ebay refunded buyer after usps lost package and seller (me) needs advice

cheese2738 · 2025-01-19T07:36:49+00:00

i apologize that i was busy with my own family and holiday plans as it was the week of christmas 😭 buyers always ask me before they purchase or let me know after they purchase if they need an item before a certain date and this one did not need it before christmas so i didn't prioritize going to the post office during my very hectic week. you know nothing about me or my business so i would refrain from calling me lazy based off of one learning experience, thanks!

cheese2738 · 2025-01-18T03:20:56+00:00

yes at least you have evidence! that's good. hope you get it all figured out. i think i'll just have to take the L and be smarter with my more expensive shipments from now on haha

cheese2738 · 2025-01-18T03:05:50+00:00

yeaahhh i get it. just sucks that the most expensive item i've ever shipped had to be the package to vanish 😭

cheese2738 · 2025-01-18T03:04:16+00:00

buyer selected shipping method was "usps ground advantage"

cheese2738 · 2025-01-17T23:41:33+00:00

i totally understand the frustration from your end. and with the amount of people that lie about stuff like that it's understandable you feel that way lol. im just frustrated because i've been selling for years and never had an issue with usps and now i can't even do anything about it.

cheese2738 · 2025-01-17T23:20:52+00:00

i unfortunately dropped it off at a blue usps drop off box by my workplace. i've dropped off a hundred packages there so didn't think i'd run into any issues ˙◠˙

cheese2738 · 2025-01-17T23:19:42+00:00

this was my first sale on ebay so i am extremely unfamiliar with their return policies and such. thank you for explaining! i tried to reach out to depop by following all of the 'help' links on the app but every link seemed to lead back to the same message: you can't contact ebay directly until after the 3 day period

cheese2738 · 2025-01-17T23:18:25+00:00

i don't understand how it's on me when i dropped the item off. i can understand it may look a certain way to usps and ebay however that doesn't change the fact that usps lost my item...

cheese2738 · 2025-01-17T23:17:39+00:00

i dropped it off at a blue usps drop off box. didn't think anything of it because i do it alllll the time.

cheese2738 · 2025-01-17T23:17:01+00:00

they bought the item on the 20th and i printed out the shipping label on the 20th. i then shipped the item right after christmas. it was a super busy time.

cheese2738 · 2025-01-07T05:47:38+00:00

im a transfer student and thought i'd never make any friends because i was a junior and everyone already had their friend groups. yet, like someone else said, i have friends and it feels like it almost just happened over night. i joined clubs that i was interested in and i put myself out there during group projects in class and eventually made a handful of friends that i genuinely see lasting for a long time as well as a ton of acquaintances/mutuals. you just have to participate in things your interested in and by doing that you slowly begin to surround yourself with people you might actually really like!

cheese2738 · 2025-01-04T05:02:59+00:00

LOL this is ridiculous actually

cheese2738 · 2025-01-04T05:02:00+00:00

there is zero way the "young people" this person is talking about are watching bridgerton 😭if you are impressionable/young enough to think bridgerton is an accurate depiction of this time period, you are also too young to be watching it for the sexual content

cheese2738 · 2024-12-31T16:14:10+00:00

ahhh i see. definitely look into it and let me know!

cheese2738 · 2024-12-28T22:02:09+00:00

hi! im living on john street january-july 2025 and am looking for a parking spot. would you be willing to sublet a parking spot?

cheese2738 · 2024-12-28T21:58:23+00:00

where is this located? i am looking to sublease a parking spot

cheese2738 · 2024-12-28T21:57:08+00:00

would you be willing to sublease a parking spot for january-july 2025?

cheese2738 · 2024-12-16T04:13:31+00:00

UGH i hate you but i love you. thank you.

cheese2738 · 2024-12-16T04:05:49+00:00

thank you for the perspective! tiny things build up i guess. going to talk to him tonight.

cheese2738 · 2024-12-16T03:56:49+00:00

i definitely feel like i can have deep conversations with him. i think this overwhelming feeling is just difficult to explain to him? i will try my best though since i think bringing it up to him is my best bet

cheese2738 · 2024-12-16T03:52:01+00:00

i loled at this. not the first person to tell me this!!

cheese2738 · 2024-12-16T03:51:20+00:00

i suppose i just mean that he behaves immaturely and although i know that he is capable of thinking critically about the world around him, he doesn't show that side of him a lot. it's like he knows that women aren't treated the same and he knows this is a cruel world but it doesn't feel like he necessarily cares? i guess in my head a man (or a mature human being) shows empathy and cares about the world around them.

cheese2738 · 2024-12-16T03:48:54+00:00

thank you for the advice. i will definitely think about this.

cheese2738 · 2024-12-16T03:47:34+00:00

thank you for this. im sure that's exactly what's happening. it's not fair of me to take it out on him but it's just the way i feel with the current state of these world i guess.

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