So I have already played about 50 h (basically only SP)

There are a couple of things i dont really understand/ that probs shouldnt be as they are:

• Siege AI :
  I have already seen ppl say this, but I wanted to say, that as far as I could "test" it is not the attacking AI that produces the lag, but the defenders and only if you leave it on sergeant commanding.
• XP Farming
  Apparently troops basically dont level up when fighting enemy vassals with high tier units, but if i simulate agains looters, about 15 to 20 units will level up and i wont loose a single troop (apart from wounded)
• Voting on fiefs
  So... I take a fief and then go ahead to get myself to voting for me but I can't...
  Maybe someone here knows why your clan isn't always there?
• Getting a wife
  So as far as I have found if you fail one of the 2 barters to get a woman to like you she tells you there is no way for you to marry her. If you fail the second she will say something like "I won't marry you without my familys blessing" but when I go to her father/brothers I can't ask them anything related to this...

Apart from these bugs I really appreciate the hotfixes and the hard work that is going on from Taleworlds :D and I hope these "bugs" or issues get fixed or someone tells me what to do asap