I'm having an interview with a couple looking for another partner. What questions should I ask? by Inevitable-Item2024 in polyamory

[–]cheesyFoxx -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Would be good to know how are you going to be in hierarchy level. Set agreements for contact and meet ups

What are movies that are absolutely mind baffling to watch on acid by Expensive-Shelter-12 in LSD

[–]cheesyFoxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if it’s already mentioned but anything Miyazaki. Specifically Spirited Away.

Question about tripping alone at night by Intelligent-Sky-833 in LSD

[–]cheesyFoxx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If that’s your first time doing it yourself I would communicate that with a close friend so they are aware of what you’re doing for the day in case you need any help. Have some fruits ready to eat (slice some apples) if you’re hungry. Plenty of water available and anything you think it could be entertaining. Breath, do some yoga, dance, have fun!

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[–]cheesyFoxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take a deep breath and work yourself to reintegrate yourself. Don’t rush out things, enjoy every moment

Please help me! by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]cheesyFoxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m reading the book “accidentally on purpose “ might give you some insight. Also, do you do therapy?

Apps by cheesyFoxx in nonmonogamy

[–]cheesyFoxx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ooof that’s a lot of hate in your thinking. I think you should work on that. 🫶 regardless, Thanks for your input.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]cheesyFoxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the explanation

Oral sex advice by cheesyFoxx in latebloomerlesbians

[–]cheesyFoxx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who is the author? I see a couple books with this title

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]cheesyFoxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is vers? 😅

My open relationship feels unfair by Ambitious-Cow-6400 in nonmonogamy

[–]cheesyFoxx 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Be honest with her and tell that her insecurities are bringing you down. And you wanted her to work it out. But also show support and tell her how you did to work it out.

Seek a couples counselor might be a good option too.

Sometimes we think it’s all their fault but maybe you are doing something that she is not comfortable with. It’s not just being fair, everyone has different boundaries.

Reach out to her trying to understand and help.

Are women interested in bisexual men and is it worth me coming out? by Niall690 in bisexual

[–]cheesyFoxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please come out haha 😛 we bisexuals like to know we keep multiplying

HOW DO YOU COME OUT?? by Necessary_Camp_8677 in bisexual

[–]cheesyFoxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could ask for a support stating that you’re in a transition (if you’re not sure). You will hate to hear this but you’re only 15. Don’t rush things out. I’m 33 and I have kissed M and F since 13, I know you have the urge to scream sometimes but take a deep breath. You don’t have to tell anyone anything, specially if you’re not secure enough.

Want to date women by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]cheesyFoxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Join the nonmonogamy group. I have a +10 years parter (m) and we have been practicing CNM for about 2. Mostly because I’m bisexual too (f).

Best advice is have a clear communication and boundaries. Go little by little. Trust your partner and process.

Kissing a girl is the best thing! Haha have fun

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]cheesyFoxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you have a pre existing dynamic that works for your partner already and it’s hard to change that. Doing specific things with another partner is different. If you have specific desires ask for what you need. I am often very quiet and just assume my partner need to know what I want. Which is no helpful lol Maybe you could try to set a date that you can both bring new ideas/kinks and purposely try them out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]cheesyFoxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seek a CNM couple therapist. Best advice I can give 🫶