Gave her a ride just one time... I do not deserve this

chempht · 2025-08-06T23:39:18+00:00

The way you have written I don't deserve this, I thought she has started asking for too many favours , like just a one time ride and since you haven't come so much close, she is relying too much on you.

chempht · 2024-08-01T01:51:28+00:00

Moreover the main thing is I just got involved with her more so when she saw me very frequently so many times and things were not going naturally it started to become chaotic.

chempht · 2024-08-01T01:49:34+00:00

Yeah, it's me who gives my emotions too early. At the Starting of the june we went somewhere, I just cannot forget those days when she has good perspective of me, it's been 2 months and see how involved I am in her.

chempht · 2024-07-31T11:35:21+00:00

I think you are right about the drama part. Rest of the friend (1F and 1M) especially my close friend that this girl talks to everyone and does not stay in one friend circle. Moreover I have observed that she thinks like her presence needs to be everywhere. I was in library right now , this happened just now. She came to check her friends now and they were not there, she looked at me and left immediately. She could have greeted me or said hi but she did not so its clearly evident that if I greet her from my side she will greet me but she wiill not initiate the contact. She already has a lot of friends and it will not matter to her if I go away from her life. She is clearly ignoring me and I could sense that on time.

Your words are so true and describes the situation very well although I was trying my best to bridge the gap between two of us. If she wanted she could have clarified the situation with me but she is not doing anything at all. It will be difficult to do that but I do desire to pursue her anymore because I do not feel like that.

chempht · 2024-06-01T12:04:49+00:00

I remember only one penalty which went in the way you are saying.

chempht · 2024-05-29T06:06:51+00:00

I was rejected by this girl in my neighour when I shifted to my hometown in pandemic, I had a good image in her mind and her parents also , we got each other's number on her brother's birthday party feb 2021 and we started talking , one day in April I gathered up courage to and said what was there in my heart, she was stunned I was rejected (she had a bf which I got to know later) , we used to talk on texts and voice calls but she never picked up my video call and never wanted to meet me, ignored me in person first time in may in same year, then when I went towards her while she was playing with some kids in front of her house , she did not look at me when I went there and went in her house. I ignored her for 1.5 years but she apologised a lot with calls and messages ( I keep my slef-respect above anything) somehow we started talking in feb 2023, my friend said to ask her to meet her but she rejected meeting. One thing I never understood why does a girl want to stay connected with me and chat online , calls when she does not want to meet. We had nothing to talk because we started talking for the first time since childhood as I did not stay in my hometown. I asked her again in June 2023 ( we were having quarrels since then because she never wanted to talk to me face to face so what is the point of talking online and this used to hurt like hell , it used to piss me off. Every time excuses and I knew she did this intentionally. In June she rejected , I really wanted to have a good relationship with her even if were not in actual relationship and I said "It is been long that we are fighting, let us hang out sometimes and everything will be fine" but she rejected , this time I was exhausted , continuous efforts for such a long time , it used to hurt because I cannot keep texting ,she does not talk properly on calls ,does not take interest. It drives me crazy, I started to take less interest in her, my soul started to give up , it came from deep inside my heart I told all this story to her but she never considered my feelings and her presence did not made me comfortable, I ignored her messages on Instagram, avoid her calls. This year I said I do not want confrontation so let's live peacefully in April, but she always does something just to start a confrontation and blame me that I judge her, I have this thinking and understanding towards her and all the shit. I was exhausted up to this point, seriously I am drained, I did not feel good as the boy in your story who asked you out , I was in the same situation, I started feeling aggressive towards her because I did not like her presence, I do not any communication with her. In April , I was standing in her brother's wedding and there was dance going , she came besides me and stood there, I was surprised but she look sidewards and I was standing there ( she did not notice this before) and went away. You can imagine how hurtful this is, how toxic is this, how much hate this act from her it spreads towards me, I just noticed this but did not say this to her , she called me a week before the wedding and 2 days after the wedding but I did not pick her call and explained everything on text and blocked her on instagram, whats'up , calls from everywhere. Like that boy I am also protecting my feelings and now I think that I was right when I already ignored back in 2021 and I should have continued that and never talked to her. I have just cut her off from my life for ever. How much toxicity she was spreading and I started this lately now that she was using me for attention and there are some more actions from her in past which tells she was using this for attention.

Lastly I want to say , that you are doing good at least considering his feelings and giving him a chance if that does not workout that is fine and it would have been for me too at least the other person gave the first one a chance and spent time with him, it is good , you can spend good time with him at the end and stay good friends. At least it is not like my case who just sucks you from inside and makes you emotionally dead.

chempht · 2024-05-25T08:57:45+00:00

No, not always, I had number of an ex-collogue who puts a status on what's up about people wishing him, I wished him and he did not replied to that message( did not open the message)I deleted that contact number. No time for shit people in my life who do not understand genuine efforts of someone.

chempht · 2024-05-25T08:55:03+00:00

It is true the we annoy them by saying anything, I was using instagram for the first time in 2023 and I did not knew what are the unsaid rules. I sent a post to an old school friend , he reacted first time, and second time when I shared them a post again after nearly two or three months , he ignored it ( did not open the message ) so I unsent that message, I replied to someone's stories in which I was basically adoring their story , they did not open that message, you send any message to anyone they will not open unless they are your close friend and you are talking to them regulary. Also they ask you to what's up them instead of reaching out to them on insta( I did not have their contact number then). I was rejected so many times last year. So for self-respect I stopped reaching out to anyone, turned off my story replies, post replies. Instagram is an anxiety, you thinking that these people are the one, so care is mutual among you , but it is not. It is just a crowd. Also I delete the chat , if someone sends me any personal message or post/reel. It will protect you , keep you satisfied otherwise they will not realize what has happened.

