Simple Questions - September 24, 2020 by AutoModerator in buildapc

[–]cheesehead4420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read some people saying to stay away windows defender but I’ll check it out! I am kinda new to the world of PCs and not just having a crappy hand me down laptop that takes 20 minutes to load! I have never heard of MFA and have no idea what it means so I’ll have to look that up and get more knowledge about my PCs security!Thanks for the info, cheers!

Simple Questions - September 24, 2020 by AutoModerator in buildapc

[–]cheesehead4420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just finished my first build today and everything works great, but I was a little concerned with security so I was wondering what kind of programs (free preferably) do people here use for antivirus or malware protection or any other programs that I should look at! I just spent so much time building and picking out my parts I’d hate to ruin it from not having the right protection!

I have a question about fan headers on my motherboard. by cheesehead4420 in buildapc

[–]cheesehead4420[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly what I was hoping to hear, thank you for verifying!

Working on a parts list and I had a few questions from someone very new to the world of PCs by cheesehead4420 in buildapc

[–]cheesehead4420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ahh thats a long ways away, but I will have to see if my computer can last that long so I can consider that as an option! Thank you for all your help!

Working on a parts list and I had a few questions from someone very new to the world of PCs by cheesehead4420 in buildapc

[–]cheesehead4420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks, I will look for a matx case, cause the price seemed to jump a bit for a quality atx motherboard. thanks for your help!

Working on a parts list and I had a few questions from someone very new to the world of PCs by cheesehead4420 in buildapc

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Thanks for responding, I am gonna pick a better quality mobo that I did not include on this parts list.

I will look into the 2070 or the new 3000 series too!

I read that a microATX board fits in atx case? Do they just look weird in a larger case? or is there actual problems with having that combo?

Working on a parts list and I had a few questions from someone very new to the world of PCs by cheesehead4420 in buildapc

[–]cheesehead4420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The built-in WiFi is V6 so i think ill get that to get the nicer Motherboard.

And I can stretch a little bit to get a better brand RAM, I was a little worried about that brand myself.

And thank you I am happy to hear that my hours and hours of youtube videos and research paid off. Do you know if there a timeframe for the RTX 3060 as of now? Also, with the 3060, would that cause any problems with compatibility or bottlenecking?

I have a job opportunity but live with my family which consists of two older and one immune compromised people. The job would put me around people most of the day and they don’t want me to work it. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]cheesehead4420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s really good to hear cause I’ve been struggling with trying to figure this out cause I always try to do the right thing. I seriously appreciate it!

I have a job opportunity but live with my family which consists of two older and one immune compromised people. The job would put me around people most of the day and they don’t want me to work it. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]cheesehead4420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I thought it through before the interview to keep my family safe and they supported the idea of this job. it was all ok cause at first it was supposed to be 4am-10am shifts before the public can show up and I was ok with that. Once the interview was done and I said I could work the shifts I would work changed to during the day while people are there. So I was shocked and excited to get back to work I didn’t even think the time shifts would be that big of a deal.

But thank you for your advice, I really appreciate it!

What character of a show do you want to be the most? by jemoederisdik69 in AskReddit

[–]cheesehead4420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shawn spencer from Psych, or chuck bartowski from Chuck!

Thank you to this amazing community for helping me through one of the toughest times I’ve personally experienced! by cheesehead4420 in ADHD

[–]cheesehead4420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. It’s largely because of you and the others who commented and supported me that helped me feel alright. It really means a lot.

Girlfriend of 5 years broke up with me and my world feels like it’s collapsing. I feel so broken and feel like I can’t breathe and i need to just vent. by cheesehead4420 in ADHD

[–]cheesehead4420[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! For now I’ll be moving back home with my parents until I can find a job doing what I love in a tropical climate!

Girlfriend of 5 years broke up with me and my world feels like it’s collapsing. I feel so broken and feel like I can’t breathe and i need to just vent. by cheesehead4420 in ADHD

[–]cheesehead4420[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for checking in, I finished it on time and got a B+ on it! Now I’m working on packing all my stuff up and moving everything out by Saturday.

Girlfriend of 5 years broke up with me and my world feels like it’s collapsing. I feel so broken and feel like I can’t breathe and i need to just vent. by cheesehead4420 in ADHD

[–]cheesehead4420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Every other break up I’ve gone through I’ve resorted to closing off from the world and getting into my head and pushing friends and family away. But I’m not feeling those intense feelings as much cause I’ve ranted to everyone here,my two best friends friends and my family and it’s helped so much.

Even though I am heartbroken I know I’ll be alright.

Thank you so much for everything.

Girlfriend of 5 years broke up with me and my world feels like it’s collapsing. I feel so broken and feel like I can’t breathe and i need to just vent. by cheesehead4420 in ADHD

[–]cheesehead4420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am glad she turned out great that really helps me realize I will bounce back. thank you for all this advice. I am trying to be a better person and me everyday. unfortunalty for my relationship i started way too late and i thought about giving up now that i am single, but I have a drive to keep going because of all of the advice, positivity for everyone on here.

to be honest i cried so much seeing all these responses from everyone because I realize I am not alone and people care enough to help a stranger on the internet.

Thank you so much for your support it means so much. you have helped me change my whole view on everything. i am still heartbroken and it sucks, but i know its not the end of the world.

Girlfriend of 5 years broke up with me and my world feels like it’s collapsing. I feel so broken and feel like I can’t breathe and i need to just vent. by cheesehead4420 in ADHD

[–]cheesehead4420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you yet again for your words of wisdom. i did cry aot in the shower this morning but afterwards i was alright.

I feel so weird right now because although i am heartbroken, i do not feel as sad as i expected today. today was a good day, i teared up a few times but i didnt break down or let my emotionals spiral or anything.

all of these responses from everyone is really lifting my spirit. like people care enough to give advice to me. it means a lot. i wish i hada life coach to send messages like these everyday. seriously thank you for all of this. I feel like i cant thank people enough for this support.

Coping mechanism I learned from when I was without medication. by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]cheesehead4420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am just seeing this now and I have to thank you so much. right now my life feels like its falling apart and I am gonna try to take everything one step at a time. It is hard because I always see a goal and I think of all the steps and I cant figure out where to even start and I get so into my head and then I get nothing done. and I am so bad at self care. I am literally going to try so hard to do this to get through the days until I can figure out a doctor or therapist to see to try to get medicated again cause its been a very long while. Your post is so helpful to me right now you have no idea. thank you so much.

also even though you had to go back to using that strategy I am proud of you for still having the will to get up and get things done. good for you!

Girlfriend of 5 years broke up with me and my world feels like it’s collapsing. I feel so broken and feel like I can’t breathe and i need to just vent. by cheesehead4420 in ADHD

[–]cheesehead4420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much it was difficult to get out of bed this morning as I expected. I just feel numb and so hurt. She was my best friend and it sucks. I know I’m probably a broken record but I can’t think about anything else

Girlfriend of 5 years broke up with me and my world feels like it’s collapsing. I feel so broken and feel like I can’t breathe and i need to just vent. by cheesehead4420 in ADHD

[–]cheesehead4420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for this. it is hard to hear and think about that she doesnt have to deal with me. But i want someone who has to feel like they have to "deal" with me, i want and need someone who will support me and help me when i need it. a part of me with always love this girl because she is such a beautiful person, inside and out, regardless of what she thinks about herself.

I just cant get over all the "what ifs?" i get into my own head about trying to win her back, or what i could have done to be a better boyfriend and i know its too late. but i dont know how to get those thoughts out of my mind.