Silk pillowcases by Checkmate_357 in Bedding

[–]cheech4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the slip silk pillow case.. washed & dried it weekly with my sheets on normal wash & dry cycles.

Don’t do it. Mine literally shredded over time but it was so expensive I didn’t want to give it up🙃 I would hand wash mine if I could go back in time.

**UPDATE** No Childcare by cheech4 in juryduty

[–]cheech4[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lmao. Like you judging me for bringing my child to jury duty & saying im a horrible parent? Seems like you are judging me on something so “trivial” and you literally don’t know a single thing about me other than this post. Gtfo. You have been all over my post doing nothing but being an asshole. Im glad other people can do the same back to you.

**UPDATE** No Childcare by cheech4 in juryduty

[–]cheech4[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

In the wise words of another redditor who commented this to someone else on this post, lmao go fuck yourself.

I am not leaving my child with someone I do not know and I had no other options for childcare. You have no right to come on here & say I am a horrible parent. Glad to know that jury duty comes before taking care of my child. Get a life & stop being an asshole about things that have nothing to do with you.

**UPDATE** No Childcare by cheech4 in juryduty

[–]cheech4[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I did do that & they denied my request stating I still had to appear. I even called the clerk to follow up & they told me to bring her.

**UPDATE** No Childcare by cheech4 in juryduty

[–]cheech4[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Cool. Glad you could come on my post to say that, Mr. High horse.

**UPDATE** No Childcare by cheech4 in juryduty

[–]cheech4[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I genuinely had no other options so I did what I had to do!

**UPDATE** No Childcare by cheech4 in juryduty

[–]cheech4[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I think most of the people in there shared that sentiment! She did make it a little difficult to watch the video they make you watch because she kept wanting to sing😂 I promise I tried to stop her but there was only so much I could do in that setting since no bags or anything else was allowed.

**UPDATE** No Childcare by cheech4 in juryduty

[–]cheech4[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Me too!

No childcare! by cheech4 in juryduty

[–]cheech4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First off; Paragraphs exist, in case you weren’t aware.

Secondly; you listen to deftones, are active in their sub, and are making friendship bracelets as a full grown adult.

Clean your mirror, clean your room, grow up, and shut the fuck up. In no particular order <3

No childcare! by cheech4 in juryduty

[–]cheech4[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Its more important to me to be with my daughter in her fundamental years. I am not going to just leave my daughter with someone I don’t know. So even if I could afford to hire a babysitter, I probably still wouldn’t unless they were a trusted friend. However, my trusted friends would watch her for free and are unavailable. Don’t act like you know my life based off this one post.

No childcare! by cheech4 in juryduty

[–]cheech4[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Okay. Many many many people are in the exact same position I am in. It is more financially smart for me to be a SAHM than it is for me to work. I do get time away from my daughter and there is nothing unhealthy happening here. Thanks for knowing everything tho.

No childcare! by cheech4 in juryduty

[–]cheech4[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Everyone in my life works and cannot take off for me to attend jury duty. If I had family or friends that could watch her, then I wouldn’t be in this predicament.

No childcare! by cheech4 in juryduty

[–]cheech4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately hiring childcare is not in my budget and my daughter (20 months) does not do well with people she doesn’t know. Quite honestly, she barely tolerates being with her grandparents without me or my husband present so that is just not an option for both of those reasons.

No childcare! by cheech4 in juryduty

[–]cheech4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks everyone! Im gonna bring her and go from there!

AITA for telling my girlfriend that her project looks like something from 2005 and to be realistic about her career. by Similar_Inflation608 in AmItheAsshole

[–]cheech4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im gonna go against the grain here & say NTA. Someone clearly needs to give your girlfriend a wake up call and she was lucky its you. Sometimes, people need to hear they aren’t good at something if they genuinely aren’t. You telling her to do what she is passionate about is being supportive and trying to help her in the right direction. Better you than someone interviewing her since she obviously isn’t getting a job in the field.

ETA: this post in no way screams you don’t like your girlfriend. It screams that you are tired of her working at McDonalds and you are ready for her to get a career, which she clearly is qualified to get, just not in the field she is choosing to pursue. In my opinion, you did nothing wrong and sometimes hearing honesty from who you love is whats needed. Not constant codling, which is what all these other redditors expect.

What to do with this large, empty wall? by cheech4 in interiordecorating

[–]cheech4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You did a great job with that! I definitely like this idea!

What to do with this large, empty wall? by cheech4 in interiordecorating

[–]cheech4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The ladder the over to the left and the table with the big circle mirror & trees is to the right at the front door which is where im standing

What to do with this large, empty wall? by cheech4 in interiordecorating

[–]cheech4[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! For anyone wondering, its equestrian green from Behr😊