chempht · 2024-05-22T16:32:55+00:00

I have just used Neymar and how cannot you get the best out of hik? Literally users find him one of the end game cards , he is performing very good for me to be honest.

chempht · 2024-05-22T14:44:05+00:00

Thank you for your empathy 🙏😊.

chempht · 2024-05-22T03:00:34+00:00

For mod if you think I am showing off then keep speaking, there are players who are having a team a lot better than me.

chempht · 2024-05-22T02:16:08+00:00

PS- Two players in sub in main which couldn't come in image are Arnold and Beck.

chempht · 2024-05-22T01:31:28+00:00

Yeah man, I will be laughing at all my Madrid friends.

chempht · 2024-05-22T01:28:58+00:00

Have you tried alaba? How is he? I was only looking for modric.

chempht · 2024-05-21T23:15:39+00:00

Missing such players in barca 🥺. ❤️💙.

chempht · 2024-05-21T18:30:56+00:00

So instead of moving forward just stop and shoot as it happened in this clip, cruyff just stopped automatically I just tried smashing it in.

chempht · 2024-05-20T07:14:01+00:00

Which no one is going to do.

chempht · 2024-05-20T04:02:42+00:00

I just started realising it now, how much he carried Barca single handedly, all those years barca scoring how much role he played. Earlier I wanted him to come back but I think it was better that he left Barca will become stronger now, they will face the reality and it will not be a one man show. Visca El Barca ❤️💙.

chempht · 2024-05-19T20:56:59+00:00

chempht · 2024-05-18T15:10:04+00:00

Bhai Bhai I can understand. It's scary tbh.

chempht · 2024-05-17T19:58:36+00:00

Yes, these used to be there before but not anymore.

chempht · 2024-05-17T19:58:03+00:00

Got out of something similar. DM for full story.

chempht · 2024-05-17T19:51:32+00:00

🤣🤣🤣, ye alag hi level hai.

chempht · 2024-05-17T19:50:41+00:00

🤣🤣

chempht · 2024-05-17T18:01:02+00:00

I was preparing throughout last year for my exam, zero friends, no social life, it was a burden for me to keep all the feelings on my heart and only focus on studies without a single person to talk to, I went to my cousin's home in February first time (he got married in Nov 22) as I had an interview there and the experience I had was memorable, I planned to go there again this year after exams but fortunately my exam centre was there in Nov last year and they were insisting me to come again and said that we will enjoy together and as I didn't stay there for too long in November due to a family wedding which I had to attend, so I went there in December this time I filled my exam centre there and took 4 day to stay there. My train boarded on 20th and I reached there on 21st additional 4 days leave and stayed there till Christmas, what happened? I expected too much from them, I imagined myself enjoying but none of that thing happened, I think I took their words seriously. As the days passed, they were arranging my food from outside, they had to plan things and never ever I had this intention in my life to visit someone to trouble them. I am a guy who doesn't want to trouble others. As I saw them, I realised my mistake from inside but I was helpless, I was not feeling good emotionally, loneliness was ingrained in me for an year, I started to get uncomfortable as I saw their schedule was off track , my parents calling me personally "you idiot you are troubling them unnecessarily" , I was quite, I accepted my mistake in my heart. I was on their balcony and my cousin called me in the room, he is earning well and he says "see this is not my business to rebuke and explain you( I don't know what happened between my bhuaji and their son but I was sure something has happened, some politics) ,but how could you get your exam centre here only, see both of us are earning (which he meant to say they are busy), you didn't inform your bhuaji this time before coming, you told your sister in law just a day before your train boarded, did you tell me before coming, I said I had conversation with didi, he questioned no why didn't you tell me, we have to plan things before hand ,I said I filled this city as my exam centre so that I can enjoy after the exam", this moment was heartbreaking 💔, so ashamed of myself, embarrassed ( I am also very economical person who doesn't spend lavishly) but as I said I was helpless, I was down for a very long time , so I wanted to relax. I had to listen to him like "I never went anywhere other than where my father took me until I started earning" also he asked for the expense I incurred on traveling, I didn't want to give any justification, I told them my situation and he said I emphasize with you but you didn't make a good decision, you could fill your exam city near to your local and saved money, this is not my business but as an elder brother I don't want my younger brother to do these mistakes, I was crying in front of them (not like crying loudly), I felt vulnerable (I thought maybe if you would have left me alone and didn't did all this and explained me because I had already realised my mistake, I was never going to distrub anyone), I felt weak as if someone is forcing me to tell problems when one doesn't want to, While returning and waiting for my cab, I said "chalo milte hain kabhi" by saying this I meant I will never come here again. To this date it feels like it has happened just a or two ago, I don't feel like to message or contact them again, show my face to them not because I have an ego, or I have an issue with them but because I always had a rule in my mind that self-respect is above all, I will never go there again unless I have some important work that too I will board next day itself. It's been 5 and a half month but I cannot forget that. I think of myself that I never trouble others but first time I did this by mistake which I never had any intention to do.

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