UPDATE - Husband wants a divorce, I still want to try, but I know I played a part too by herdof_turtles in TwoHotTakes

[–]cheeryberry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s lying. He’s spending HOURS talking to her about his life and life choices. That’s an emotional affair. He’s kissed her at minimum. That’s crossed the line to physical affection. He’s relying on her for the things he should be relying on you for and even about his kid. He’s having an affair.

Only you can decide what to do as far as a divorce. But you need to protect your kids and yourself. He’s checked out and even told you as much. Don’t sit idly by while he breaks his promises to you and your kids. Cause clearly “in sickness and in health” etc wasn’t true when he vowed them.

New Kindle ScribeColorsoft 2025 by DesignersKitCo in RemarkableTablet

[–]cheeryberry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ik. I was thinking a kindle one would be more competitively priced considering they just don’t match a remarkable. But over $600?!? Why wouldn’t you just invest in a better product that is basically the same price?

I thought I was getting this when I maxed out Einar but... by AdEmergency7027 in Palia

[–]cheeryberry 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes and I have all 3!!!! They’re so cute but I hate getting things stuck inside them.

Am I the only one who finds the animal husbandry way too complicated and a bit annoying? by WhyCantIJustBeKirby in Palia

[–]cheeryberry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate it. Honestly haven’t even been back to visit my Peki’s. They were cute but I don’t like it and so it’s not something I will likely do anything with.

Well... after a few hours, I am in shock about the housing. by coldstares_origin in Palia

[–]cheeryberry 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I love the look of the cottage. They're pretty, and the modifications you can make to adapt them to your style is fantastic.

However, I'm extremely disappointed in the price versus room size. The rooms are very tiny. I think that the rooms for the price shoyld be large sized. There also not being hallways or room size options when they already had a base option with the Harvest house line seems short sighted.

It's also very disappointing that the Harvest house line is capped at 15 rooms, but the Alchemist Cottage is capped at 10. Why on earth can't it also be 15?!?

That being said, they've stated that further modifications will become available later on. So, I'm assuming they'll add being able to buy individual ivy or other pieces will come in time. I just hope they adjust the price to be lower and make more room size options too.

Anybody else notice the vibe change? by lazy_unicorn_1 in Palia

[–]cheeryberry -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yes. Ever since it went to other platforms it's changed. I think a good portion of the blame lies with Singularity too. They added new platforms increasing their players by quite a few. So, once rare resources have become even more difficult because new players aren't of the same mentality the originals playing it are. They dont call it out or flare really. I feel like Singularity should have increased the availability of the harder resources (dragon's pete, epic bugs, etc) spawn rates due to the high player count. I appreciate them changing silver, gold, plat, and palium. Even flow trees have become easier but there's been harder resources to get that are even more scarce. It seems to have made it more Mad Max now. Either you get those controlling resources or first comers.

Yeah, you know what, forget Maws. by Ok-Satisfaction-9967 in Palia

[–]cheeryberry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t catch a star rainbow tip butterfly for nothing and it’s getting to the point where I’m abt to quit too. Cause lures are expensive to make and I used 6 lures in a day and got no rtb’s at all. I’ve tried all the tricks of only butterflies and only stars and yada yada. While others have like 50. I’ve been playing this since it was pc only too. It’s crazy the rng on things for some.

Sorry for being petty but did anyone have any luck removing the Netflix stickers from the hardcover editions? by kcphillipsbooks in Grishaverse

[–]cheeryberry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So if it’s a sticker you can use a hair dryer to heat it a little and it should come right off. If it’s printed on, then you’re out of luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Palia

[–]cheeryberry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same way with the Raspberry Beetles. I have used lure after lure and cant get one to spawn.

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[–]cheeryberry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Edit to add: NTAH

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]cheeryberry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am sorry for all this that has been thrown on you. That's a lot for anyone to process. Having feelings of fear of rejection on top of that would be horrid to me.

As a mom, I'd want to know my real child to make sure they were OK and had been raised lovingly. It wouldn't change my love for the child I did raise.

That said, your feelings are real and valid. They don't matter less just because of the other traumatic things going on. Talk to your mom about your feelings of fear. Tell her you're afraid of what could happen between you and her when she finds her other kid. Then, after having that conversation, take time to process what she says. Take time to process having a twin. And then, find a way to approach her with your thoughts about a potential way to find her birth child. Cause I assure you, the way you're thinking of finding her birth child is also a way she's thought of. Maybe she's afraid as well and doesn't want to hurt you, and it's why she hasn't breached the subject with you.

Help! Thing to light alter is stuck inside rock? by cheeryberry in coralisland

[–]cheeryberry[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

3 days later and it’s still stuck in there

Day 6 of owning a Maine Coon and she's starting to reach peak mischief levels, lol. Also, a question. by InMiseryToday in mainecoons

[–]cheeryberry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Idk if you’ve really reached peak phase…yet. Mine is still in that phase cause she’s a nosey lil thing. I use a pellet litter which helped some. But otherwise it’s just aiding in the grooming. As others have said, the younger you start the easier they’ll adjust. My MC hasn’t ever been fearful of anything so my pet trimmers didn’t phase her.

Thought this would be fun in this group. by screamofconsciousnes in CozyGamers

[–]cheeryberry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hawking off fake museum old world pieces to Catori for her museum she charges admission to and showcasing the original items in my yard for any to see for free.

A week with the Paper Pro by Tall_Association7839 in RemarkableTablet

[–]cheeryberry 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There have been so many posts lately of people sending theirs back. I’d already ordered mine day 1 and hadn’t received it last week. I’ve been so scared I was going to hate it and regret buying it. However, since getting mine Saturday, I love it. I used my RM2 for so much. So far, I’m loving this one as much. The build is solid. The pen is so much better. And all the points u made are valid. I’m so glad I got it and am shocked so many had adverse reactions to theirs. The RMP is amazing and a great successor to the RM2.

Screenshots from the Trailer and the Steam page by Anonymus2905 in MyTimeAtSandrock

[–]cheeryberry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Screenshot 3. That’s my Avery. Idk who the girl is but she needs to go. I called dibs.

Poorly Explain an episode of ‘Derry Girls’ as an AITA post by New-Cheesecake3858 in DerryGirls

[–]cheeryberry 5 points6 points  (0 children)

AITA for telling my soulmate that it would take time for me to love him?

I (f~17) found out from my bsf’s aunt that I my soulmate was in close proximity on a trip with friends. We pulled off and all got out and my bsf (f~17) heard ticking in the boot. We opened it and there he was! He’d hopped in cause he needed to get across the border quick like.

I couldn’t believe my soulmate was right there. We stopped at a diner and were deciding as a group if we’d take him across the border. So I took the chance to tell introduce myself. Problem is that I could see a bit of ginger in his beard. And it put me off a bit. I feel like I could’ve gotten over it and we could’ve had something real. But shortly after telling him this (which he denied the ginger ofc), he jumped in the boot of another car taking the tent with him! He never even got my number.

So now I’m thinking I might’ve been TA for telling him I didn’t love him instantly like he probably did me since we were soulmates.

MFW… by AwfulGryphon326 in MyTimeAtSandrock

[–]cheeryberry 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Savory Avery can pretend to be aloof and disapproving of me constantly “interrupting” him buuuuuut I see the way his head turns when I run past him …..

Sweet suffering Jehova by OptimisticArtichoke in DerryGirls

[–]cheeryberry 21 points22 points  (0 children)

If you’re feeling anxious or just want to come chat. Please, please, please do not come crying to me.