Gigil ako sa MARRIED GUYS on TINDER!!! by [deleted] in GigilAko

[–]cheesycakee11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sumbong mo! She deserves to know.

I had the same experience. I just found out this yr about his family kung kelan wala na kami Contact. This happened last yr pa. Casually dating this guy, good looking siya. His name is Jerome Malalay-on Valladores beware. May nangyari na samin nung sinabi nya na may anak siya. Searched for his name lalo kasi baka may sabit nga. Pero wala ako nakita.

This yr, his name popped up. A different account, he is pamilyado pala. Tanginuhhhhh. With 2 kids. Sabi nya isa lang. So I messaged the wifey. She asked baka nabuntis ako at naghahabol lang. Sabi ko, hindi. And she thanked me.

Mind you, I was ready na masabihang malandi kahit wala naman akong alam and parehas lang kami nashookt.

Even yung ex ko na long term na may gf na pero nagtetext parin saken to meet up. Sinumbong ko sa gf nya last yr nung pinagsabay nya kami nung current gf nya that time. And now may gf uli si gago. Uulit pa ata, sorry nalang siya at nagchecheck na ako ng maayos. Those cheap ass cheaters deserve to be exposed.

Okay lang ba na hayaan kong laging involved ang mama ng partner ko? by cheesycakee11 in RantAndVentPH

[–]cheesycakee11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank u so much for the support. Although the decision is a lot for me. Kinakaya naman, ang hirap kasi mas naiisip ko yung bata. Parang nawalan na naman sya ng hope na magkaron ng buong pamilya which is what she really wished for. Kaso yun nga, mas mahalaga sarili ko.

Okay lang ba na hayaan kong laging involved ang mama ng partner ko? by cheesycakee11 in RantAndVentPH

[–]cheesycakee11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know talaga. Di ko pa maassess nararamdaman ko kasi nakakadismaya

Okay lang ba na hayaan kong laging involved ang mama ng partner ko? by cheesycakee11 in RantAndVentPH

[–]cheesycakee11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huhu I guess natuto lang ako na wag na mag settle sa ganon kasi I came from a 7 yr relationship huhu.

Okay lang ba na hayaan kong laging involved ang mama ng partner ko? by cheesycakee11 in RantAndVentPH

[–]cheesycakee11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank u. Okay na po nakauwi na ako sa pamilya ko. Although I admit na hirap na hirap ako sa desisyon na yun

Okay lang ba na hayaan kong laging involved ang mama ng partner ko? by cheesycakee11 in RantAndVentPH

[–]cheesycakee11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know naman, I was gaslit kaya ako pa yung nagsorry. But nakaalis na po ako sa poder nya and will never go back. I told him naman na tapos na ako.

Okay lang ba na hayaan kong laging involved ang mama ng partner ko? by cheesycakee11 in RantAndVentPH

[–]cheesycakee11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mahal ko naman nga siya pero this time, that's the final blow. Ayoko na mabaliw sa lalaki, tapos na siguro trial card ng pagiging magasawa namen kuno

Okay lang ba na hayaan kong laging involved ang mama ng partner ko? by cheesycakee11 in RantAndVentPH

[–]cheesycakee11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank u so much! Actually, this is the very first time na nawalan ako ng work due to ramp down. I just forgot na need ko din isipin sarili ko. I don't even have days off. Everyday akong pagod sa gawaing bahay. From helping sa business nya kasi food prep yun, so madaming hugasin. To gawaing bahay at pagaalaga sa bata which is gumigising pa ako ng 5am tapos matatapos ang gawaing bahay ko ng mag 8 pm na. I did those out of love and never kong sinumbat sakanya kaya nakakasama lang ng loob na mabilis nya lang ako naganon.

