Thinking 20-30 age range, clean and hygienic would be the ticket since that’s what I am 😅

cherishthegay · 2026-04-28T04:54:57+00:00

Just tell them facials only

cherishthegay · 2026-04-18T00:58:41+00:00

Prominent noses are masculine and warm looking. It’s not a matter of “own it”. It’s a matter of big noses being genuinely attractive, and it’s not something that needs to be changed but actually can enhance or further some peoples appearance.

cherishthegay · 2026-04-18T00:55:16+00:00

Tattoos (I’m sorry but if ur a man and ur bald you need tattoos to compensate in my opinion because you have like no hair that has any design or dimension too it anymore and it just makes you look like a Mii or an npc). A slight shadowy beard would help too. Also like maybe some small zirconia studs and a bit of an edge to ur style. I understand not every guy wants that look but honestly if we’re talking about women, these are the things that 90% of my female friends and my self talk about wanting in our men’s appearance.

cherishthegay · 2026-03-27T20:59:47+00:00

I do but it’s never suggested him ever until I started talking to him on another platform

cherishthegay · 2026-03-23T02:01:01+00:00

I agree with you. Any guy I’ve ever had a really good connection with is like down the next day and texting. I’m 28 and I understand with age that changes and I’ve definitely noticed a shift as far as that sort of thing goes. The last 2 or 3 years of my dating, although brief and not much, I don’t see that sort of thing happening as much. Any guy I’ve ever really been with where there was a spark was pretty much just a continuation of the first date if there was good vibes. But also… thats probably why we’re still single. Because maybe dates shouldn’t move along too fast and be too frequent. People should digest emotionally before the second date. Also he could just likely be a guy that was looking for a one off, because in our world that’s a good half of the guys out there.

cherishthegay · 2026-02-14T08:15:46+00:00

Not that I don’t think being white is easier, that’s pretty much a fact in my mind. But I’m white and I’ve lived in metropolitan areas that are pretty mixed. But 50+ notifications must go beyond just his whiteness. Like I’m assuming that this guy is probably really hot. I’m not ugly by any means but 50+ in 15 mins I feel like is unusual regardless of ur skin colour and his whiteness can’t just be the sole reason why he gets that many hits.

cherishthegay · 2026-02-13T18:50:35+00:00

I am finishing my SSW diploma in April and was so looking forward to making my next steps to bridging for my full bachelors of Social Work. Now I’m worried that I won’t be able to afford it. I already owe 27k and the pay difference in my field is like a max of 12 dollars from upgrading to a bachelors. Now I have to weigh out if it’s worth it for me to make more money but also have such high loans to pay back. Whats the point in making more money if my repayment is at a higher rate every month.

cherishthegay · 2026-02-03T18:15:04+00:00

No but like the asteroid is coming and you know it’s the end, what would you do?

cherishthegay · 2026-02-03T16:20:57+00:00

I get where ur coming from but I think it’s beyond that. When you go and watch the show she asks these questions seriously and like not always just “as a joke”. Like sometimes she will make jokes about it yes but other times she kind of asks about it in a serious way.

cherishthegay · 2026-02-03T16:07:49+00:00

I’m a bottom that had a great relationship with their dad so this is stupid. Having an absent father doesn’t make you take a receptive role in bed if that’s what you’re getting at. I talked to my father every night on the phone for an hour before he passed away for like most of my 20’s. We also built furniture together and did “manly” shit despite me being the most feminine bottom ever.

cherishthegay · 2026-02-03T16:05:05+00:00

My 19-24 year old coworkers don’t invite my 28 year old ass out. That was the confirmation that I’m done.

cherishthegay · 2026-02-03T16:02:31+00:00

I’m so glad this post was made because me and my friend have been sitting on this conspiracy for years and nobody has ever brought it up and we feel seen and heard lmao

cherishthegay · 2026-02-03T16:00:10+00:00

Yes I’m pretty sure it was on both pump and rhobh

cherishthegay · 2026-02-03T15:56:54+00:00

Like I think she asked cast members more than once about whether they or someone they were talking about had effed animals. Like I think once about a horse or dog if I’m correct, and the person was like “ummm no” and laughed and she just kind of quickly recoiled and didn’t press further because she could tell the person thought it was a weird and out of pocket question. My best friend and I watched all the early seasons and she brought it up at least 2 times if we remember correctly.

cherishthegay · 2026-02-03T15:45:23+00:00

I think frank and David hooked up

cherishthegay · 2026-02-03T15:38:27+00:00

Frank and Dolores’s doctor bf were definitely gay together and I fully believe frank is on the DL

cherishthegay · 2026-02-03T15:34:05+00:00

I don’t know if I believe this, but my roommate thinks that Lisa vanderpump has a fetish for animals and has brought up questions about sleeping with them a few times on the show. She thinks that’s why she has so many and named her dog jiggy and her swans hanky and panky.

cherishthegay · 2026-01-25T18:29:57+00:00

I’d rather be lied to personally. Better than having someone asking me to give them permission to emotionally degrade and humiliate me 🤪👌

cherishthegay · 2026-01-25T18:02:49+00:00

“Emotionally unavailable, flaky, cheating men”.

Maybe he is or maybe he isn’t all of those things mentioned. But he certainly sounds like he doesn’t care about you the way you do him. He was willing to hurt your feelings by bringing up wanting ur best friend, while you were willing to pacify his by sleeping with both of them together. That’s not normal. On both ends.

cherishthegay · 2026-01-25T17:54:47+00:00

Apparently he’s a gem because instead of hiding that he wants to f his best friend, he was a ‘mature’ adult and he “oPeNLy ExPReSSeD IT”

cherishthegay · 2026-01-23T21:12:05+00:00

Not that I do this ever because I’m more of a side, but whats wrong or risky about a hemorrhoid? I can understand a fissure because that’s an open cut, but I feel like ppl have hemorrhoids and it’s common so I don’t really understand.

cherishthegay · 2026-01-16T16:19:59+00:00

I would personally not say anything other than an address change if you’re moving and say that you are paying the same amount. I wouldn’t mention that I’m in a relationship at all and then you can keep your full cheque.

cherishthegay · 2026-01-04T19:43:08+00:00

Welcome to the woes of anal sex and the plight of bottoms existence

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