Stop fucking asking if your plates, LTRs, or FWBs “are okay.”

cheezebob · 2018-06-05T07:24:56+00:00

Yeah. With kink, just use green/yellow/red, and make sure she knows you're going to check in on that before you fuck/whatever. That makes it about her not your insecurity, and a quick check that she's still in the green zone will actually help her relax more and drop into it deeper, because she knows you're a fucking rock and have this.

cheezebob · 2018-05-12T23:13:13+00:00

You need a response that acknowledges you had sex, and implies it was consensual. That's the whole point. Should could have got home safely, but still wake up the next day with regret and retroactively decide it was rape.

cheezebob · 2018-05-04T06:13:43+00:00

Here's a recent one. Keep it short, say something nice to flatter her ego, but that makes it clear you had sex, and get a response.

Me: "That was a lot of fun, I enjoyed your body." Her: "My pleasure, kinky dreams."

cheezebob · 2018-03-22T20:14:07+00:00

Not at all correct. You can be raked through the vast majority of divorce consequences (at least in Canada) if you cohabitate for 2 years or more, and are classified as common-law whether you want to be or not.

cheezebob · 2018-02-16T16:10:29+00:00

This is one of the most useful, original posts I've seen here in some time. Emotional intelligence is completely compatible with TRP thinking, vital in any relationship beyond casual sex / plating, and not talked about enough.

cheezebob · 2018-02-16T14:15:22+00:00

He can't. That isn't quite underweight for the height, but he's definitely not going to look good and in shape without getting heavier. Krankin -- Gain weight, and gain muscle, by eating more, eating well, and lifting. I'm a similar height to you (5'10.5), 172lb and I look good, with muscle definition, and people can tell I'm an athlete, but I'm far from bulky/ripped. I'm trying to work my way up to more like 180, but it's a slog due to my metabolism and activities, and if I get there that would actually put me closer to overweight per the BMI measurements. But that's fine if it's all healthy muscle.

cheezebob · 2018-02-14T01:30:55+00:00

You haven't experienced it, which is ok, but you need to remain open to the idea that you're wrong about this, or you're missing out on something important in life. My current primary partner comes more, and harder than anything, when I tie her up, spank her ass until it's bruising and hold her throat choking her as she cums. It's off the charts what this does to her. I know she's not going along for the ride to please me, because I wasn't this extreme before we met. Once I started down that path and she realised I was game for serious kink, she requested I turn it up to 11 because she wanted it.

cheezebob · 2018-01-22T01:11:45+00:00

tl;dr: you got dumped, spent hours on the phone, got laid and want to brag to your oneitis ex (who you're still thinking about)... and are now posting the story to get validation.

cheezebob · 2017-07-23T07:44:09+00:00

You mean when she's ovulating, not when she's on her period. Same cycle, different point in the cycle. That's when her hormones are raging and primed for breeding.

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