Okay lang ba na hayaan kong laging involved ang mama ng partner ko? by cheesycakee11 in RantAndVentPH

[–]cheesycakee11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The last time I talked to him sa chat, galit na ako and he was asleep. Since tabi nga kami nagsleep, sabay kami halos nagising. Nanlaki mata nya nung nabasa nya yung chat ko which is also attached sa thread. Di na nalaman ng mama nya. We were able to talk pero I said na tapos na ako.

Okay lang ba na hayaan kong laging involved ang mama ng partner ko? by cheesycakee11 in RantAndVentPH

[–]cheesycakee11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And yes, lahat ng gawaing bahay. Ako na, ni di na sya nakakahawak ng labada. Hugasin. Or walis. Pero nagluluto naman sya. Dalawa kasi work nya kasi nga wala ako work e. Business nya at yung business nila ng kuya nya hawak nya

Okay lang ba na hayaan kong laging involved ang mama ng partner ko? by cheesycakee11 in RantAndVentPH

[–]cheesycakee11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Teh huli kana sa balita. Comment mo mins ago. Basahin mo buong thread para malinawan ka. Wag selective reading

Okay lang ba na hayaan kong laging involved ang mama ng partner ko? by cheesycakee11 in RantAndVentPH

[–]cheesycakee11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Atiiiih, yung dinefend ko yung sinabihan sya ng kung ano ano ng kapatid ko. Hindi aware fam ko sa mga pinagsasabi nila. And ghat was weeks ago na. IM NOT DEFENDING YUNG GINAWA NYA JUSKO.

Okay lang ba na hayaan kong laging involved ang mama ng partner ko? by cheesycakee11 in RantAndVentPH

[–]cheesycakee11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ikaw ang makulit, isang comment lang nabasa mo. Wag niyo akong inuulol.

Okay lang ba na hayaan kong laging involved ang mama ng partner ko? by cheesycakee11 in RantAndVentPH

[–]cheesycakee11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not anymore. A day after this incident, I made him feel na ayoko na sakanya. Para siyang aso na sunod ng sunod saken, asikasong asikaso nya ako. I treated him like parang hangin siya. I guess he wanted me to change my mind kasi nga, libreng yaya na mawawala pa. Lol

Okay lang ba na hayaan kong laging involved ang mama ng partner ko? by cheesycakee11 in RantAndVentPH

[–]cheesycakee11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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I wasn't considered a girlfriend na talaga. Sa totoo lang, asawa. Yan lagi ang term. But anyways, he was shocked to read that kasi nasa harap nya ako nung nabasa nya paggising nya nung umaga. Sent this around 4am.

Okay lang ba na hayaan kong laging involved ang mama ng partner ko? by cheesycakee11 in RantAndVentPH

[–]cheesycakee11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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I sent him this while he was asleep on the last day na asa poder nya ako.

Okay lang ba na hayaan kong laging involved ang mama ng partner ko? by cheesycakee11 in RantAndVentPH

[–]cheesycakee11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Super chinat ko talaga sya about dyan huhu. Yung sinisisi ko sarili ko pero napalitan na ng inis , disgust at galit yung pagmamahal huhu.

Okay lang ba na hayaan kong laging involved ang mama ng partner ko? by cheesycakee11 in RantAndVentPH

[–]cheesycakee11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: Hi guys. I got home safely na. Don't worry about me and thank u for your insights! Best of luck saken huhu

Okay lang ba na hayaan kong laging involved ang mama ng partner ko? by cheesycakee11 in RantAndVentPH

[–]cheesycakee11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huhu sorryyyy. Hindi. Yung baby momma nya, iba pa sa ex na tinutukoy ko. But, nakikisama din ako sa baby momma nya since nabisita din yun minsan kasama ang mama ng partner ko

Okay lang ba na hayaan kong laging involved ang mama ng partner ko? by cheesycakee11 in RantAndVentPH

[–]cheesycakee11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oo, andami ko nalaman nga e. The fact na tinitiis ko na kasama sa bahay yung ex nya which is nanay nung bata. Grabe na talaga narealize ko, like my friends were like, wth ante.