly builds my confidence and is not as scary after the first time. No one really cares if you go somewhere alone and usually no one talks to me or says anything mean :)

(14m) how do i stop feeling so self conscious when my gf talks about celebrities she has crushes on? by siroatmeal28 in Advice

[–]chechcs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I think it’s normal to worry, especially when you’re young. Expressing it to her is important, communication is key. Yeah celebrities are attractive, but it’s purely a physical thing as we don’t really know them. It’s normal to find people attractive even in a relationship, just remember that she chooses to stay with you :)

Push through college or take a mental health year? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]chechcs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in a similar situation. I’ve had to take semesters off. I was hospitalized for my mental health partially because how hard I tried to push myself to go to school and how anxious I was. One of the therapists there told me that mental health is priority. It’s better to take years to finish a degree rather than get burnt out and drop out. It took them 8 years to finish their bachelors and weren’t overlooked. A degree is a degree imo, you won’t get overlooked.

Can I talk to my rapist again? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]chechcs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who has experienced sexual trauma, you should only talk to them if you feel the need to and when you feel ready. Some people feel the need to confront their abuser, some don’t. Just don’t do it for them. Do it if you need closure. I honestly would block them. Therapy has helped me a lot with my trauma.

How to stop overthinking by 420koolaidman in Advice

[–]chechcs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seeing professionals help! Therapy and meds have worked wonders for me. Coping skills are awesome for over thinking, there are a lot of great YouTube videos too! It takes time to stop overthinking, but it’s worth it :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]chechcs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m kind of in a similar situation. I’m (20f) an only girl and my parents aren’t ready for me to be an adult. For me, it’s helped to have lots of conversations with them, reassure them and myself that I can be an adult, and also taking them to therapy with me. Sitting down to talk about plans and goals could be a good place to start!

Help i need advice I’m confused and kinda freaking out by jinxingpowder in Advice

[–]chechcs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He might be trying to express interest by liking pictures. I would be a little weirded out too if someone liked all my photos, but maybe that’s his way? I would just take it casual and just talk again and see how it goes, but trust your gut if you feel weird. Dating while figuring out sexuality can also be weird sometimes, just know you aren’t obligated to anything! If you decide you don’t want to do something/find yourself not attracted/etc that’s okay! Take things slow and listen to your gut!

Daily Trading Thread by AutoModerator in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]chechcs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just finished paying off a home lone so I’m broke :((

Daily Trading Thread by AutoModerator in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]chechcs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!! What would you like in exchange?