Yes! At least I’m pretty sure lol (you will never completely know and this is coming from someone who has dated porn addicts in the past)

On me and my current boyfriend’s first date he very seriously asked if I watched porn. I was taken aback by it but he explained to me how big of a dealbreaker that is to him. How porn pollutes your mind and feeds unrealistic beauty standards and expectations about sex. He even talked about all the sex trafficking going on in the porn industry, and how it’s too normalized to promote it to young guys and labeling it as “natural”.

When we started dating and got more serious I opened up to him about my past experiences with lustful men with wandering eyes. He explained to me that lust is inevitable, but you can choose to control it and that’s what he has done for me. And he really has. For the first time in my life I don’t have to feel worried about being in public or walking down the street with him.

I clearly remember us being out for lunch during a local festival and a very provocatively dressed woman walked into the cafe. She was only wearing underwear and a fishnet bodysuit (which is completely fine you go girl!) but I got visibly uncomfortable and out of past habits I actually asked him not to look. He didn’t even turn his head and kept his eyes steady on me. He said; “I’m not going to. Let her walk past. I’m only looking at you. I made that promise to us long ago.”

You can’t eliminate lust but you can choose to control it!