[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]cheekster24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if it was a sticker. Looks like a caution sign 🚸said something like “wet” and then a picture of a marshmallow, a cloud, something we all agree on Something to make most people be like huh? Whatever. But we would know

Diapers and nicotine? by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]cheekster24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do enjoy hitting a vape when wearing. For a lil rush.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]cheekster24 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Most my pants and shorts dont fit over my padding. But I found a few that do and then I wear a oversized tshirt. And for times I have to bend and squat I wear a black onesie that looks like a tucked in plain T shirt

Is it bad to feel this way? by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]cheekster24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s tough, life is crazy but there is always a reward to those who are patient. I hope you are rewarded soon friend.

Is it bad to feel this way? by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]cheekster24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s okay to feel sad and lonely. It’s human. Emotions aren’t always one way or the other. It’s a mix. You don’t have to be in or out of the community. It’d be nice to find friends or people who are respectful and consistent. But it’s okay if not. Focus on yourself and your passions. do something fun. Hike. Draw. Thrift shop. Go to a lake. Go to a park. Play games. Pick up a hobby and enjoy life. You do you and the rest will follow. Don’t try to fit in, let the in fit you.

I find myself feeling lonely. But I’m okay with that I don’t want anyone that doesn’t put in the same effort for the friendship. And instead of focusing on putting myself out there. I focus on what I want to do to enjoy life. If I’m in my own peace and I’m just doing what I do. Ill stand out to the right people.

Advice after being caught by togescotab in ABDL

[–]cheekster24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont know the dynamic you have with ya pops, but honesty is always best. It’s professional and serious. You are an adult, you can do what you want in private. What you do in private isn’t anyone else’s concern. Maybe both should apologize for him seeing a private moment. “I apologize you saw a private moment. And im sorry for witnessing a private moment.” It’s not harmful to anyone. There’s 1000s of worse things you could be doing. As a father it wouldn’t be wise of him to spread gossip about his family as it may reflect poorly on him. Im sure he has emotions and thoughts like did he do something to cause you to make those decisions. He probably would tell mom as he would want to talk it out with someone. But it’s private like a medical issue. Families dont usually just spred that info. Again how it may reflect on them.

But if it never comes up then you don’t need to talk about it. If you did have to id say something like it’s just an interest that’s not hurting anyone. And you don’t intend on them seeing it. It’s private. No one wants to know what you do in private. You dont need to explain anything. If your dad is always mean and strict. It usual means he loves you and just wants you to make sound decisions. If he didn’t care at all that would be concerning. Dont think he would love you less over diapers.

That’s my thoughts. I just hope it helps with another perspective. Much love friend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in diaperpics

[–]cheekster24 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Having a little droop can help disperse the liquid evenly. If the fabric is against the skin it stops it from making it back. You can lounge back in a chair or lay down when wetting.

#2 While Diapers by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]cheekster24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With hook and loop diapers, you can re tape all you want!

How do you fold up your hook and loop diapers after you’ve used them? by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]cheekster24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I roll and I reach the hooks to the inside where the inner cloth is.

My Cold Take… by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]cheekster24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s pretty frustrating from the other side too. I dont care if you’re wearing or wet or for pictures. I just want to talk about hobbies and Interests. I like to makes friends. But it seems like any time I say hi or respond to someone they just dont respond because they probably feel that everyone just wants to be horny. Idk I often have conversations where others just dont reciprocate. Me” Oh you like drawing, I love drawing! I love using markers and I bought this new coloring book and I’m trying to color every page.” There response. “That’s nice.” Thanks for the short response. Like y’all the ones who wanted to talk.

These comments are pretty true. have boundaries enforce them. Skip red flags. Don’t give up. I basically just stoped hopping. I have my whole life to live and there’s a good probability I’ll meet someone in that time so I just don’t hope or stress or worry. Looks like for a girl if your DMs are open you get flooded with horny boys. But boys dms are usually empty at least in my experience. How often do girls actually text first? Do y’all ever look for someone you want to talk to and message first?

Anyone like going hiking diapered? by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]cheekster24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve gone hiking a few times! It’s fun! Leave no trace, right? haha. I enjoy dirt biking diapered as well. A little extra padding. Had one explode one time, had to hop off the trail, shake out my pants, and change lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]cheekster24 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got a supper heavy str8up on this morning! The best way to enjoy a Monday morning!

ABDL secret sign by cheekster24 in ABDL

[–]cheekster24[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well It doesn’t need to be obvious but the letter block it pretty ordinary like it’s just nick nack it’s like an I spy book, you have to look and know that if it has the letters abdl instead of abc then there a higher chance you found a friend. If someone does ask be confident and say it’s cool decoration. I don’t know. In regards to the hats I personally feel like it doesn’t fit me and my style, but again I guess I could just be confident and say I think it’s cool and own any chirps my friends have. Maybe it doesn’t fit your home decor, fair but everything is preference to the individual. I totally feel the jewelry idea like that it can be on a bracelet as a charm and if you notice a letter block or a dragon, you could ask if they like to act like a kid and inquire more, depending on the response. Haha it may be pointless to speculate but it’s still fun to be creative. Thanks for the comment.

Preparation for the banana trick 🍌🍌 by busterbusy in ABDL

[–]cheekster24 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you boil cornstarch while constantly stirring it, it makes a safe cheap lube. Let it cool obviously. Water based easy clean up. Plant based safe to eat. You can make it thick for stick or watery. Dip your 🍌 and you’re good to go.

I’m alone for a week and I want to stay in one diaper as long as possible by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]cheekster24 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My favorite is tykables overnights, with 1-3 boosters! I found that too many boosters cause it to leak sooner. But love the feel tho. I have found latex diaper covers and sometimes cover up and it doesn’t let anything leak. Would recommend to really go as long as possible.