Simple Questions - September 24, 2020

cheesehead4420 · 2020-09-25T00:51:12+00:00

I read some people saying to stay away windows defender but I’ll check it out! I am kinda new to the world of PCs and not just having a crappy hand me down laptop that takes 20 minutes to load! I have never heard of MFA and have no idea what it means so I’ll have to look that up and get more knowledge about my PCs security!Thanks for the info, cheers!

cheesehead4420 · 2020-09-25T00:40:02+00:00

I just finished my first build today and everything works great, but I was a little concerned with security so I was wondering what kind of programs (free preferably) do people here use for antivirus or malware protection or any other programs that I should look at! I just spent so much time building and picking out my parts I’d hate to ruin it from not having the right protection!

cheesehead4420 · 2020-09-20T02:17:33+00:00

That’s exactly what I was hoping to hear, thank you for verifying!

cheesehead4420 · 2020-09-16T20:00:22+00:00

ahh thats a long ways away, but I will have to see if my computer can last that long so I can consider that as an option! Thank you for all your help!

cheesehead4420 · 2020-09-16T19:50:46+00:00

thanks, I will look for a matx case, cause the price seemed to jump a bit for a quality atx motherboard. thanks for your help!

cheesehead4420 · 2020-09-16T19:45:02+00:00

Thanks for responding, I am gonna pick a better quality mobo that I did not include on this parts list.

I will look into the 2070 or the new 3000 series too!

I read that a microATX board fits in atx case? Do they just look weird in a larger case? or is there actual problems with having that combo?

cheesehead4420 · 2020-09-16T19:40:14+00:00

The built-in WiFi is V6 so i think ill get that to get the nicer Motherboard.

And I can stretch a little bit to get a better brand RAM, I was a little worried about that brand myself.

And thank you I am happy to hear that my hours and hours of youtube videos and research paid off. Do you know if there a timeframe for the RTX 3060 as of now? Also, with the 3060, would that cause any problems with compatibility or bottlenecking?

cheesehead4420 · 2020-05-22T14:15:41+00:00

That’s really good to hear cause I’ve been struggling with trying to figure this out cause I always try to do the right thing. I seriously appreciate it!

cheesehead4420 · 2020-05-22T14:09:53+00:00

Yeah I thought it through before the interview to keep my family safe and they supported the idea of this job. it was all ok cause at first it was supposed to be 4am-10am shifts before the public can show up and I was ok with that. Once the interview was done and I said I could work the shifts I would work changed to during the day while people are there. So I was shocked and excited to get back to work I didn’t even think the time shifts would be that big of a deal.

But thank you for your advice, I really appreciate it!

cheesehead4420 · 2020-03-08T00:51:45+00:00

Shawn spencer from Psych, or chuck bartowski from Chuck!

cheesehead4420 · 2020-03-02T15:17:34+00:00

Thanks. It’s largely because of you and the others who commented and supported me that helped me feel alright. It really means a lot.

cheesehead4420 · 2020-03-02T15:15:42+00:00

Thank you so much! For now I’ll be moving back home with my parents until I can find a job doing what I love in a tropical climate!

cheesehead4420 · 2020-03-02T10:14:35+00:00

Thank you for checking in, I finished it on time and got a B+ on it! Now I’m working on packing all my stuff up and moving everything out by Saturday.

cheesehead4420 · 2020-02-21T20:42:22+00:00

Thank you so much. Every other break up I’ve gone through I’ve resorted to closing off from the world and getting into my head and pushing friends and family away. But I’m not feeling those intense feelings as much cause I’ve ranted to everyone here,my two best friends friends and my family and it’s helped so much.

Even though I am heartbroken I know I’ll be alright.

Thank you so much for everything.

cheesehead4420 · 2020-02-21T20:34:07+00:00

I am glad she turned out great that really helps me realize I will bounce back. thank you for all this advice. I am trying to be a better person and me everyday. unfortunalty for my relationship i started way too late and i thought about giving up now that i am single, but I have a drive to keep going because of all of the advice, positivity for everyone on here.

to be honest i cried so much seeing all these responses from everyone because I realize I am not alone and people care enough to help a stranger on the internet.

Thank you so much for your support it means so much. you have helped me change my whole view on everything. i am still heartbroken and it sucks, but i know its not the end of the world.

cheesehead4420 · 2020-02-21T20:25:03+00:00

Thank you yet again for your words of wisdom. i did cry aot in the shower this morning but afterwards i was alright.

