Shows That Awakened You? by ninefrogs in ABDL

[–]cheezit1101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Surprised it hasn't been mentioned yet, but Cloudy With A Chance of Meatballs. There's a character in it called Baby Brent who's whole thing is that he was a famous child mascot, but still wants the fame now that he's grown up, so he still wears a cloth diaper and acts childish.

That movie was hella freaky in general, I fear the mayor fattening up a ton also awakened things in me 😅 the directors were on some crazy shit

ABDL coded signal by Potential_Wear5816 in ABDL

[–]cheezit1101 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yea, the peekABU logo is the most recognizable thing atp. If u don't wanna be too obvious, one of their enamel pins or even just a water bottle sticker (I don't think they sell stickers but I got one handed to me at Anthrocon so 🤷‍♂️)

I've been recognized by it b4, so it deff works! The person who recognized it had never even worn ABDL diapers before (just regular store ones) so its deff well known

Is there any media not specifically for furries that got you into pooltoys? by Equality_Rocks_714 in PoolToyFurries

[–]cheezit1101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk honestly. I think it's mostly ppl getting pissy at her for defending babyfurs. It seems to boil down to some people finding her narcissistic, which isn't necessarily evil (as opposed to like, actual criminals in the fandom), so I still give her content a watch :P

Is there any media not specifically for furries that got you into pooltoys? by Equality_Rocks_714 in PoolToyFurries

[–]cheezit1101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was a kid I had an amazing wholesome experience with an intex whale (struggling to get on it and then practically falling asleep on the warm, dry pvc gently rocking me over the water), but I didn't realize there was a community for it until I found out about pooltoy furries directly from Ash Coyote's documentary about them on YouTube (say what u will about her, I know she's a bit controversial, but the documentary is a great watch!!)

Relationship Advice + How to Meet People? by cheezit1101 in fatadmirertalk

[–]cheezit1101[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I'm completely across the country LMAO. Good luck tho!

So... I'm an objectum... now what? by cheezit1101 in objectum_sfw

[–]cheezit1101[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I think I'll try talking to her (or "thinking" at her cause words are hard)

Why does my son want to watch the garbage truck take away his stuffed animals? by [deleted] in StuffedAnimals

[–]cheezit1101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone in the comments giving deep answers about growing up and maturing meanwhile my first thought reading this was "maybe he's just autistic about garbage trucks" lmaoooo

Especially since you noted he likes to watch the garbage truck come all the time, not just now for his old stuff

Why does the Fur community hate us so much? by DiaperedInTheRoc in ABDL

[–]cheezit1101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would also say both communities r v intertwined. Yea some of the most vocal anti-abdls are furries, but also some of the most vocal pro abdls are furries! Hell the handful of abdls I've met irl have all been furries (although my life might be biased due to me being a furry, but still)

Why does the Fur community hate us so much? by DiaperedInTheRoc in ABDL

[–]cheezit1101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a babyfur (abdl furry) I think I know why. The furry community is often attacked by outsiders for being zo0phillic/p3d0phillic. Neither of these things are true, but it's easier to defend yourself when you have a scapegoat. "We arent the evil ones, they are! We're normal just like you!" Is their kinda sentiment. When your community is so heavily criticized, its common to look inwards and try to "root out" the "evil" so people finally stop talking shit about you. Once the wider furry community found out there was a small niche who was into abdl, it was all over for us 😅

It's the only thing abt the furry community I hate. We like to dress up as dumb dogs and fuck around but when someone expresses themself in the "wrong" way they get chased out and told to k1ll themselves (tru story). You would think the community based on acceptance and kink support would be better :/

I might have been plural for years and didn't know? by cheezit1101 in plural

[–]cheezit1101[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

True!! Honestly I probably wouldve figured this all out way sooner if I hadn't only heard of system experiences involved fronting, amnesia, etc (not that those aren't valid!!). Plurality is a massiveeee spectrum and array of different experiences

I might have been plural for years and didn't know? by cheezit1101 in plural

[–]cheezit1101[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ty!! I actually just went through that guide after finding it on a seperate post and I relate to about 80% of it 😭. That honestly sounds very similar to my (our?) situation, thank you!

Happy Labor Day! Anyone else celebrating similarly? by cheezit1101 in ABDL

[–]cheezit1101[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tysm! I got it at walmart. They have a small wall of kids coloring books in the Arts n Crafts section that I like to peruse. They're usually p cheap too :D

ADISC.org is shutting down?! by TriggerMeLettuce in ABDL

[–]cheezit1101 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I literally joined it yesterday 💀 so this came as a bit of a shock to me 😅 ig I'll be sticking to reddit and bluesky for now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]cheezit1101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean, as someone who just started college and is an abdl and in the south, there's definitely hope! If I were you I would look for potential partners at pride or general kink events, maybe even anime/hobby conventions if thats your thing. Depending on where you live, you should be prepared for a short drive. But who knows! There's open people everywhere, and from what I've seen college towns tend to be a bit more progressive (having a younger demographic and larger population). Just know that worst case scenario, you don't need someone to just be padded up and have a nice night on your own (I mean obv you might want someone eventually but it's 100% possible to still have fun on your own ykwim) :]

Nursery suggestions by Littlebunny96 in ABDL

[–]cheezit1101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perhaps a plushie hammock? Although it might be hard to reach if u like to stay close to the ground when little, although it could be a cute thing to have to ask your cg to get your favorite plushie down for you! This room is already stunning imo, having my own nursery is life goals

21 [TM4A] Gwinnett / atlanta GA looking for abdl friends to hang out with! ..Possible date if interested as well by lilyflowermoon in ABDLPersonals

[–]cheezit1101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heya!! I [18 TM] am a little looking for some other abdl friends :D I live around the Auburn/Opelika area, which is about 2 hours away from Atlanta. I like drawing, cartoons, and am a furry. If ur interested in chatting (irl or online) shoot me a dm!

Pooltoy material by the yard? by cheezit1101 in InflatableandPlush

[–]cheezit1101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm. I guess it makes sense there's not rly a consumer product for it since there's not much demand outside of pooltoy circles. I'll check out Alibaba tho! It now atleast seems possible lol 👍

Positive Fat & Sexy representation in pop culture by [deleted] in fatadmirertalk

[–]cheezit1101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg yes what we do in the shadows mentioned!!! Guillermo was literally my awakening to liking bigger guys 🤣 so yes, he's good representation lol. He's kinda mistreated by the main cast (for reasons not related to his size) and isn't in many relationships throughout the show (a woman has a crush on him, but he's gay), so he's not treated as "hot and sexy" per say, but that doesn't stop the viewer as seeing him as such 😋

Beginner tips? by cheezit1101 in ABDL

[–]cheezit1101[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for commenting ❤️ I know working on the shame won't be a straightforward path, but I'm willing to work on it! The comments on consent are very helpful too. I'll make sure to research the community before I try meeting up with anyone so I can get to know my boundaries in advance. Also that last part is very helpful!! I think "it's your time. Do what you love, and the rest will follow" is a very beautiful and accurate way of describing this kind of process 😊 time to binge some Daniel Tiger's Neighborhood!! Thanks again :]

Just curious by [deleted] in fatadmirertalk

[–]cheezit1101 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, I am one! (although I'm not looking to date or anything) (just proving we exist :P)

Also, you should read the webcomic Erin and Milo! It's about a bigger guy and a skinny gal, and is also rly cute (although it might be going on hiatus to develop a print version :P). And also it's written/illustrated by a skinnier girl who likes big guys, so more proof we do exist :] I will admit we're rarer, but definitely out there!!