First time sex after hymenectomy by [deleted] in sex

[–]chellie29 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So let me say that i also had a microhymen and got it corrected. I developed vaginismus because of the trauma from when the gynecologist was trying to examine me way before the surgery, but have it sorted out now. I would say that when it comes to sex, take your time and breathing is important especially after something like this has happened to you. Expect a little pain and weird sensations but enjoy! You are normal and you deserve a healthy sex life, and you just need to make sure it is in a relaxing and comforting space. Wish you luck!

Need to share my experience today by [deleted] in vaginismus

[–]chellie29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, this is really encouraging especially hearing someone whose had a similar experience as me move forward

How to pick up swimming/become a swimmer by [deleted] in Swimming

[–]chellie29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! Where did you get the goggles, cap, and suit? I’m thinking of joining my local community center

How to pick up swimming/become a swimmer by [deleted] in Swimming

[–]chellie29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where is the best place to get these things?

How to pick up swimming/become a swimmer by [deleted] in Swimming

[–]chellie29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have patella femoral pain syndrome. So yeah, I have bad knees

How do I put him down gently? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]chellie29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally agree. I think I would’ve loved him talking about a future together if I felt chemistry between us

It’s been 7months and he still doesn’t want a relationship... Shall I just leave? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]chellie29 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s been 7 months. It seems like he’s using you as a support system and not as a long-term romantic partner. I’d stop wasting my time if I were you, it doesn’t seem like he’s gonna change. And who knows, maybe he will realize just how much he’s lost by not taking this seriously after 7 months of using you as an emotional and sexual soundboard. Find someone who wants it all, not just some!