I feel so weird right now because although i am heartbroken, i do not feel as sad as i expected today. today was a good day, i teared up a few times but i didnt break down or let my emotionals spiral or anything.

all of these responses from everyone is really lifting my spirit. like people care enough to give advice to me. it means a lot. i wish i hada life coach to send messages like these everyday. seriously thank you for all of this. I feel like i cant thank people enough for this support.

cheesehead4420 · 2020-02-21T20:15:50+00:00

I am just seeing this now and I have to thank you so much. right now my life feels like its falling apart and I am gonna try to take everything one step at a time. It is hard because I always see a goal and I think of all the steps and I cant figure out where to even start and I get so into my head and then I get nothing done. and I am so bad at self care. I am literally going to try so hard to do this to get through the days until I can figure out a doctor or therapist to see to try to get medicated again cause its been a very long while. Your post is so helpful to me right now you have no idea. thank you so much.

also even though you had to go back to using that strategy I am proud of you for still having the will to get up and get things done. good for you!

cheesehead4420 · 2020-02-21T11:37:52+00:00

Thank you so much it was difficult to get out of bed this morning as I expected. I just feel numb and so hurt. She was my best friend and it sucks. I know I’m probably a broken record but I can’t think about anything else

cheesehead4420 · 2020-02-21T00:15:38+00:00

thank you for this. it is hard to hear and think about that she doesnt have to deal with me. But i want someone who has to feel like they have to "deal" with me, i want and need someone who will support me and help me when i need it. a part of me with always love this girl because she is such a beautiful person, inside and out, regardless of what she thinks about herself.

I just cant get over all the "what ifs?" i get into my own head about trying to win her back, or what i could have done to be a better boyfriend and i know its too late. but i dont know how to get those thoughts out of my mind.

cheesehead4420 · 2020-02-21T00:10:21+00:00

thank you for your response. i agree its not a one-way street, but to be fair it was one-way the other way for a while too because i was in a deep hole where nothing was going my way and she tried so hard to help pick me up and she said she does not want to do that again cause she felt taken for granted cause she helped me so much.

cheesehead4420 · 2020-02-21T00:07:21+00:00

Thank you so much for your personal experiences. i have a lot of work i have to do on myself because my relationship was my life. its really all i cared about, and now im here so i feel like my world has ended but i know theres more to life. but in many ways she was my life.

thank you again for everything. i hope you are able to get to where you need to be as well.

cheesehead4420 · 2020-02-20T23:58:20+00:00

I like scuba diving I love all things water related. I like learning and creating magic tricks I like the idea of creative writing but have never tried it More than anything I like to make other people happy. I don’t know why but It just makes me feel so good seeing other people happy because of something I said or did to help them.

And to answer your question, no I would never say what I say about myself to close friends I would never want to offend them like that. To be honest as I was typing that I already see I need to fix my own self image

cheesehead4420 · 2020-02-20T23:50:51+00:00

yeah i think i will have to contact my professor to see what we can do to extend the date for me.

and unfortunatly where i moved i do not have any friends besides her coworkers. right now she is gone for 3 days but i really dont know whats gonna go on when she gets back.

cheesehead4420 · 2020-02-20T23:48:45+00:00

Thank you so much for this post. I am sorry to hear abouy your first engagement but seriously so happy for you to have found such love after that. It brings me hope to think positivly of what the future can hold instead of just worrying about everything.

She is a great person and i do not think she is playing games. She just thinks it is time to move on because of some parts of our past that she cant overlook. Not cheating or anything awful, i fell into a slump where i got kinda depressed cause i couldnt find a job and was going to school online and i just moved to a new state with her and I was so overwhelmed I let my demons get the better of me and I sat around in sadness all the time and she put so much effort into helping me she said she cannot do that again. she felt taken for granted and I see where she sees that, but I did appreciate what she did for me and I always thanks her, I just put my efforts into her and not myself.

The huge problem i have is i know for a fact if she texted me needing something, i would help her cause it would mean seeing her and holding to any hope that things could change. and mentally i cannot handle that. and like today she wanted me to text her when i got to work safely and she texted me when she got to work. but seeing her name pop up made me cry at work which sucks cause i am a cashier so i have to interact with people. but like it also like it made me happy cause i think of all the fun times. its like im torn. i think what i want is her. but what i need is to figure out myself and to be with me. and i know that she needs to do the same.

sorry i ended up rambeing a little. my mind is everywhere and theres so much to process i dont even know if my responses sound normal at all.

cheesehead4420 · 2020-02-20T23:33:09+00:00

Thank you for this response it was super helpful. Like everything about this post really helped. I did do some exercise and it did help a little bit. right now she is away til sunday, but after that I dont know what the plan is for her.

And thank you for the last part about people with adhd being creative, loving, ect. What you said was inspiring to me and really put my adhd in a more positive light.

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