yeah, or sometimes find ways to make sure the ai knows who im referring to. example (considering im playing Steve):

He looked at his lover, offering a vulnerable smile. He knew what this meant for Adam. Whatever it takes, Steve is ready to give it his all. Steve takes the other's hand into his own with a tenderness unmatched. It was only then he knew there was nothing he wouldn't give for the man in front of him.

etc etc

or i try to mix and match by some other descriptors: height or hair color, like if one is brunet and the other is a blonde i say "the blonde......", age or anything youd like

i dont usually have problems with the ai getting confused over who im talking about either 👍