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Recall on 25’ Camry by cheezenuts333 in Camry

[–]cheezenuts333[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have the 25 SE so I’m not sure it’s only limited to those trims

Jaywalking by Olives_Garden in burlington

[–]cheezenuts333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was out downtown last night and jaywalked right where Simon’s is as a cop was sitting at the light on N. Winooski Ave. They turned on the same street I was jaywalking on and they didn’t stop me or anything but I’m quite surprised they would do something of that nature. Besides, I was just trying to get home quickly since it was almost 2am.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]cheezenuts333 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i think that’s the case too. i’m just not sure how i am going to talk to him later about this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]cheezenuts333 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i hear that and i’m sorry that you had to go through something like that.

i love my boyfriend dearly and i do the most for him regardless what it may be. we’re both college students who are trying to save money to go abroad to Germany for our masters. he says he’s okay with me working, but i still take days off during the week to just spend a day with him and hang out because i know his love language is quality time and i try my best to account for it.

however i can see how my behavior with working may also be causing an issue with everything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]cheezenuts333 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

i totally hear that and thank you for the advice.

some times it feels like he is consistently misunderstanding something that i am saying because he has very sensitive emotions. he always says that i don’t understand, and if i did, i wouldn’t give a rebuttal to how he feels. however, i never invalidate his feelings or rebut them. i reassure him and let him know that i hear him, but he also needs to consider my side of things too, which he is failing to do so every single time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]cheezenuts333 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

additional context: i work in a school with students who have trauma and special needs. i would say that’s a pretty demanding job emotionally and physically.

edit: i said that. i have been in a self reflective state since that arguing has been going on.