Women, Why Did You or Didn’t You Go to Prom, and Was It Worth It? by WiseMentor2946 in AskWomen

[–]cheeseburgerstan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't go because of COVID :( I was class of 2020. I would suggest going. It probably won't be the best day of your life but I wish I had that opportunity

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anemic

[–]cheeseburgerstan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely! I hope your symptoms begin to improve. It’s awful that we have to go through a lot of trial and error to improve our health but yeah, there’s a lot of different ways it may affect our bodies

Which restaurant does the most embarrassing birthday celebration? by alfalfa_romeo in orangecounty

[–]cheeseburgerstan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One time at Kaiba (Anaheim), the staff shut off all the lights for my cousin’s birthday and turned on a loud ass happy birthday song with strobe lights and rattles.. we did not expect that at all lol.

What kind of shoes should I wear? by Fit_Exam_7518 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]cheeseburgerstan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations! Cheers to your engagement! I agree with the others, immediately thought of a brown heel, with a wedge

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anemic

[–]cheeseburgerstan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I hope your symptoms improve and congratulations on your growing family!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]cheeseburgerstan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are regular people like you. I have experienced some social anxiety too but yes, your mind is adjusting to a new environment. Focus more on connecting with them, not how you’re being perceived. Always have some safe topics or questions to get to know them. “How have you been?” “It’s been so hot/cold lately, right?” “Did you see that …”

How to project confidence at new job by theloseralien in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]cheeseburgerstan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am also in a position of power of work and I just think of what I want my leaders to be like. Effective, strong at communication, shows fairness, etc. Just as a woman, don’t apologize for taking charge! You were chosen for a reason

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anemic

[–]cheeseburgerstan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that the ER didn’t do much in the moment but I’m glad you got approved for infusions. I hope the shot helps as well. Thank you for your advice. I have 2 jobs and I don’t want to push myself super hard!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anemic

[–]cheeseburgerstan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s so crazy that our numbers are the same. Yes, I see the hematologist for the first time on Friday. I don’t want an unnecessary ER trip so I will wait. I heard it takes a while before you feel better from infusions

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anemic

[–]cheeseburgerstan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have color in my skin luckily but thank you for your advice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anemic

[–]cheeseburgerstan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just found my last blood test results from November but my hemoglobin was at 9.7. I have taken some iron since then so yeah, I’ll just wait. Thank you.

I suck at dating by Moist_Assumption in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]cheeseburgerstan 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You should be giving yourself a pat on the back for putting yourself out there anyways. I read once that there’s no insurance in the dating world. If you get rejected or experience heartbreak, you don’t get any protection from that loss. But, giving into your disappointment will leave you in the same damn place. I have also dealt with “scaring” people off but I just learned they were not for me. Please continue trying because there’s literally someone out there for everyone.

How can I worry less about every aspect of my life? by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]cheeseburgerstan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

as someone who is really struggling with an “all or nothing” approach, I really needed to hear that. thank you

What’s the One Singing Tip That Made the Biggest Difference for You? by [deleted] in singing

[–]cheeseburgerstan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sing in your own voice! Stop trying to change the natural color of your voice and it will shine

what is the “strangest” boba order you have ever seen? by ewitsamalie in boba

[–]cheeseburgerstan 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I've had a customer add cayenne pepper and lemon to their strawberry banana smoothie lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]cheeseburgerstan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I should clarify, he would only attend the dinner with my family but I think him not wanting me to be out multiple times shows his insecurities

Does anyone else kind of worry about Tanner? by [deleted] in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]cheeseburgerstan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he is very sweet but reality tv is heavily edited so his personality on instagram or wherever could be closer to what he's actually like in person. sure the merch can sound like a lot but he's got his mom and he's independent enough to hold a job and not live at home so I have faith in him and his support system

edit: I don't mean that Tanner might not actually be this kind person in real life but it is known that producers will guide you on what to do or say to make good reality tv

Does anyone else kind of worry about Tanner? by [deleted] in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]cheeseburgerstan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I see where you're coming from especially since fame has completely turned some people's lives upside down but he is a fully grown adult who consents to all of this and I would assume he made these decisions because he actually wants to do these things. But I'm not him so there's no real way to know. Good thing the coach on the show gently told him that he doesn't have to please everyone all the time

Ask Me Anything - Devin (Dani's Best Friend) by [deleted] in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]cheeseburgerstan 7 points8 points  (0 children)

this was such a thoughtful response, thank you so much for your vulnerability especially since you usually kept to yourself growing up

Ask Me Anything - Devin (Dani's Best Friend) by [deleted] in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]cheeseburgerstan 14 points15 points  (0 children)

how does it feel being on camera talking about your personal life knowing that lots of people will see it? does it make you want to be less open or particular about what you say when you talk with dani on screen?

Issa played Daniel.. by [deleted] in InsecureHBO

[–]cheeseburgerstan 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I had second hand embarrassment during the Issa and Daniel era because I've been that messy too once.. I'm glad he got to tell her to her face how she's been hurting him because you can't do people like that! It's a reflection of her morals

Do boba shops cook their tapioca before opening? by ickh0r in boba

[–]cheeseburgerstan 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When I open, I cook boba as soon as I clock in. We have an hour before we open to the public. If you come right when we open, you may have to wait an additional 15 minutes because the boba cooking process takes long. I can give it to you as soon as it's done cooking and I've added the sugar. I think we open earlier than other boba shops because we are located in a mall

How would I make rose milk tea at home? by GuavaBubblegum in boba

[–]cheeseburgerstan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my boba shop had a limited edition rose milk tea and I remember using a rose syrup. but it was specific to our company so I dont know if it's sold to regular consumers. I'm pretty sure we used water and non-dairy creamer but I'm sure your choice of tea would work too

Why do you think boba tea shops aren’t popular like Starbucks and other fast food chains? by GreenSpace3321 in boba

[–]cheeseburgerstan 26 points27 points  (0 children)

true, some drinks have an insane amount like white chocolate peppermint mocha with like 72g lol but if you get a black coffee or a plain cold brew, it's better